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Old 11-28-2008, 04:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Old 11-28-2008, 04:17 PM   #2 (permalink)
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The cold sore virus and the genital heres virus are interchangable; so if she has one, she has the capacity for the other. Chances are in most people it doesn't go to both locations, but she can still inect you.

Almost all STIs can be spread by oral, vaginal, and anal sex. Barrier contraception is a must - oal sex should still use a condom.

That said, if she has a recent cold sore episode, having her mouth on your cock is a bad idea, as is haing her mouth near your mouth.

Condoms will make it less likely that you catch a dose, but there is NO WAY to make the risk zero.
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Old 11-28-2008, 04:24 PM   #3 (permalink)
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It was about a month ago when I spotted the cold sore.
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Old 11-28-2008, 04:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
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#1) is there a way i can be sure that she does and/or does not have any std's (im esp concerned about herpes)?
Ask her to get tested, thats the best way.
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Old 11-28-2008, 04:36 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 11-28-2008, 06:28 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Fact is you don't

Every one night stand or random make out session at a club puts you at risk of contracting an STI of some kind, the only way to be sure that your partner is clean is to convince them to get tested.

Using a condom is ALWAYS a good idea, sorry that oral sexs won't feel as good for you but is it worth risking getting herpes or hepatitis ?

As for the risk of catching something - well these ar the world wide statistics for CURABLE STI's in 1999

Region Adult population (millions)1 Infected adults (millions) Infected adults per 1,000 population New infections in 1999 (millions)

North America 156 3 19 14
Western Europe 203 4 20 17
North Africa & Middle East 165 3.5 21 10
Eastern Europe & Central Europe 205 6 29 22
Sub-Saharan Africa 269 32 119 69
South & Southeast Asia 955 48 50 151
East Asia & Pacfic 815 6 7 18
Australia & New Zealand 11 0.3 27 1
Latin America & Carribean 260 18.5 71 38
Total 3040 116.5 - 340


(Sorry I can't seem to get the spacing to work right)



The estimated total number of people living in the US with a viral STD/STI is over 65 million. Every year, there are at least 19 million new cases of STDs/STIs, some of which are curable.

As for preventing getting it yourself well ...

* Mutual monogamy – having sex with only one, uninfected partner who only has sex with you.

* Limiting the number of sex partners to reduce possible exposure to STDs/STIs.

* Talking with your partner(s) about STDs/STIs, sexual health, and prevention prior to sexual activity. Open communication fosters trust and respect among partners and is a key aspect of reducing the risks for STDs/STIs.
* If you or your partner have had other partners, both of you may want to get tested before becoming sexually active with each other. Many STDs/STIs can be “silent,” causing no noticeable symptoms in men or women.

* Using latex condoms consistently and correctly for all types of sexual contact (oral, vaginal, anal), even if penetration does not take place. Click here for the right way to use a condom.

* Using spermicides is not recommended as they can irritate the skin or vaginal tissue and, especially for women, cause abrasions (tiny openings in skin) that may make it easier to contract STDs/STIs.

* Having regular check-ups, at least once yearly, if you are sexually active. Don’t be afraid to talk honestly with your health care provider about your sexual practices or to ask about STD/STI tests, including determining which STDs/STIs you’ve been tested for – and which you haven’t been.

* If you and/or your partner has a bacterial STD, don’t have sex (oral, vaginal, or anal) until all partners have been treated.


Sorry I don't have better news for you
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Old 11-28-2008, 08:23 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Old 11-29-2008, 11:42 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Read the above facts regarding herpes.
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Fucking whores...cant hate them, cant love them.

i dont even know if this girl is a whore but w.e....if i found a girl at a bar, how do i know if shes safe to kiss (or have oral sex with) lol? for sex, id obv use a condom so im not thattt concerned about it. but oral sex isnt the same with a condom.
And ironically, I've been called a misogynist...

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Old 11-29-2008, 10:10 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I interpreted the whore comment to be directed at both males and females of promiscuous nature - is the onyl reason I didn't comment on it
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Old 11-29-2008, 10:44 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Old 11-30-2008, 02:32 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I mean yeah..a man can be a whore too. So far i havent been..but I was thinking about becoming one lol. i guess i dont have the stomach to take up that risk.
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Old 11-30-2008, 07:28 PM   #12 (permalink)
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im thinking about getting a dental dam lol...
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Old 12-01-2008, 06:36 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Dental dams like condoms help but don't absolutely 100% prevent you getting an STI paparora

If you just want sex I'd find a female friend who is in the same boat and suggest a FwB arrangement, providing ofcourse that you are one of those people that chooses not to use pro's for those pesky physical urges.
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