exhibitionism?
 

Anyone turned on by exhibitionism? My ex was a huge exhibitionist. She was a stripper in her early twenties, but when she graduated college and went into the "real" work force she naturally stopped. We dated for a few years and after a few months, she told me how she likes the attention her body gets.
She would walk around the house naked, with her blinds open. And one night while staying over my place she came into the living room looking for me at four AM naked. She got out of bed and I heard the TV on so he came out to see what I was doing. This was cool and all, but my room mate was also up and we were on the couch talking. She acted all shocked and ran back in the room, and came back with a towel. My roommate didn't mind and later on she told me she had done it on purpose. Anyone else have similar situations? Needless to say, she did lots of things like this.

This is so weird: last night I had a dream that two girls I knew in high school talked me into fooling around with them ala "collegefuckfest". Good times.

Yeah, in theatre I've "hooked up" with lots of girls who were very much exhibitionists; but externally were very "humble" (bullshit). They would want to leave the door open, leave the light on, not try to hide that they were with me at a party, etc. After a while I just kind of got used to it. Not that they would verbally state that they wanted to be caught but I think they thrived on the attention; either negative or positive. I would have felt used but they seemed to enjoy it the 95% of the time we weren't caught.

Also good times.

Sounds fun.
My ex would look for situations were she could "accidentally" be naked in front of people. Like walking out of the bathroom nude when the pizza guy just happens to be putting the pizza on the table.
Like the time my friend came over and she was showering with the radio on. She walked out naked "cause she didn't hear him over the music". She had to go passed us to get to the bedroom.

She told me about a time when she was in college, she stayed over the weekend at a friend's house. She stayed in a room that shared a bathroom with another room. The other room was den where her friend's father had some friends over. She showered in the bathroom, and then walked into the den naked, pretending to be mixed up over which door. She said they all stopped talking and stared. She turned around and when back into the bathroom and they called her back, saying it was ok. She faced the door, opened it wide to give them one last look and apologised.


She told me that the first time she did this she was in camp. She was coming back from the showers to her cabin when some boys started teasing her. She she opened up her towel, letting them see she was naked. They all got quite, and she walked away. She said it was scary but thrilling.

No one else has a story to share?

I know what you mean. While I never hook up with theatre chicks (my Mormon being the sole exception), I've heard stories from both sides of the fence and seen plenty going on to know theatre chicks=freaky. I love 'em, I really do, the little attention whores.

I've always had an exhibitionist tendency, but I'm fat, so I keep covered up unless I'm mooning someone.

My girlfriend walks around the appartment naked, almost daily, the first thing she does when coming home from work is taking off her clothes and she really doesn't care if the blinds are open. I'm pretty sure some neighbours have noticed her, particularily one, who congratulated me on the nice view while we were in the elevator on the way to our cars.

She also likes to sunbath topless on the terrace but I surrounded it with reed and plants to keep it more private.

As for being turned on by it?
She's hot, she's naked, of course I am.

My wife has become an exhibitionist over the years. She likes to wear short shorts and/or short skirts. She'll flash truck drivers every now and then and we've planned trips just for that purpose.

She's become braver over the years with my encouragement. Nothing wrong with being naked. Of course, I'm the ultimate voyeur so it works out well. :) Now, if I could only get her three sisters to exhibit themselves to me on a regular basis, life would be perfect. I imagine us driving down the road, my wife topless in the front seat and one of my SILs topless in the back seat. Yeah, that would be fucking great! :thumbsup:

+1 :thumbsup:

Hilarious... how you put it, not that you're fat, to be clear.

I'm the guy who is just as often naked as not in my own place. Personally I love the type like me, where they don't have to be covered in private. As for purposefully showing it, I don't. However, if someone sees me naked it's never shocked me. I had a friends-girlfriend walk into my room after I showered and was about to get dressed. She had the deer in the headlights look, checked me out quick, and started stammering. I simply asked her what she wanted, and they wanted to borrow a dvd quick.

My buddy thought it was funny, he saw me naked plenty of times (high school football teammates) and knows I just don't care. Thankfully, I wasn't in full-blown it's-cold mode so his girlfriend would tell other girls that I'm pretty good sized from then on out.

I like being naked around my house and enjoy exhibition type activities.

My ex used to answer the door naked all the time. She figured it was her place, if you don't like it don't come a knocking. The pizza guy never seemed to mind.

Always good things.

