Age division?

I noticed something interesting at a former job. One of the guys (in his early 30s) in the office frequently dropped comments about his endowment, for example, "When I was playing football I didn't mind wearing a jock strap, but I had a hard finding one that fit, ha, ha, ha." The girls (I use girls intentionally) were ga-ga over this guy, while the older (I don't mean old) ladies would give him 'Why-don't-you-grow-up?' looks.

To make matters worse, he'd go into greater detail when it was just us guys.

I always thought it was strange, perhaps even sad, that a guy his age would feel the need to brag about his dick.

+1 Very true. I "added" at least 3/4" when I dropped 35 lbs.

I dunno if size does matter to me in complete honesty.

I have been with guys on the larger side that have left me numb and those less then average that have had me coming like a freight train.

I think to me it is more about personality and the connection between myself and the other individual in question then size as to where I base my pleasure during sex.

Thank you for a great analogy, & giving a lot guys a confidence boost :icare:.

BTW your avatar is great!

So then what is too small? I know I'm below average in length and average in girth and my wife doesn't complain. But I'm just wondering when is below average too small?

The SO added the analogy "Going off like a car alarm" today - apparently it's from some comedian

I dunno Jim - I doubt anyone can really say that as it would depend on the size and preferences of the woman / man you were with at the time.

hehe one of my faves is "going off like a frog in a sock" :)

I have no idea, but if the percentages in that poll (nice find, RetroGunslinger!) are trully accurate, I would be in trouble in the 'open market.'

I go with the thought that my wife loves me, enjoys making love with me, & isn't doing any comparrison shopping.

A factor that goes often unnoticed and unspoken is not the dick size but its shape...My friend and I both had sex with the same woman and even though my dick is almost an inch longer than he is and we lasted about same amount of time (According to her) she said she enjoyed him more because of the shape of his head...she said it was simply more pleasing in her vagina. So while size may very well be a factor it isnt the one and only factor...A lot of its up to the woman as well im sure every woman has a different dick shape and size that pleases her the most...

Anyway just thought I would bring up the topic of shape alongside size...I'm interested to hear some other peoples opinions on this.

I have a fairly pronounced corona (I think that's the correct name), & my wife likes how it "pops" in and out. She sometimes uses her teeth during oral foreplay to further enlarge it.

According to this website (Is your penis too small? :: Get Penis Perfection :: Mens Health), the average penis length is 5.03 inches. I was surprised! But all in all it probably has more to do with other things besides size, like almost everyone else has said. Even if you prefer large breasts, a girl with 38 DD can still be a bad bang.

A small PENIS should come with a WARNING label! - Love + Sex on Shine

This article is a little harsh, but probably accurate for many people.

I don't worry about my size because I have nothing to worry about. It's big enough, but not too big that it wouldn't go in all the way.

..

The girl's attitude was somewhat harsh, but it could be that she really does need a cock of at least a certain size in order to enjoy sex. What I really enjoyed reading were the responses that others posted, most folks gave her hell.

from the looks of this thread, either 90% of men consider themselves to be above average (or at least they (falsely?) advertise it as so), or there's a lot of big-dick men here on TFP

Studies have shown that TFP does have a disproportionate amount of "hot girls" and "guys with huge dicks."

Or maybe that's hot guys and girls with huge dicks.

Er, something.

Yeah cromps, let's make TFP for the elite, pegeon hole folk, only the chicks hung like horses or guys who have tentacles or breasts can join!!

size mattering depends completely on the couple i think. I totally would not be able to relax if i guy was so big i was worried about getting hurt

Yes, only because I wouldn't want it to be so small it is always coming out. I don't need a big one to be satisfied.

Having the right shape is nice too. I find that some fit better than others and hit just the right spots.

I believe I'm average in the length department but above average in the girth department. I've never had any complaints but in my teens and early 20's I was always worried I was not long enough! It took me quite a few years to realise it really doesn't matter all that much.

