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npj · 07-09-2009, 09:27 AM

hello one and all!

i just join this site today to get some feed back! I (male 44) with girl freind for 2 years now (34) we have a good sex life , she is very shy to talk about sex but has really come out of her shell, one the the things she spoke of was exibitionism! She said it really turns her on but would never do it.

I am very open and have been reading about it and my question is this......how do i help her in a fun safe way to explore this? Maybe some other women here could share some thoughts.

Thanks

Xerxys · 07-09-2009, 11:17 AM

It's really easy, I think I'll start doing it myself. Ditch the girlfriend, get borders, get a squatter who has no where to go. Expose yourself obscenely while she is in the room. And slowly break her psychologically till she sleeps with you and will do whatever you want her to do ....

DISCLAIMER: As a newcomer to the TFP I feel I am obliged to warn you, NEVER EVER listen to me.

lostgirl · 07-09-2009, 11:38 AM

I'm shy about that too. I don't think I would post the nude pics and sex tapes I have of myself, but I never seem to care about walking around naked in front of windows I know people can see in. I may in time get over it and post something. It just takes time and patience, and don't pressure her too much, this is sure to make her not feel like doing it ever.

primal · 07-09-2009, 12:44 PM

I'd start by working with her to help build her sexual/body confidence. If exhibition is something she really desires that confidence will help her get there.

Redlemon · 07-10-2009, 12:54 PM

How about a nude beach? It's a way to be "publicly" naked, but also not offending anybody. Note: no sex on nude beaches.

Jozrael · 07-10-2009, 01:08 PM

Aw that's lame.

Where's a place where it's publicly acceptably to have sex?

Redlemon · 07-10-2009, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Jozrael

Aw that's lame.

Where's a place where it's publicly acceptably to have sex?

Swingers clubs, as far as I can tell. I think (although only from reading, not direct knowledge) that even places like Hedonism discourage public sex.

Zenturian · 07-12-2009, 09:09 AM

A few years ago my girlfriend and I went to a swinger's party. We were invited by her friend who was a photographer. So none of us were swingers and none of us had been to a party like that before. It turned out to be lots of fun.

07-09-2009, 09:27 AM	#1 (permalink)
npj Upright	exhibitionism hello one and all! i just join this site today to get some feed back! I (male 44) with girl freind for 2 years now (34) we have a good sex life , she is very shy to talk about sex but has really come out of her shell, one the the things she spoke of was exibitionism! She said it really turns her on but would never do it. I am very open and have been reading about it and my question is this......how do i help her in a fun safe way to explore this? Maybe some other women here could share some thoughts. Thanks

07-09-2009, 11:38 AM	#3 (permalink)
lostgirl lightform Location: Edge of the deep green sea	I'm shy about that too. I don't think I would post the nude pics and sex tapes I have of myself, but I never seem to care about walking around naked in front of windows I know people can see in. I may in time get over it and post something. It just takes time and patience, and don't pressure her too much, this is sure to make her not feel like doing it ever. __________________ We're about to go through the crucible, but we'll come out the other side. We always arise from our own ashes. Everything returns later in its changed form. - Children of Dune

07-09-2009, 12:44 PM	#4 (permalink)
primal Crazy Location: Oklahoma City	I'd start by working with her to help build her sexual/body confidence. If exhibition is something she really desires that confidence will help her get there. __________________ "Where the white women at?" -Sheriff Bart (Blazing Saddles)

07-10-2009, 12:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
Redlemon Devoted Donor Location: New England	How about a nude beach? It's a way to be "publicly" naked, but also not offending anybody. Note: no sex on nude beaches. __________________ I can't read your signature. Sorry.

07-09-2009, 11:17 AM	#2 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	It's really easy, I think I'll start doing it myself. Ditch the girlfriend, get borders, get a squatter who has no where to go. Expose yourself obscenely while she is in the room. And slowly break her psychologically till she sleeps with you and will do whatever you want her to do .... DISCLAIMER: As a newcomer to the TFP I feel I am obliged to warn you, NEVER EVER listen to me.

07-10-2009, 01:08 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jozrael Junkie	Aw that's lame. Where's a place where it's publicly acceptably to have sex?

07-12-2009, 09:09 AM	#8 (permalink)
Zenturian Banned	A few years ago my girlfriend and I went to a swinger's party. We were invited by her friend who was a photographer. So none of us were swingers and none of us had been to a party like that before. It turned out to be lots of fun.