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Old 09-26-2009, 01:29 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What does it all mean?

I found a 30 second clip of my boyfriend jerking off and ejaculating. I think he filmed it with his iphone. All I could see was him from the waist down. Why would he do this?! What does it mean? Can any of you guys shed any light on this matter? I am thoroughly confused....
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Old 09-26-2009, 01:36 PM   #2 (permalink)
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everyone wants their 15 minutes (or less ) of fame. Put it down to narcissism, and dont worry about it. Little boys love to show off..........no matter how old they are.
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Old 09-26-2009, 02:05 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I wouldn't worry over the clip. Just as a guy might taste his own cum, snap photos of his penis, or attempt autofellatio, he may also be curious as to how his masturbation and ejaculation appear from a different perspective. Where was the clip located? Does he expect you to access files in that area? If not, why did you? If so, why not ask him about the clip?
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Old 09-26-2009, 02:44 PM   #4 (permalink)
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could it have been for you? or for another girl or guy? or was it just a simple he wanted to see what it looked like?

why not ask him?
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Old 09-26-2009, 02:53 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I happened upon it by accident. I don't know how he would react if he knew I saw it. I don't think he made it for me though. I was just worried that it was for someone else, and I wanted a second opinion. I am too embarrassed to say anything to him.....I'm a little weirded out by it, actually.
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Old 09-26-2009, 05:37 PM   #6 (permalink)
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If you can't put it out of your mind, you need to ask him why he filmed the clip.
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Old 09-26-2009, 09:45 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I happened upon it by accident. I don't know how he would react if he knew I saw it. I don't think he made it for me though. I was just worried that it was for someone else, and I wanted a second opinion. I am too embarrassed to say anything to him.....I'm a little weirded out by it, actually.
There nothing weird about that video most liikly he was bored an decided to record him self pleasing his self don't read to much into it us guys get bored an do all sought of crazy shit
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Old 09-27-2009, 07:56 AM   #8 (permalink)
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boys will be boys...

what is it they say again..guys need visual stimulation...
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Old 09-27-2009, 09:32 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Who hasn't filmed themself masturbating?

Well, actually, me - I haven't. But I think that there's a huge chance he did it "because he could".
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Old 09-27-2009, 02:54 PM   #10 (permalink)
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He's gay. He's trading it online for videos of other men. Guaranteed.
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Old 09-27-2009, 07:23 PM   #11 (permalink)
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He sure seems to enjoy my box lunch quite a bit for a gay guy.
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Old 09-27-2009, 07:39 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Most guys, given the opportunity, will film themselves. It doesn't mean he is sharing with anyone. He could be, but not neccessarily.
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Old 09-27-2009, 08:49 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I concur with most opinions - he probably did it on impulse, for a lark. I will confess to doing same at one point a while back. Testing the functionality --- yea, that's it!
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Old 09-27-2009, 10:04 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I've filmed myself both for just me, or sending to my wife (and a few occations our "special" friend). Often I realize (after recording it) that it would be wrong to send my wife the video while she's at her parents house, with the kids or at the store. Then I "save" it for later-but forget the whole thing. If you are really bothered by this - ask him, or create your own flick on his phone and have him discover it. Explain (when asked) that you got so hot watching his clip - and then you can have a good conversation before the night big romp
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Old 09-28-2009, 09:39 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Sort of seems like watching yourself in the mirror during sex. As long as it isn't an attachment in his sent items folder, I wouldn't sweat it.
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Old 09-28-2009, 11:35 AM   #16 (permalink)
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I kind of wanna see it.


Don't know why.
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Old 09-28-2009, 12:20 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I'm assuming from your comments you found this on his property and not somewhere out on the internet. Why were you looking?

In any case, he should be innocent until proven guilty. There are many reasons for him to have done this and for you to assume the worst is premature.
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Old 09-28-2009, 01:45 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Whenever I've taken pictures of myself they've been for an SO, usually distant. Don't really think I'd want to see myself doing that. Even when an SO and I have filmed ourselves I really only want to watch the parts with her in them.

If you found it in a generally accessible place then I would ask him. If he accidentally left something logged in that you wouldn't normally see then I'd be a bit more circumspect.
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Old 09-28-2009, 04:37 PM   #19 (permalink)
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If you are really bothered by this - ask him, or create your own flick on his phone and have him discover it. Explain (when asked) that you got so hot watching his clip - and then you can have a good conversation before the night big romp
Agreed. Swapping home-made videos with your SO can be quite erotic. Maybe he is thinking along these lines but needs some impetus from you to broach the subject. Approach him in a spirit of fun and erotic exploration. It might just come (eh) to be fun for you both....

Otherwise, I wouldn't worry too much about it. With all the easy ways there are to film yourself these days, he probably just did it for a laugh anyway.
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Old 09-28-2009, 07:06 PM   #20 (permalink)
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There's not enough information here to form any kind of valid opinion...

I'm guessing that's because you don't have enough information either. If it bugs you, tell him you stumbled across it and it bugs you. It's pretty simple. If it can't be handled that way, there are deeper problems than a 30 second clip of him blowing a load....
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Old 09-30-2009, 10:24 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I kind of wanna see it.


Don't know why.
now why the f*** will you wanna see another dude beating himself
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Old 10-01-2009, 06:33 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Don't stress. Every time I get a digital camera, phone, etc that takes pictures or videos, the first thing I do is take pix of my privates. hehehe
Sometimes I send them to hubby, to tease him at work or whatever, but sometimes I dont. He freaked out once when he saw some pics that I took and never sent him - I just thought they were kind of boring - he thought I was sending them to some one else or posting them online or something. But that was not the case and he is fine now.

On a side note, he takes pics and vids for me too. I mean, cumming is fun, right? And guys are visual creatures. He probably just wanted to give it a try.

If I were you, I'd snag his iphone and make a video of yourself masturbating and leave it for him to find. He will love it!
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