Just the other day I was showering and afterward I walked into my room. There was my housecleaner! She had changed days and came on a Wednesday insted of a Thursday. I didn't expect it, and I ran back into the bathroom. Of course, I didn't have a towel, so I had to come back. She said it was ok, as it was my house. She just continued to work as I looked for a towel and went back to the bathroom. I didn't mean to show off, it just happened. My cleaner is a nice looking forty something woman so naturally, it was a huge turn on.

Hahaha, I'm reading this thread naked.

you just wanted us to picture that :P i won´t mention my state of attire when i´m on tfp mostly since it´s late at night or early morning....

as for myself there seems to be a bit of ambiguity in this thread as some people are saying the displays of nudity are with sexual intention which is what i thought exhibitionism was and some saying they just like to be naked which i though wasn´t exhibitionism. just last night i took a person up to a river in iceland and we both skinny dipped even though there were occasionally people passing b who could see us clearly. i didn´t think this was exhibitionism at all, just i´m comfortable with my own body as was the person who came with me.

Dear Hustler,
Signed,
It Really Happened

Sorry, I couldn't resist. :)

I would get too worried about being seen and someone calling the cops. I imagine that given the right situation (super liberal strip club?) I would be willing to have people watching me and my SO do all kinds of things. As someone else said, real exhibitionism remind me of scenes in the collegefuckfest videos, although I've heard they're fake meaning not real amateurs, but real in that people are getting and giving in a crowded room. :thumbsup:

I just got back from visiting a friend. He went to college together. He had a big party celebrating getting a new job and a bunch of us stayed at his house. He is getting some work done on it so its pretty empty. We all got cots and such, and folded them up during the day. So it pretty much was a huge loft. Mostly everyone had gone, just a few people stayed, and out of the few left, only one other was home. My friend went to work, and the three others were out doing tourist stuff.
I woke up to the sound of the shower. I opened my eyes to see my friend's sister's friend taking a shower. The place was pretty empty, so I had a clear view of the shower. Instead of a curtain, there was a glass door. I assumed she thought I was sleeping and just pretended to be asleep. She had long black hair and a great body. So of course I was enjoying this. When she was done, she wrapped herself in a towel. I lay there, trying not to give away the fact that I was awake. She dressed and went out.

That's not really exhibitionism per se. That's voyeurism. She wasn't deliberately showing herself to you--you were covertly watching.

True enough.

I'm thinking about you naked while I read this, does that count?

touché; very well played.

I'm thinking of ALL of you all naked!

Even the helmet.

In college where these things happen, my girlfriend's girlfriend (like I said, in college where these things happen) frequently paraded about naked. She was trim and cute. But I was a freak for my girlfriend, so it might as well have been Joe Namath.

When I realized that she was at least as much into girls as guys, it became hard for my little small town brain to handle. Yes, I was an idiot.

My college girl had five roommates. I would spend a week in the dorm at a time. They were all pretty much used to me to the point that they would all be naked around me. One used to have sex with her boyfriend right on the couch in front of us. One big happy family...

Today at work, I went to get some power tools, when I saw a woman walk into a room right across from the building I was rennovating. I just finished wiring the lights, so I was well illuminated. She undressessed. She took off everything. She was a knockout skinny blond with a great chest. She turned around a few times, bent over; then put on a different outfit. That was ten am today. I know where I will be ten AM tomorrow.

I became an exibitionist by accident last weekend. I sometimes rent out my spare room. One of my short stay tennents asked if she could use my computer to send and read emails. So last Saturday she came in started to use it since I work most Saturdays, she assumed I was not home. I didn't know she was home, much less in my room. I was in my bathroom shaving and I walked into my room naked. I didn't know she was there!
She just turned and said hello and asked it it was ok for me to use my computer. I was embarressed and tried to explain that I didn't know she was in here. She said its ok that she was intruding and that it was ok, since it was my room.
It was awkward for me, but she just kept typing and talking to me like it was nothing. It was exciting for me I admit, to be naked infront of a person I that I only met a few days before. And it started to show.
So I had to walk near her to get my clothes. She turned again to face me and it was obvious now that I was excited. It looked like she got a bit embaressed now and she turned to type.
I got my underwear from my dresser and walked back into the bathroom.

She said she would be done in a second and I told her it was ok. I closed the door but left it open a crack and sat down on my bowl and masturbated. I don't know if she heard me or not, but I had to do something.

All I can say is; Wow! fantastic story. This sounds like a very fun situation to have been part of.

The irony of posting anonymously about being an exhibitionist in an exhibition thread ...

dude....is she hot???? did she respond in a sexually positive way??? awesome!

I quit whipping out my dong and shaking it at people years ago...

