aphrodisiac

i'm involved in a situation where between my partner and I, anal stimulation is found pleasureable for its "alternativeness" aspect rather than any pleasureable nerve stimulation
(ie the mental rather than physical aspects)

this seems to stop working when we try too often; so my question is this...

other than not doing it very often, are there any other ways of forming an increased association between anal play / stimulation and the sense of naughtiness / taboo?

cheers for your help in advance

Anormalguy

We go with "not doing it very often," but also include talking dirty and/or masturbating & using toys to enhance the experience.

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Craven Morehead

There's always figging

Halx

I would suggest adding more to the experience to couple actual pleasure with the exotic experience of anal. As Anormalguy pointed out, use toys. I would also suggest taking it to different locations or situations.

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Daniel_

I had a vision (after reading this) of a couple deciding the way to keep anal play exciting and thrilling is to do it on the bus...

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Vigilante

If you're bored, you're not doing it right

Add some toys, bigger toys, more fingers, whatever sets you off. When you lose control of yourself (or your partner does), you're doing it right.

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SSJTWIZTA

i forgot all about this. ha

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wooÐs

whooooahooa!

If you meant what it sounds like you meant, it's time to slow the fuck down lol.

blahblah454

Wow woods, way to just put the worst mental image ever in my head.

Lucifer

there is always doing it in the shower...

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Vigilante

Yeah you totally took that the wrong way

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wooÐs

I'm all for open-mindedness, but that almost sent me running.

HannaH13

If neither of you are fully ready for anal penetration ,,, just enjoy the stimulation as part of that comfortable stand-by "foreplay." Nothing wrong (and oh so much is right) about licking this and playing with that. Make each of your backdoors a stop on the sensuality highway ... in the same way your suck each other's nipples, or finger each other's sex. And OBTW ... have some lube on hand (in hand?) as the wetness drives that stimulation you are craving. And if it ain't mutual ... you're really missing out on a lot of fun.