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rahl · 03-18-2009, 11:32 AM

My Fiance and I went to a sex toy party a few weeks ago and got some toys to play with. We got a vibrator and anal beads. She has never used a vibe before (I thought I would use it on her), and we want to use the beads on me while getting a handjob. Neither of us have really played or experimented with these before so any pointers, do's or don'ts would be appreciated.

fresnelly · 03-18-2009, 11:42 AM

Lots of lube.

Wash afterwards.

Don't store the batteries inside when not in use. (to prevent corrosion)

Have fun!

Cimarron29414 · 03-18-2009, 11:59 AM

A few weeks ago?!?!?! Whatcha waitin' for? I don't think you can kill yourselves with either of those toys, but then again, I don't know what size anal bead you bought!

rahl · 03-18-2009, 01:26 PM

Ha It was a toy party and it took 7 to 10 business days to get here. Just came in today! I'd appreciate any stories and experiences anyone has had good or bad.

hunnychile · 03-18-2009, 01:37 PM

Be sure to let us know if the beads were fun....

ratbastid · 03-18-2009, 02:21 PM

Tell her to be gentle with the beads. She's not starting a lawn mower.

snowy · 03-18-2009, 02:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ratbastid

Tell her to be gentle with the beads. She's not starting a lawn mower.

What kind of vibe is it? I ask because there are a variety of vibes out there, and depending on what kind it is, my advice may be different. is it designed for clitoral stimulation or is it a g-spot vibe? Or the kind that combines both? What material is it made out of, silicone or hard plastic? One big piece of advice is to keep the toy clean, and to follow the manufacturer's suggestions on caring for your toy.

If you went to a Pure Romance party, I happen to have the catalog sitting right here (I went to one myself on Monday evening).

rahl · 03-18-2009, 03:09 PM

The vibe is clitoral. It's about 4 inches long and made of plastic that is covered in a velvety material for softness. It is also waterproof. My problem is that she NEVER masterbates or has used a vibrator. She gets off most easily through clitoral stimulation though, thats why I wanted to get this for her, she probably won't use it on herself but I would like to use it on her so she can get the extra stimulation that my tongue or finger just can't do

rahl · 03-20-2009, 05:50 PM

Still haven't had a chance to play yet

The fiance has been sick for the last two days. Hopefully Tomorrow!!!

Leto · 03-21-2009, 03:45 AM

this place delivers quickly (and apparently discretely):

Sex toys Canada - PinkCherry Canada adult toys store

prices are reasonable

my sister in law uses their products...

Lucifer · 03-21-2009, 04:30 AM

For Canadians, especially us Haligonians, we swear by Venus Envy.

Pick yourself up a 'we-vibe', best $125 you'll ever spend on a sex toy! Simultaneous g-spot and clitoral vibe, waterproof, rechargeable, carrying case, and you can even fuck while it's inserted!

blahblah454 · 03-21-2009, 08:27 AM

I have to ask lucifer... how do you do it while its inserted? Would it not just get in the way?

I bought some sex toys for my ex here Adult Sex Toys by Adam & Eve - Sex Toys for Men, Couples, Womens Vibrators and Dildos
They came in a few days and came in a unmarked plain brown package box, the bill on my CC was something innocent as well.

rahl · 03-21-2009, 10:30 AM

I guess I'm asking the ladies for some advice on the use of a vibrator. Like I said I've never used one before and neither has she.

How to start? should I just go right for it?
Or should I do a little oral first to get her more comfortable?

Lucifer · 03-21-2009, 12:06 PM

In regards to the We-Vibe, it doesn't get in the way of fucking, but it depends on the position. The vibe is narrowest where your penis is competing with it for space, but a little lube helps there. We found it best either in missionary, or woman on top, but I found it a bit tight from behind, mainly cause it pressed on the urethra when I was inside her, in a way that I found uncomfortable.

Anormalguy · 03-24-2009, 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rahl

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we want to use the beads on me while getting a handjob....

My wife & I haven't tried anal beads, but we've used other toys. You might want to go with an enema first, because in our experience encountering feces is not pleasureable.

Leto · 03-24-2009, 11:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucifer

In regards to the We-Vibe, it doesn't get in the way of fucking, but it depends on the position. The vibe is narrowest where your penis is competing with it for space, but a little lube helps there. We found it best either in missionary, or woman on top, but I found it a bit tight from behind, mainly cause it pressed on the urethra when I was inside her, in a way that I found uncomfortable.

