Miss Mango

Do you like watching or showing?

Both for me, though my exhibitionist side is by far the stronger.

Milnoc

I'm also pretty much both, about equally. But that may shift in the future since I'm considering getting a few tattoos. Even though I won't need to be naked to show them off (not at first at least ), I do feel as if I'll want people to "LOOK AT ME!" much more than me looking at other people.

That is, of course, unless the other person also has body art, at which we'll probably willingly indulge in each other's fantasies.

ÐiGiRed

I'm a bit of both, a little more on the exhibitionist side though...

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ratbastid

I'm definitely a voyeur. What's more, I particularly enjoy exhibitionist girls.

Editor94

definitely a voyeur, get a little too nervous

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leahannaspanner

I'd have to say a bit of both...equally possibly!

Bees

I am definitely both. Of the two I am most comfortable with exhibiting myself. I am the most nervous about watching especially if it is surreptitiously.

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Xazy

In my brothers old apartment he had a lady across the street, a teacher in a local religeous school who would put on a show every night for hours literally while on the phone... To think a nice amount of her students all lived in the co-op.

FlatLand Flyer

I don't like how I look physically, but I love watching people.

snowy

It's sort of the thing where it depends on my mood. I always love watching people, and occasionally I enjoy putting on a show.

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RangerJoe

I am obviously an exhibitionist. Theres just something about the fact of what I'm doing is turning the other person on. It's a turn on in itself.

Jenna

Was a HUGE exhibitionist, then did a 180 to a voyeur. Now, I'm both.

Psycho Dad

That sums me up as far as this topic goes.

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MSD

If this weren't visible to the public, I'd post a picture of my ass.

Milnoc

Neither do I.

Uh... I meant MY body! Not yours!

After years of sedentary living and being fed up looking at my typical middle-aged "computer geek" male body style in the bathroom mirror, I've finally decided to start working out big time. And yes, I've already cleared it with my doctor. My exercise regiment includes cycling and jogging cardio every day, and weight training every other day.

I want the type of body that makes people WANT to look at me! And I'll most likely give them what they want!

levite

Voyeur, totally. Love watching. Twice I had neighbors who used to "unknowingly" put on shows, and in college I lived next door to this guy who had the loudest sex ever with his girlfriend: I totally got off to it. Still keep my eyes and ears peeled for neighboring exhibitionists....

Never been much of an exhibitionist-- for one thing, don't have a great body-- but I do sometimes enjoy risky sex or sex in public places. Probably wouldn't actually want to be caught (although I once actually was, with a girlfriend in high school, at a park), but I do kinda like the danger thrill....

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Ustwo

Both have their charms but are inferior to participant.

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Deltona Couple

I love oth watching and being watched. I am still waiting for the oportunity to find a female board member who likes to watch a guy all by himself on cam...hehehe

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ASU2003

Voyeur. Al though I've only done it once. There were three of us watching (2 guys and a girl if you must know) and two having sex in the room.

Seaver

Winner

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JStrider

gotta agree with Ustwo on that one.

I always like watching, whether the others know it or not.
I like being an exhibitionist... but not blatent about it, I like knowing that someone could be watching, not so much whether people actually are or not.

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Charlatan

I prefer to watch and not be seen watching. It's the thrill of seeing something you aren't supposed to be seeing that makes it exciting.

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mixedmedia

Actually, I've gotta agree with UsTwo, as well. I'm not particularly compelled by watching or being watched by other people, as in other individuals or couples. Both could be exciting, I suppose...or not, depending.

BUT, I'm definitely into watching my SO masturbate and vice versa. I also enjoy watching ourselves go at it in a mirror. I don't think those count, though.

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clavus

I want to watch. I love to watch.

I don't care if I'm watched or not.

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settie

I think the same way as Clavus. I love to watch, it really turns me on, but I don't feel like I get any sort of thrill from being watched. I get more of a thrill of knowing the watcher is getting something from watching me, but I don't necessarily get a thrill from doing it....does that make sense? O_o It did in my head, heh.
But yeah, WANT to watch, LOVE to watch, it's so damn hot to watch a guy jerk off.



(I'm a female by the way, I think most people on this forum don't know that and get confused )

Suave

Is prude a choice? LOL

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thespian86

Voyeur. So much so that "porn" in the truest sense (produced, actors, etc) doesn't really turn me on at all. I need real stuff. I've only been in the position to watch once or twice live, I'm still young though . I did end up partaking a bit in the watching so I don't know if that counts. I was pretty drunk to be fair, and it was when I was in high school. Us theatre kids are a randy bunch.

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cadre

I thoroughly enjoy both depending on the situation. However I more often find myself being an exhibitionist. It's all fun, and I don't mind leaving an impression on people

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mixedmedia

Oh! So watching each other masturbate does count? Then, by all means, I am more of a voyeur 'cause I love to watch.

Yay! I'm a voyeur.

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Average_Joe

I'm a voyeur for sure. In order for someone to see my big white hairy butt, they're going to be showing their naked butt in the same room with me.

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Sultana

I haven't really gotten to experience being a voyeur, although I'd be willing to give it a go.

As a burlesque performer, yeah--Big Time exhibitionist. I've also been known to do the deed with blinds ajar, etc.

I agree that that thought of someone watching clinically doesn't do anything for me, but the thought of someone getting excited, and particularly the thought of them taking that to orgasm because of me...oh YEAH baby. Whether then or later on.

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ngdawg

Sultie!!!!!! Welcome back!!! Must have gotten my telepathic "Where IS that woman?" wonderings...

Exhibitionist. With conditions.

imkeen

I've played exhibitionist with someone (sex in a room with many other people around; a party), does that count?

orionnebula

Totally 100% Voyeur.

I woulkd not feel confortable being watch ( I can stand the cat in the same room as I am when doing it)

jewels

Totally both. Sometimes I like to put on a show and sometimes I like to watch a show.

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absorbentishe

Damn, I thought I had posted to this! We are totally exhibitionists (within reason) Since the crap that happened in my life, I lost the voyeur ideas.