Douglas6

I am planning to go for a blind date next week-end. It is going to be a first time experience. I am on the look-out for dating idea and suggestions so that I can go about it well enough

ItWasMe

Do you know anything about her? Favorite type of foods? Into sports? Allergies that would exclude places with much grass or flowers?

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DaniGirl

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CinnamonGirl

I've never been on a blind date, so I can't help you with that aspect. Like ItWasMe said, do you know anything about her at all? That would be extremely helpful.


I would suggest NOT doing the typical "dinner and a movie" thing. But then, apparently, I'm a little abnormal compared to other girls. *shrug*

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Hyacinthe

Depends how serious you want this first meeting to be really.

Dinner and a movie can work, tried and true but if you meet her and then decide you don't like her you're trapped in her company for atleast a few hours and conversation can be hard to make for that length of time.

Personally I would say pick something you enjoy, one of the best dates I have ever been on was visiting the zoo with a biology student, animals were a major part of his life and watching him becoming so passionate about them as he talked to me was a valuable insight into his life and something I appreciated.

Otherwise you culd try something as simple as bowling or pool - gives you something to talk about and maybe an excuse to touch her if you do feel some chemistry - you know the whole "here let me teach you how to hold a pool cue" type deal

My only real suggestion would be to do something that lends itself to conversation easily so that you can avoid long periods of awkward silence.

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Iliftrocks

Who set up the blind date? Maybe they might have some suggestions about likes/dislikes.....

Don't try to wow too much on the first date though. Keep is simple ( not necessarily cheap though ). Talk, interact over a game of pool, get a coffee/icecream, discuss movies....

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Martian

This is a good start.

I'm against dinner and a movie on general principle. I've used it before, but for the most part something unique and interesting is going to be better.

First date type stuff is generally 'getting to know you' terrain. Pick something that gives you lots of opportunities to chat and get to know each other.

Coffee's a bit too casual for my tastes. I'd rather do something like a nature hike and picnic.

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thespian86

I think dinner is acceptable, as long as it's an original place; don't take her to East Side Marios or something. Movie is lazy and leaves no room for interaction/conversation.

I'd say going out for dinner/drinks is a good start. Maybe go more then one place, walk around a bit, etc. Don't go over the top or be too "original" because it can send the wrong signal (not that I think there is anything wrong with it).

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telekinetic

Just take craig robinson's advice:

Let's Get Sexy with Craig Robinson from FOD Team, Comedy Fetish, and Craig Robinson

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Xerxys

Hey look on the bright side, if she's blind, your chances of getting laid are great!!

eribrav

Many places have street festivals/art fairs/carnivals this time of year.
Makes for a great first date. No pressure, stuff to see and do and laugh at so you're not pressured into conversation like you would be at the dinner table.

Puttz

I met my wife on a blind date... for prom no less.

I called and talked with her on the phone before we met at the restaurant with our mutual friends. Don't be so worried about what you are going to do or can do, just go with the flow. Be natural, be yourself.

cyklone

My all time favourite is a picnic. I have found it easier to get to know women and have had more fun just by organising a good picnic. You are in a position where you have to talk and if you find she is boring you can pack up early or go for a walk etc. If you include nice food, a bottle of champagne and good glasses you are almost guaranteed a great night as well.

CinnamonGirl

Have you gone yet? Or is it this upcoming weekend? We need updates!

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Bear Cub

Introduce yourself, slap her ass, and get down to business. If she goes with it, you've got a winner. If she doesn't, it was worth it anyways.

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purplelirpa

go where you're most comfortable and confident

SabrinaFair

If you do go the dinner-and-movie route, I would suggest to you what I've often suggested to my guy friends--go to the movie first, then grab dinner. That way, you have a shared experience to talk about over dinner. It's a nice segue into pleasant conversation that doesn't feel like the normally first date round of 20 questions.

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