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sound chaser · 08-17-2008, 05:36 PM

the other doggy style thread made me think a bit.

Do men like doggy style since it makes them in charge and seem dominant? My friends and I were looking at a music channel on cable and we saw a Shakira video. Some of friends think she's really hot and said they'd like to bend her down and give it to her sweet. Even when thinking about doggy style for a moment, the women is "passive", if one thinks about it. It's obviously the man who does the thrusting and is in control.

i personally like doggy since to me the women is sort of helpless in accepting pleasure, and is being "taken" so to speak. so I guess, to me at least, it is about dominance in a sense.

So, is a male liking for doggy style based on being in control?

james t kirk · 08-17-2008, 05:39 PM

I don't like doggie style at all.

My favourite is the good old fashioned Missionary Position. Missionary is very intimate, very erotic, with maximum skin on skin contact. Doggie is anything but intimate, with vitually no skin on skin contact.

I love nothing more than feeling a woman underneath me, her legs spread along side me, the sensation of her breasts against my chest, being able to kiss her full on the mouth. I love being able slip one hand behind the small of her back, another behind her head and just drawing her whole body right into mine.

Doggie gives you none of that.

Also, I seldom if ever orgasm doggie style. I need to feel her arms wrapped around my back.

As far as the power exchange, in the missionary, she is surrendering, spreading her legs wide and you are holding her down, pinning her down. At 6-2 and 220 pounds, I can use my physical size and weight to hold her while I'm on top of her. Very primal, very erotic.

I'll give a woman doggie, but only if she wants it. I never desire it.

thespian86 · 08-17-2008, 05:43 PM

I like spooning. Only because it's tight and you can hold her.

That's similar I guess.

KirStang · 08-17-2008, 06:21 PM

It's because you generally get deeper penetration. Feels better. But each girl is diff.

Bear Cub · 08-17-2008, 06:50 PM

I like it for its easy access. If I want to pound until my hips crack, I can. If I want to grab her tits, I can. If I want to pull her hair, I can. If I want to grab her throat and pull her up to me while staying inside her, I can.

ngdawg · 08-17-2008, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by sound chaser

the other doggy style thread made me think a bit.

Do men like doggy style since it makes them in charge and seem dominant? My friends and I were looking at a music channel on cable and we saw a Shakira video. Some of friends think she's really hot and said they'd like to bend her down and give it to her sweet. Even when thinking about doggy style for a moment, the women is "passive", if one thinks about it. It's obviously the man who does the thrusting and is in control.

i personally like doggy since to me the women is sort of helpless in accepting pleasure, and is being "taken" so to speak. so I guess, to me at least, it is about dominance in a sense.

So, is a male liking for doggy style based on being in control?

Are you talking about a woman lying on her stomach or up on her knees?Because if I'm on my knees or even standing bent over, I'm right there thrusting too.

Ilow · 08-17-2008, 07:12 PM

Reminds me of this: (lyrics NSFW)

YouTube - Broadcast Yourself.

I personally really like it. I can vary both the depth and the rhythm with ease, and also access her tits and clit if I want. I love the built in handholds of her hips as well. My body is fairly wide, so some of my exes have complained of their hips hurting if missionary goes on too long ("sex legs" as one called it) and I never get tired from it. Of course I like the dominant position as well, and several of the girls I have been with liked "a good pounding" from behind too.

curiousbear · 08-17-2008, 09:30 PM

When boy does from behind girl feels a lot!!! It could be because of the angle and tip rubbing inside of clitoris. If girl feels good more and comes soon while boy is still inside, boy will be so happy... Actually boy badly wants the girl do on top....

speshul-k · 08-18-2008, 10:03 AM

I like the motion I can produce with it, plus you can be alot more relaxed on your knees.
Feels like a proper working for me and her.

inBOIL · 08-20-2008, 11:32 PM

I am not a fan of doggy style. The height is never right, putting me into an awkward charlie-horse inducing half-crouch. It's easy to slip out accidentally, so I have to be careful not to pull out too far. And her bucking around throws off my rhythm. There's just too much concentrating on the physics for me to enjoy it.