I looked it up, but still can't figure out how it works.

Kinda pricey....

Lucifer · 03-24-2009, 11:43 AM

Oh yeah, it's pricey, but well worth it. I couldn't quite visualize it either until I saw it in action. The larger end fits right up inside the vagina, pressing against the g-spot and the smaller end is on the outside, pressing against the clitoris. Each end has a vibrator inside, and they pulsate one after the other. The vibe actually has enough spring to stay that way, theoretically, your woman could walk around with it on and going, although as I've discovered, she'd be pretty unsteady! Where the vibe is narrowest, is where your penis comes up against it, but there is plenty of room there, it just makes for a tighter fit. The controls are recessed in the smaller head, a 3 way switch (high...off...low) is right between the 'eyes' dimples on the top and the 'nose' dimple is the socket for the charging plug.

Leto · 03-24-2009, 12:04 PM

ahhhh! bach!

Okay, so one end is inside, and one is outside. kinda like a C-clamp with a jiggler inside.

cool.

neobutt · 05-07-2009, 03:20 AM

is there a picture of this somewhere? it's a bit hard for me to visualize :P

Lucifer · 05-07-2009, 04:28 AM

it's pretty much what Leto said, like a C-clamp!

Charlatan · 05-07-2009, 05:33 AM

Now with pictures!

bobby · 05-07-2009, 07:32 AM

next,,,a Wii-vibe ?

xoxoxoo

hawker rider · 05-18-2010, 04:12 AM

I know it's an old thread, but I was looking for a little bit of "spice" and remembered something like this. The We-vibe looks like a fun addition in the bedroom, when I'm there or for my wife solo

I found a little video explanation, not pornographic (unfortunately) but watch the volume as the words clit and g-spot seem to be passing by quite a bit.

SBR.TV - We-Vibe Vibrator demo with "Go Ahead Girl" Erica

03-18-2009, 11:32 AM	#1 (permalink)
rahl Junkie Location: Ohio	Sex toys My Fiance and I went to a sex toy party a few weeks ago and got some toys to play with. We got a vibrator and anal beads. She has never used a vibe before (I thought I would use it on her), and we want to use the beads on me while getting a handjob. Neither of us have really played or experimented with these before so any pointers, do's or don'ts would be appreciated.

03-18-2009, 11:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
fresnelly Functionally Appropriate Location: Toronto	Lots of lube. Wash afterwards. Don't store the batteries inside when not in use. (to prevent corrosion) Have fun! __________________ Building an artificial intelligence that appreciates Mozart is easy. Building an A.I. that appreciates a theme restaurant is the real challenge - Kit Roebuck - Nine Planets Without Intelligent Life

03-18-2009, 11:59 AM	#3 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	A few weeks ago?!?!?! Whatcha waitin' for? I don't think you can kill yourselves with either of those toys, but then again, I don't know what size anal bead you bought! __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

03-18-2009, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
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03-21-2009, 03:45 AM	#10 (permalink)
Leto Junkie Location: The Danforth	this place delivers quickly (and apparently discretely): Sex toys Canada - PinkCherry Canada adult toys store prices are reasonable my sister in law uses their products... __________________ You said you didn't give a fuck about hockey And I never saw someone say that before You held my hand and we walked home the long way You were loosening my grip on Bobby Orr http://dune.wikia.com/wiki/Leto_Atreides_I

03-18-2009, 01:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
rahl Junkie Location: Ohio	Ha It was a toy party and it took 7 to 10 business days to get here. Just came in today! I'd appreciate any stories and experiences anyone has had good or bad.

03-18-2009, 02:21 PM	#6 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Tell her to be gentle with the beads. She's not starting a lawn mower.

03-18-2009, 03:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
rahl Junkie Location: Ohio	The vibe is clitoral. It's about 4 inches long and made of plastic that is covered in a velvety material for softness. It is also waterproof. My problem is that she NEVER masterbates or has used a vibrator. She gets off most easily through clitoral stimulation though, thats why I wanted to get this for her, she probably won't use it on herself but I would like to use it on her so she can get the extra stimulation that my tongue or finger just can't do

03-20-2009, 05:50 PM	#9 (permalink)
rahl Junkie Location: Ohio	Still haven't had a chance to play yet The fiance has been sick for the last two days. Hopefully Tomorrow!!!

