jaymoney

I know this question has been asked a million times. But what I wnat to know is why do a majority of girls hate to swallow or for that matter even take a cumshot in the mouth. And what do you think of girls who do like it

StellaLuna

Texture. And, in the case of my ex, flavor.... he drank about 3 2-liter bottles of Dr. Pepper every damn day, and that was disgusting. Poor guy never got a bj after that. Even too much beer the night before is too much for me after processing!

And I really want to know what YOU think of "girls who do like it". I'm suspicious of that sentence.

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Xerxys

Just so you know ... I LOVE LOVE LOVE girls who do like it.

Dr. Pepper, I never liked it in the first place and now I probably never will.

Stella, what do YOU think of guys who drink 3 2-Liter bottles of Coca Cola Classic every damn day?

lostgirl

I swallow, no problem. I never even think about spitting.

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StellaLuna

With the ratbastid-- it hasn't been a problem from minute one, unless I'm already a bit ill (or too much beer in the boy the night before).

I think they're lovely people, possibly misunderstood and maybe out of touch with their feelings toward society. Also, I think they're never getting any kind of squidgy love from this girl.

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noodle

I can't think of a time that I spit with my ex. Ever. And I never thought anything about anyone else that did or did not. It's just a preference to or not to.

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im2smrt4u

For those who always swallow, does it always taste good, or does that not matter?

For starkizzer, it seems like it is 50/50. I'm pretty sure that it is all about the taste (and sometimes texture) for her. If it is bad, she'll spit, but sometimes she loves to swallow and wishes there were more.

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lostgirl

It doesn't always taste good, but doesn't matter, I will always swallow.

I understand that for most women who don't, it is a texture as well as a taste issue. I can understand, but I love to make my man cum, and just want to have it inside me one way or another.

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noodle

it wasn't always delicious.
but it was often more of an annoyance to go away and spit.
and, it was just more of a turn on for him to know that i would swallow.
since it didn't bother me, taste or texture, i wouldn't have thought of spitting.

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Vigilante

My wife freaks and gags. I would swallow before she did LOL

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Cervantes

Taste and texture is the two top reasons I've heard for women not wanting to orally claim the reward for their hard work. But then again I've been with two women who didn't like it initially then as time passed by they grew accustomed to it (even enjoying it) saying that it's an acquired taste so I dunno.

I guess how gross the woman think it is before she even tries it plays a big role.

I've tasted my own (and I do suggest you do that as well before you request a woman to do it, because if you cant stand it yourself, how can you expect her to just take it like a champ?), it's not good, but it's not disgusting either, kind of a weird texture but meh, it's nothing even close to being offensive.

To the second question, I love when a woman takes it in her mouth, and if she swallows it's even better..

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jaymoney

I find it a turn when a wants me to finish in her mouth it does not matter weather she spits or swallows the latter being a bonus though

PonyPotato

I suppose I share lostgirl's views in this regard.

If there's a bad taste or unpleasant texture involved, I'd personally rather swallow than hold said unpleasant taste/texture in my mouth until I am able to spit. That just seems like a no brainer to me.

If the taste is particularly bad, I just try to rinse my mouth out soon after and drink some water (or other beverage of choice) to wash it down.

What bothers me is if a guy refuses to kiss me after either me going down on him or him going down on me.

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Vigilante

Haha that's the way my wife is. She refuses to kiss me if I've gone down on her.

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jaymoney

I have no problem kissing a girl after oral. Most times during sex I go back and fourth between penatration and munhing on the rug

Xerxys

I really hate that phrase, munching on the rug ... can't we just call it cj?

StellaLuna

YES.

I guess I could clarify, too-- I understand that it's easier to get rid of the taste by going ahead and swallowing. The thing is, I puked both times I tried that with the ex (who shall henceforth be called Dr. Pepper). Straight up gagged and vomited. I know it wasn't the act itself that did it, it was that damn taste. I came close to throwing up with ratbastid the first time I went down the morning after he'd had a pretty great drunken night. Same thing... gag, gag, gag. That hadn't happened with him before. So now, I just won't. It's my rule. I feel like it's more attractive to simply deny it than it would be to puke on him.