I think size does matter to some degree. If it's too small in either size or girth or if the guy is overweight, it comes out often during sex. Plus you want to "know" it's in there. If you can't feel it then what good is it, but at the same time, if the guy makes up for it in other ways, then it's not a problem. Did I just disagree with myself????

hey, i don't take a tape measure with but sure if its normal intercourse yeah a larger one is better for me but for anal which i quite often prefer a small penis is probaly better as it dosent rip me if i'm not aroused enough, so really i'm not too fussy

speak the truth sister i couldnt have said it better myself

I think it all depends on how you use it. Every guy I've been with has been around the same size. Sometimes it slips out and the whole thing just becomes annoying. It's more about length than width in my opinion. I know a lot of people say women can only feel the first three inches, I'm not exactly sure if that's true. But it's the thought of how much is in me that gets me off.

Nice.

That's how real sex goes sometimes. A simple solution: Take a second, get resituated, and continue.

It probably does matter. Curiously though, the best, sexiest and most inventive lover I've had, had a much smaller-than-average penis. And he had the proportional problem as well, in that he was a tall and heavily built man. I've heard other women say that men with smaller dicks tend to be kinkier - and I'm told small penises are more sensitive. Big dicks have visual impact, but a man is more than a penis, thank God.

:lol: This is such a lie..................... girl, men ARE their penises. It's what defines them. We just hide behind our "sensitivity" ... and ... "smartness" ... and ... "thoughtfulness" but really, we are all made and designed around our penises, not any other way!!!

I'm a cynical bastard and I wouldn't go that far.

Quite honestly, preferred size depends on what I am doing with it at the time. But I generally like the one I married.

Speak for yourself!

was this post supposed to be somekind of insult or somehting

---------- Post added at 10:41 AM ---------- Previous post was at 10:35 AM ----------

wow at the comments here so if you ladies are with a guy that isn't big, above average..whatever you are not going to accept him for who he is because he isn't "perfect"?

---------- Post added at 10:45 AM ---------- Previous post was at 10:41 AM ----------

but would you be in a relationship with a guy that isn't your ideal size

Actually I don't think it was meant to be insulting it was meant as a direct response to the number of women who earlier on in this exact same thread said they preferred smaller penii

As to whether I would date a guy that wasn't my preferred size - well I would probably never date a partularly large guy in the penis department to be honest - I enjoy sex and the idea that sex for the rest of our relationship would either be painful for me or frustrating for him because he would never be able to enter me fully and pound away the way I like .

I really don't think that you read much of this thread as every woman on here has said that yes she has a preferred size type but that she would never hold it against the man in question if he didn't fit that. That would be the same as me asking you if you would hold it against a woman because her breasts were smaller or larger then what you preferred.

I don't think there's anything wrong with ending a relationship because the two of you are sexually incompatible and sometimes penhis size can make two people incompatible

Sorry if that sounds harsh but it's just one of those things that happens in life.

Blar, I don't mean to be an ass, but it sounds as though you used "selective reading" when you read this thread.

Very few of the women who have responded said that a guy must have an above-average size penis in order for them to enjoy sex.

Most of the women have indicated that good technique & skill, and/or an emotional connection of some kind, are more important than penis size.

I just felt the question was odd as if the person expected everyone to have to like the same thing as her

---------- Post added at 01:25 AM ---------- Previous post was at 01:23 AM ----------

yes i know and my question was address to those very few women

sorry I asked screwed up in the way I asked the question

As I was reading along in this thread to see what I may want to add to this conversation it hit me. None of the other lady's in this thread mentioned anything about how it works together. I know the question was does size matter but the size and build of the girl equates into how the size of the penis works with her vagina.

Taking myself for example since that's all I can do, I've experienced having a guy that is average length but was way to girthy for me, it just hurt the whole time, so not fun. I've had extremes.

At the end of the day it's all about how you fit together, the size and shapes of both the penis and vagina, because after all it is the shape of the vagina that lets you know if you like the shape and size of the penis.

Well said ... :thumbsup:

Dang!!!