screamincheetah

Okay, the girlfriend and I are having our first Swinging/Swapping/Sex Party experience with another couple this coming weekend. I was wondering if anyone had any good ice-breaker/get to know you/get your clothes off/get to the making out type games they could recommend?

There's obviously strip-poker, which gets the clothes off in time, but then everyone is just sitting naked in chairs. I've played Blackjack where the winning hand gets their wish fulfilled. This one works pretty well. Give us some good ideas. We want this to be as relaxing and fun as possible. How we get started has a lot to do with it.

It would be ideal if you actually had experience with the game in a similar context and could list pros and cons. Thanks everyone. Your advice and knowledge will be put to very good use

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Truth or dare might work for a gradual build-up. Or, have everyone write down several sexual activities on pieces of paper and put them in a hat. Then, pull a paper out of the hat and to find out what you'll do and spin a bottle to find out who you'll do it to.

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Sexploration: Sex Games and Adult Party Games

There are these games. (They have a good podcast, but I've never played these games, so I don't know how good they would be).

Have fun

Halx

Its all about naked twister.

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LoganSnake

Naked twister just looks silly.

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Just stick it in...

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curiousbear

exchange emails on your sexual fantasies, that will be a good prep!
how about a massage???
how about all enter a bedroom with blindfolds?
I am very curious to know how it all happens, have great time

ratbastid

I dunno. The people playing probably FEEL like they look silly, but I don't think I'd feel that way if I were watching them.

Zeraph

naked musical chairs.

ASU2003

How about strip twister? Each person takes a color and when it comes up they have to remove a piece of clothing. The first naked person wins and gets to determine what happens next.

Janie

Play something that involves physical contact. Nothing fires up passion and imagination more than touching another person. But I would recommend that you aren't just touching your girlfriend in those cases

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nomcat

time to play... Who's In My Mouth?

Daniel_

Hillarious!

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Locobot

Do pin the tail on the donkey, but instead of a donkey use your bare ass and instead of a tail use fresh cut ginger root.