03-21-2009, 04:30 AM	#11 (permalink)
Lucifer Husband of Seamaiden Location: Nova Scotia	For Canadians, especially us Haligonians, we swear by Venus Envy. Pick yourself up a 'we-vibe', best $125 you'll ever spend on a sex toy! Simultaneous g-spot and clitoral vibe, waterproof, rechargeable, carrying case, and you can even fuck while it's inserted! __________________ I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. - Job 30:29 1123, 6536, 5321

03-21-2009, 08:27 AM	#12 (permalink)
blahblah454 Let's put a smile on that face Location: On the road...	I have to ask lucifer... how do you do it while its inserted? Would it not just get in the way? I bought some sex toys for my ex here Adult Sex Toys by Adam & Eve - Sex Toys for Men, Couples, Womens Vibrators and Dildos They came in a few days and came in a unmarked plain brown package box, the bill on my CC was something innocent as well.

03-21-2009, 10:30 AM	#13 (permalink)
rahl Junkie Location: Ohio	I guess I'm asking the ladies for some advice on the use of a vibrator. Like I said I've never used one before and neither has she. How to start? should I just go right for it? Or should I do a little oral first to get her more comfortable?

03-21-2009, 12:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
Lucifer Husband of Seamaiden Location: Nova Scotia	In regards to the We-Vibe, it doesn't get in the way of fucking, but it depends on the position. The vibe is narrowest where your penis is competing with it for space, but a little lube helps there. We found it best either in missionary, or woman on top, but I found it a bit tight from behind, mainly cause it pressed on the urethra when I was inside her, in a way that I found uncomfortable. __________________ I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. - Job 30:29 1123, 6536, 5321

03-24-2009, 11:43 AM	#17 (permalink)
Lucifer Husband of Seamaiden Location: Nova Scotia	Oh yeah, it's pricey, but well worth it. I couldn't quite visualize it either until I saw it in action. The larger end fits right up inside the vagina, pressing against the g-spot and the smaller end is on the outside, pressing against the clitoris. Each end has a vibrator inside, and they pulsate one after the other. The vibe actually has enough spring to stay that way, theoretically, your woman could walk around with it on and going, although as I've discovered, she'd be pretty unsteady! Where the vibe is narrowest, is where your penis comes up against it, but there is plenty of room there, it just makes for a tighter fit. The controls are recessed in the smaller head, a 3 way switch (high...off...low) is right between the 'eyes' dimples on the top and the 'nose' dimple is the socket for the charging plug. __________________ I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. - Job 30:29 1123, 6536, 5321

03-24-2009, 12:04 PM	#18 (permalink)
Leto Junkie Location: The Danforth	ahhhh! bach! Okay, so one end is inside, and one is outside. kinda like a C-clamp with a jiggler inside. cool. __________________ You said you didn't give a fuck about hockey And I never saw someone say that before You held my hand and we walked home the long way You were loosening my grip on Bobby Orr http://dune.wikia.com/wiki/Leto_Atreides_I

05-07-2009, 05:33 AM	#21 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Now with pictures! __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

05-07-2009, 07:32 AM	#22 (permalink)
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05-07-2009, 03:20 AM	#19 (permalink)
neobutt Upright	is there a picture of this somewhere? it's a bit hard for me to visualize :P __________________ Check out my blog in my profile page.

05-07-2009, 04:28 AM	#20 (permalink)
Lucifer Husband of Seamaiden Location: Nova Scotia	it's pretty much what Leto said, like a C-clamp! __________________ I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. - Job 30:29 1123, 6536, 5321 Last edited by Lucifer; 05-07-2009 at 04:31 AM..

05-18-2010, 04:12 AM	#23 (permalink)
hawker rider Upright Location: Florida and all over the world	I know it's an old thread, but I was looking for a little bit of "spice" and remembered something like this. The We-vibe looks like a fun addition in the bedroom, when I'm there or for my wife solo I found a little video explanation, not pornographic (unfortunately) but watch the volume as the words clit and g-spot seem to be passing by quite a bit. SBR.TV - We-Vibe Vibrator demo with "Go Ahead Girl" Erica