Rough or gentle?
 

I have recently divorced and re-married. I'm really curious about something.

My ex-wife of 15 years preferred for sex to be slow and romantic, but only last about 5 minutes. One orgasm was plenty. My new wife likes it, shall we say, quite a bit more vigorous and for several hours. She often has at least three orgasms.

I have had only a few partners in my "career" so I am wondering what is more common among women. My new wife swears that it's quite normal to want to get pounded away at for the entire morning.

I'm not complaining - I get a workout *AND* sexual pleasure at the same time. Just curious what other women's tastes are.

I like it rough. :)

It certainly doesn't have to last for three hours everytime, but once in a while it's nice to spend an entire morning in bed going at it.

I'm all about quality time, though, sometimes a three minute quickie can be just as hot and satisfying as a longer session.

And I usually have at least two orgasms during a basic 15-20 minute session - and often several more than that. It wasn't always this way, though - I'm in my prime. :)

whats normal for her may not be normal for another women, whats normal for me certainly isnt normal for a lot of women lol, you're going to get so many different answers its not funny.

There are SO many variables when it comes to who enjoys what.

example:
me and my first hubby whom I married at 21....sex every so often, one orgasm for me and I was good for weeks and I'd sleep for hours afterwards

me and dave whom I married at 37....multiples every single time and I cant get enuff of him and sex with him wakes me up in a way caffeine or cocaine (when I was MUCH younger) never did lol

with both of them....no sex in the morning, I just dont enjoy it then

bottom line is there is no "what is common among women" when it comes to this

I've never been with a woman that only liked it one way... just depends on the mood... sometimes we go for a multi hour romp, sometimes a couple minute quicky and everything in between...

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I had this discussion once with a former lover of mine; his ex had liked him to go at it for hours--actual penetration. Me, I can't stand penetration for that long. I like it hard, fast, and rough. It doesn't take me that long to climax, but I have to have a few minutes at the very least to feel satisfied. It's very, very easy for me to orgasm during intercourse, and after a while, everything starts to get oversensitive. From there, painful sex is just around the corner. That probably starts occurring at about the 15-minute mark.

And sometimes, when I'm barely awake, I like gentle sex. But that's rare. :D

We're all different, it's true.

Everyone has preferences, some strong and others weak, but most folks like variety as well. I've never come across or been with someone who wants it one way only. Rough, gentle, hard, soft, fast, slow, they're all relative and depend upon mood. Mood depends upon a multitude of factors that would take several paragraphs to explain.

Depends upon the mood and the spirit of the evening for myself.

I think it would be odd to want the same kind of sex every time.

^ ^ ^ ^ What they all said. ^ ^ ^ ^

But don't quote me. My mood just might change.

Just to be clear, I don't want sex the same way everytime, I like quiet, gentle sex, too. I just like it, period, lol. But I have a penchant for getting it rough.

It depends on whether or not I like the person. If I do, my touch is pretty gentle. If I don't like them, then to hell with that.

Mostly, I love it rough--getting slammed very lustfully and without reserve definitely makes me a happy camper. :) I don't orgasm through sex by itself, so it's not really about that... I think I just love the feeling of being wanted so carnally, at such a basic level--it's very satisfying and flattering, somehow, especially when he finally releases.

If I'm going to orgasm, things have to slow way down, and we take our time... and we do that fairly often, too. And of course, in some funny way, I love it when he wakes up with a hard-on and just climbs on and rides me before I'm really aware of what's happening--that's just a great feeling. :D Anytime, any place, sex is good. :thumbsup:

I have absolutely nothing to add, except I love reading this thread. What's not to like about women talking about sex!?

You may now return to your regularly scheduled discussion.

I like to give it rough. I guess I enjoy the adrenaline and the excitement. Going slow is always possible, but that doesn't mean I like it lazy. Even if its slow, I like it to be passionate. And sometimes I like to feel like I'm giving a good cock-thrashing. ;)

I think it's all relative. everyone has different sexual likes and dislikes. It's like some women loving doggy style and others liking spoons.

Rough, plain and simply put.

always start slow and once heated up she likes it fast and rough. Sometimes it will be too much to take and likes to slow it down. But sex is not a ritual, the best thing is to have a completely differnt rythm every time...

I like it rough and hard all the way... in fact easy going sex just does nothing for me!

It should feel like no less than a 15 mph car accident when all is said and done.

both, but more rough than not.