Rowlf

Let's see, not much to this really. I love this girl who I've been seeing for almost two years in a long distance relationship. In those two years, we've done everything together, but I have yet to spurt forth at all. I can satisfy her, and do so whenever we see each other. I masturbate often (more than I should, we'll just leave it at that), and I'm afraid this may be the prob, Bob. She's never been with a guy in the ways we have been together, and vice versa. Is this my problem or hers? Do rookies (female) often have times finishing what they start? Or is it just because I'm a wanker?

lurkette

Try not masturbating for a while, see if that helps. Could be you're just wearing yourself out. If not, you might want to talk to a therapist. If you can finish the deed by yourself but not with her, sounds like a mind issue and not a physical one.

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rogue49

I found myself going & going without finishing at times
Fortunately, the ladies I was with allowed me to get myself off after with some assistance from them.

After those times, it might be time not to masterbate as much.
You might be doing it to take the edge off,
but after awhile the pressure of your hand, is more than a pussy can do,
and also the frequency can be a factor
both of these will make it so you can't finish off,
and if after a while...not keep it up.

Everything in moderation.

Slims

Edited: Bad advice.

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cheerios

...yeah, everyone's hit the high points. relax. remember, sex is for fun, for pleasure. You shouldn't worry through it. and hey, if it were a girl having this problem, I'd say "don't worry, sex isn't about cumming, it's about the stuff between here and there." I dunno how true that is for guys, though... ah well, either way, RELAX, and don't stress. Oooh, also, have you been sick lately? I notice that neither me or my partner can get off NEARLY as easily when we have colds and the like... (we probably shouldn't be sharin' hte germs around anyway, but that's another topic altogether). long and short of it, if you've been feeling under the weather, try'n get over that, it may help.

LittleOralAnnie

I was actually on the other end of this same kind of relationship. The guy was having problems finishing me off. The only difference is that he was more than happy to keep on going for me until I came.

I can't recall exactly how we cured him, but part of it was for him to stop masturbating so much. He was used to his own hands and how he made himself cum instead of how a warm female body felt. It worked very well and everytime after we were both totally satisfied.

Radio Monk33

Hmm good discussion guys. I've been having troubles getting off from my gf's handjobs and I'm glad its not just me.

I feel that Im under alot more stress and scrutiny when I'm with a girl instead of my hand I guess.

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meff

If you love her enough, whether she satisfies you or not, it doesn't matter. Well, I understand that physical attraction is part of love, in a way, because what I have learned is that if you love this person, her looks no matter how she looks or makes you feel, you will see her as beautiful and she'll satisfy you just because of what you think of her..

Or maybe I'm in a dream world

(edit: clarification.)

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