BlackIce

Well I've always wanted to be at a place where something like an orgy is taking place and I'm just watching all the stuff go down with possibly joining in on the fun. My gf has the same mindset as I do. Is this weird? How often would you guys say this actually goes on? I'm in NJ

Manic_Skafe

I'd imagine that this would be a good place to start the search.

There are plenty of swingers clubs in Manhattan so I'd imagine you'd have some in Jersey as well.

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Xerxys

You know what this reminds me of....

ASU2003

Fly out to the San Fernando valley in California. Bring a few thousand dollars and a video camera. Pick out who you want to get together.

Or you have to go through normal procedures like regular swingers do. Get invited to some swinger parties and get accepted.

Or, if you don't want to swing, but just watch other people have sex and be watched having sex with your wife, throw a small party at your house with a few couples and get it on.

I don't know, what ideas do you think might work?

Milnoc

Head to Montreal. Auberge 1082 / Bienvenue

Xerxys

Dammit...... I'm checking out all these places and there's either a limit on single males or not allowed at all.

Why is there NEVER a shortage of single males??!!!

/Rant

Charlatan

Go to Amsterdam...

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cameroncrazy822

You can come over my house at about 9:30 this evening.... hopefully I will be able to ablige you in your voyeuristic endeavor. It all depends on my wife though.

vanblah

Is that a rhetorical question?

Deltona Couple

Ya beat me to it! I was gonna say that! lol.

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Bacchanal

I don't know if it's caught on in the US or not, but search for "dogging" in New Jersey.

If you're unsure what dogging is, check this out:
Dogging Craze Has Brits in Heat

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ASU2003

Maybe the big cities in the US will see dogging, but I'm not sure about the smaller towns.

I have heard about the furries, maybe that is what scene the OP needs to look into.

Xerxys

I should have ended with /moan instead if /rant ........ I sadly fall under the single male category.

[bummed]

james t kirk

Toronto:

Wicked (It's a Swinger's Club). They allow single males on Fridays.

http://www.wickedclub.com/


or Menage a Quatre (also a Swinger's club in Toronto). They only allow couples.

Online Dating at menageaquatre.com, powered by SkaDate Dating Software

And yes, I've been to both.

MSD

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