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Old 06-20-2009, 11:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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options for single men in houston

I've been doing some reading lately on the net about swingers clubs or sex clubs, and most of them tend to alienate single men. At least, that has been my experience so far. What are some options for a single male in the houston area interested in the swinger or sex club experience?
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Old 06-20-2009, 11:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Well, I don't live in Houston, but swinging involves couples. It seems natural they would look down on a single guy...
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Old 06-20-2009, 11:56 PM   #3 (permalink)
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That seems true, though they are often interested in single women. Even so, is anyone aware of sex clubs or groups that are not swingers or do these not exist?
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Old 06-21-2009, 12:12 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Perhaps the most valuable resource on the planet, especially where this type of activity is concerned.

Turns out there is never a shortage of Eagerus Cockus.
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Old 06-21-2009, 12:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Right, that's my thought. I guess more what I'm asking is does anybody know the best way to find clubs/groups of single females interested? Thanks.
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Old 06-21-2009, 12:58 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Check here ...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...s-houston.html

Also wait for james t kirk and see if he can offer any advice on spotting some of these clubs.
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Old 06-21-2009, 02:34 AM   #7 (permalink)
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all right. thanks. i'll wait for him.
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Old 06-21-2009, 03:25 AM   #8 (permalink)
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you dont have to wait for him. you could send him a polite PM, and ask nicely.

he's always willing to help though.

let us know how you go with your plans..id be interested to see how things pan out for you
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Old 06-22-2009, 01:58 PM   #9 (permalink)
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maybe try and find a single girl to bring with you, that way you are not "useless"!
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Old 06-23-2009, 07:25 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Right, that's my thought. I guess more what I'm asking is does anybody know the best way to find clubs/groups of single females interested? Thanks.
That's like saying, "Hey, anybody know where they put the holy grail?"
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Old 06-23-2009, 09:44 PM   #11 (permalink)
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True, but can't hurt to ask. Maybe somebody knows something I don't know.
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Old 06-24-2009, 09:29 AM   #12 (permalink)
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If a swinger's club lets single men in, the male to female ratio is going to be skewed to the point that either a bunch of guys are standing around doing nothing, or every couple is OK with MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMFMMMMM sex.

If you're looking to fuck, go to a bar and go home with someone. If it's the swinger/sex club part you're interested in and you don't have anyone to go with, put an ad on Craigslist (or a personal's site if you're more patient) explicitly stating that you're looking for a woman to accompany you to one.
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Old 06-24-2009, 09:46 AM   #13 (permalink)
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True, but can't hurt to ask. Maybe somebody knows something I don't know.
Kinda seems like EVERYBODY knows something you don't know, on this one...
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Old 06-24-2009, 03:00 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Well, I dunno about Houston as I've never been to Texas. (I was watching this show on ABC last night about teenage parents and they showed a sex ed class in Boston vs. one in Texas. Scary how they go about it in Texas - making kids sign these stupid abstinance cards, putting the fear of sex into their heads, etc. I wish I was back in High School in Texas and I'd laugh in their faces. Anyway, I digress....)

I've only been to two swingers clubs and both are in Toronto. Both feature on site sex where essentially there is the "front room" and the "back room". The front room is a bar like any other (except there is nudity from time to time) and the back room is an all out sex party.

Anway, there is Club M4 - Toronto's Hottest Swingers Club

and Club Wicked

http://www.wickedclub.com/new/home.htm

Long story short, Wicked is a younger crowd (more eye candy) while M4 is an older crowd (mid 30's and up). M4 is more sexual. Both feature lots of swapping going on.

Since I go with my GF, it's not a problem getting in.

Wicked allows select single guys on Friday nights, but only couples on Saturdays. I've only ever been on a Saturday. My GF isn't really interested in a gang bang situation, but I'm all for it if a woman is so inclined. One couple we met - D and L are active swingers and they regularly go to Wicked on Friday nights so she can gang bang. (I find that interesting because I don't find her that responsive in bed, though that could be a case of chemistry between her and I.)

M4 just had their first single guys allowed Friday last week. Saturdays are still all couples. I have no idea whether they are going to repeat the experiment or not. (It's a regular thing at wicked.) Though M4 has Bi Sunday nights regularly which single guys can get in. (Presumably to hook up with couples - dunno, never been.)

So, to the original poster......

Book a flight to Toronto - though there's a garbage strike on right now - so my beautiful northern giant is getting kind of messy

Since sex clubs are legal in Canada, it's not too hard to spot them - just look them up in the phone book! (or on line). The state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation.

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Old 06-24-2009, 04:04 PM   #15 (permalink)
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maybe try smoochies... never been there myself, but from what I hear its a porn shop downstairs with a theatre upstairs... and lots goes on in the theatre... its on I-10 between beltway 8 and 610... red building on the southside.

maybe give LStanley a PM... I know he's been to some of the swinger clubs in the area... dont think he is on too often these days tho.
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Old 06-24-2009, 04:26 PM   #16 (permalink)
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That smoochies place you speak of sounds to me like a bookstore. I've heard of these places ... **chuckles** talk about a sausage fest. I mean, I'm not saying that nothing happens there, just that, a lot of men hang around these areas!! ... and lots pf plenty gay men, moreso .....
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:06 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Very few swinger clubs like single guys, mostly because they are pushy pricks (not saying you are). For that reason couples feel more safe when it's couples only... or couples & single ladies.

About the only way you're going to get into one, is to make friends in the lifestyle, and then basically get invited by them. Or find a "partner" so that you are not single.

Once you do meet someone in the lifestlye though and they introduce you to a couple friends and then they a couple friends you will pretty quickly be accepted into the community... but it's tough. Good luck.
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Old 12-04-2009, 04:00 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I know of 2 clubs in Houston that allow single men and there might be more. It usually costs a bit more and on some nights you have to come with a couple. Search for The Mystery Zone and Temptation Lounge. both are on 1960. Also Dare Ware holds several fetish events per year, they are not specifically for swingers but if you don't have any experience in the area you may try that. You just have to buy a ticket.

my boyfriend and I have a different problem. We like to soft swing with another girl only, talk about the holy grail!!!

---------- Post added at 06:00 PM ---------- Previous post was at 05:59 PM ----------

just came here and didn't realize how old thread is.. oh well.
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Old 12-15-2009, 11:31 PM   #19 (permalink)
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If a swinger's club lets single men in, the male to female ratio is going to be skewed to the point that either a bunch of guys are standing around doing nothing, or every couple is OK with MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMFMMMMM sex.

If you're looking to fuck, go to a bar and go home with someone. If it's the swinger/sex club part you're interested in and you don't have anyone to go with, put an ad on Craigslist (or a personal's site if you're more patient) explicitly stating that you're looking for a woman to accompany you to one.
I think u hav n't go to a sex club before...

k.. then ask someone..
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