She looked like Chloe from Smallville.

She responded in an odd way. She only stayed two weeks. After that she did seem to lighten up a bit and she walked around in her panties and t shirt at night. When I got home during the week she was out. She didn't come back till after nine.

I tried to see what would happen if she saw me again so I would leave my door open to my bedroom and just be naked when she was home. I didn't come out so I couldn't be blamed. I knew she would sooner or later, come in to use the computer. And she did. I was watching tv, naked, on my bed, when she came in to ask to check her email. She didn't react to me, and I told her yes. She typed away, whild chatting with me. After a minute or so I asked if it bothered her that I was naked. She said no. She said it was ok. When she talked to me she would turn so we would face each other and she had to notice that I was hard. She told me about her travels and other small talk while she was doing this and that on the computer. At this point I started to stroke every time she turned her back. After a few minutes, I didn't care and continued while she turned to talk. She gave a stunned look but didn't say anything. She stayed and talked abit more. I asked her again if this bothered her and she said it was ok, it was my place. I came while she was facing me and she asked if I wanted a towel. She got up and got me some toilet paper and logged out of her email account and said good night.

A few days later she left, but not after her seeing me jerk off a few more times.

:expressionless:

Anonymous: Sounds like you may have freaked her out but she didn't know how to react since she was staying at your place. Keep in mind that you were in a position of power as her host, and that changes how people are going to react to such advances.

Then again, maybe I misunderstood. Was she already planning on leaving after two weeks?

Yes she planned it and paid for the short stay in advance. Like I said in the first post, I get a lot of short stays.

Never had these situations. I am a very very mild exhibitionist.
But exhibitionism is a real turn on with some exceptions. It depends what age group and how people around are related to us

I have always been known as a voyer and exhibitionist. I don't get very modest at home, but with my kids around, I keep myself dressed. Of course when they are off visiting grandparents my wife and I enjoy spending entire weekends at home naked all over the house. I do remember a time when I was in college. I had just 2 evening classes, and I worked nights, so I was always home all day. I had a neighbor in the apartment across the hall, who was actually very pretty. She and I became decent friends and I had given her a key to my apartment and told her if she ever needed anything she was welcome to it. One day she had come over early in the morning for something, I can't even remember now what it was. Well I had gotten home not that long ago and was watching a porn on TV and was having a good time. She walked in and of course the couch faced the door, so there was no hiding what I was doing. I had a wicked thought and decided to just say hi to her and kept on going. She stammered a little about being sorry she had walked in on me and I told her it was ok. She left and I think I had the biggest orgasm of my life at that time. later that afternoon I ran into her coming home from class as I was headed out. I asked her if she was upset about what happened earlier and she said no, but that her bf had stayed the night and was home so she couldnt stay. I asked her if he was there now, and she said no. I missed my classes that night and called in sick to work.

Since that time she had told me she actually liked watching that sort of thing, but she didnt want to do what we did again, because she DID have a bf. So we decided that if I was planning on doing something, and wanted her to watch, that I would call her apartment to tell he i needed to borrow some sugar. If her bf was there, she would say she didnt have any, but if he wasnt, then she would come over and watch. It was a HUGE turn on having her sit there and watch. We never had sex again, but a few times she would get turned on enough to undo her jeans and masturbate with me. It was the highlight of my Sophmore year in college!!

I worked with a guy who liked to flash his short term stays, but man was he creepy. About 5'4", 60 or so, bald, but he wore a toupee or sometimes a skully. He owned a former hotel in the historic area and would rent out rooms to artists in residence. He greeted a cellist at the door naked when she came to pay her rent. She threw the check in the room and ran away.

He was a librarian by trade, and had generations of family money. I always thought he was gay.

I actually lived just a few blocks from him, and a block more were the palace gardens. All very southern Nights in the Gardens of Good and Evil stuff.

one of my favorite exhibition treats is to see nudity in passing cars, or better to make eye contact with a driver getting a roadie - he knows it, i know it, we exchange smiles and give a thumbs up ... bonus - I have been both the driver and in the other car in this equation. either way its awesome!

i just watch ;)

I went to get cash from an ATM a few years back and I saw a light turn on in a window just over the fence. You coulcn't help notice the woman in the window, as she was stark naked. Of course, I stopped what I was doing and stared. She spotted me and walked out of view so I started to walk to my car. She then reapeared, in a bra an panties and stood still. I, of course, stared agaon. She started to take off her clothes as I stood there. I could hear a guy out of view encouraging her. I stayed for about 10 minutes untill her lights went off.