Still haven't heard from the OP... you there?

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Daniel_

That's just plain rude! (to refuse to kiss a girl).

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Toaster126

I find the question as ridiculous as I would if someone spit. No brainer.

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Not sure I am much help but my ex wife thought oral of any kind was disgusting. My current girlfriend loves to swallow. It is a huge turn on to finish in her mouth.

Daniel_

We should form a club - this is my story too.

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jaymoney

Point taken cj it is

mixedmedia

While I don't find the taste or texture to be particularly objectionable, like PonyP said, you notice much less of the taste and texture if you do swallow. Well, unless you finish him off by hand, that is. Sometimes that's nice, too, though.

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MSD

If a woman could spend a day in a man's body and feel the difference between being finished off by hand after getting blown and being finished off with the suction and friction of the mouth, nobody would ever ask this question. If the guy is in far enough, texture and taste shouldn't even be an issue. Just remember, smiling suppresses the gag reflex.

One of my more conservative friends walked into a conversation on blowjobs involving a few people, including one attention whore who acts slutty as hell but is kind of prudish as far as actual sex. They were talking about spit versus swallow, and the more conservative friend seemed taken aback by the question, which she answered "of course I swallow, spitting is just impolite."
They deserve the health problems they get. That's fucking awful.

ChilliNy

I spit, not swallow. I just started letting him come in my mouth, I used to grab a tissue after the BJ and he would finish in that. So, the fact I take it is a step up.

CinnamonGirl

Yes.


Yes.


Yes.


...I don't suppose I have anything else to add here, since everyone has said what I wanted to say.

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Seaver

Spit or Swallow doesn't matter.

But honestly, if you don't let him cum in your mouth... imagine this.

He's kissing you all over in the right spots. Hitting the clit with his tongue just perfectly to the right tempo, your toes begin to curl, your heart is pounding, you're breathing hard, your back arches... you're right on the edge......

then uses his thumb to finish it.

Sucks don't it?

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Daniel_

Payback's a bitch.

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mixedmedia

If someone really can't stomach the taste or texture isn't it better than nothing? Or would you rather have no oral sex at all?

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StephanieH

for me it's not ALWAYS good or bad tasting, it depends on my mood, where we are, etc. I always swallow if clean up is going to be tricky (like in the car or at work) but sometimes I like to see it, so I might aim it on my chest or stomach.

We like to mix it up. Who wants to do it exactly the same way every time?

Toaster126

Everyone can.

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noodle

Meh. Spitting's for pussies.





*snort*

That's all I have to say about this any more.

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mixedmedia

hah, how convenient

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ring

I googled 'the amount of calories in semen', and this was on the first page.

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...ent-semen.html

dippin

if someone dislikes the taste of sperm, there is always this:

Natural Harvest - A Collection of Semen-Based Recipes by Fotie Photenhauer (Book) in Cooking

Xerxys

^^ Ohh GOD! If you value you sanity do not click on that link!!

nikkiana

I tend to find the idea of spitting gross personally.... So, I either swallow or it doesn't go into my mouth to begin with.

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HannaH13

Excuse me sensuality freaks ...... there is a third option that nobody is talking about:
Spit ,,,,,, Swallow ,,,,, or Share.

What women know and men stil can't seem to figure out is that when he "finishes" (wherever he "finishes") it ain't really finished. There is a lot more sensuality to be had and the intimacy that takes place between warm wet willing mouths is another beginning waiting to be enjoyed.

Think about it as "going up" on your lover.

jaymoney

You would think sharing my semen with her throat would be considered sharing

Lady Bear Cub

in my opinion, whether to spit or swallow is mostly determined by the taste.