FuriousAvatar · 08-20-2008, 11:47 PM

I enjoy a good doggy-style a lot-certainly the dominance factors in a bit here. Also, the angle and the deep penetration typically feels good for me and for her.

I enjoy the woman-on-stomach position even more. You still have dominance, can still caress her breasts (if she raises on her elbows a bit) and play with her clit, but you have infinite more intimate contact this way. You can kiss a woman in this position, also.

08-17-2008, 05:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
sound chaser Tilted	men and our liking of doggy style the other doggy style thread made me think a bit. Do men like doggy style since it makes them in charge and seem dominant? My friends and I were looking at a music channel on cable and we saw a Shakira video. Some of friends think she's really hot and said they'd like to bend her down and give it to her sweet. Even when thinking about doggy style for a moment, the women is "passive", if one thinks about it. It's obviously the man who does the thrusting and is in control. i personally like doggy since to me the women is sort of helpless in accepting pleasure, and is being "taken" so to speak. so I guess, to me at least, it is about dominance in a sense. So, is a male liking for doggy style based on being in control?

08-17-2008, 05:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	I don't like doggie style at all. My favourite is the good old fashioned Missionary Position. Missionary is very intimate, very erotic, with maximum skin on skin contact. Doggie is anything but intimate, with vitually no skin on skin contact. I love nothing more than feeling a woman underneath me, her legs spread along side me, the sensation of her breasts against my chest, being able to kiss her full on the mouth. I love being able slip one hand behind the small of her back, another behind her head and just drawing her whole body right into mine. Doggie gives you none of that. Also, I seldom if ever orgasm doggie style. I need to feel her arms wrapped around my back. As far as the power exchange, in the missionary, she is surrendering, spreading her legs wide and you are holding her down, pinning her down. At 6-2 and 220 pounds, I can use my physical size and weight to hold her while I'm on top of her. Very primal, very erotic. I'll give a woman doggie, but only if she wants it. I never desire it. Last edited by james t kirk; 08-17-2008 at 05:46 PM..

08-17-2008, 05:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	I like spooning. Only because it's tight and you can hold her. That's similar I guess. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.

08-17-2008, 06:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
Bear Cub The Reverend Side Boob Location: Nofe Curolina	I like it for its easy access. If I want to pound until my hips crack, I can. If I want to grab her tits, I can. If I want to pull her hair, I can. If I want to grab her throat and pull her up to me while staying inside her, I can. __________________ Living in the United Socialist States of America.

08-17-2008, 09:30 PM	#8 (permalink)
curiousbear Addict Location: WA	completely different reason When boy does from behind girl feels a lot!!! It could be because of the angle and tip rubbing inside of clitoris. If girl feels good more and comes soon while boy is still inside, boy will be so happy... Actually boy badly wants the girl do on top....

08-17-2008, 06:21 PM	#4 (permalink)
KirStang Future Bureaucrat	It's because you generally get deeper penetration. Feels better. But each girl is diff.

08-18-2008, 10:03 AM	#9 (permalink)
speshul-k Insane	I like the motion I can produce with it, plus you can be alot more relaxed on your knees. Feels like a proper working for me and her.

08-20-2008, 11:32 PM	#10 (permalink)
inBOIL I have eaten the slaw	I am not a fan of doggy style. The height is never right, putting me into an awkward charlie-horse inducing half-crouch. It's easy to slip out accidentally, so I have to be careful not to pull out too far. And her bucking around throws off my rhythm. There's just too much concentrating on the physics for me to enjoy it. __________________ And you believe Bush and the liberals and divorced parents and gays and blacks and the Christian right and fossil fuels and Xbox are all to blame, meanwhile you yourselves create an ad where your kid hits you in the head with a baseball and you don't understand the message that the problem is you.

08-20-2008, 11:47 PM	#11 (permalink)
FuriousAvatar Crazy Location: Juneau, Alaska	I enjoy a good doggy-style a lot-certainly the dominance factors in a bit here. Also, the angle and the deep penetration typically feels good for me and for her. I enjoy the woman-on-stomach position even more. You still have dominance, can still caress her breasts (if she raises on her elbows a bit) and play with her clit, but you have infinite more intimate contact this way. You can kiss a woman in this position, also.