hardknock: i'm sorry to hear that. best of luck.

/end threadjack

This thread makes me hate women.

fuck.

This thread makes me think I need to make an 'Ustwo's guide to finding a sane wife'.

Most you kids seem to be doing it wrong and blaming the wrong things.

I want to see that guide.

Seconded. Even though I'm not really looking for a wife.. I'm sure it would still apply.

Although I do agree there are some nasty and vindictive women out there, please don't assume we're all the same. Don't drag your relationship baggage into the next, especially if you've been hurt by the opposite sex.

Not all men are dogs either, ya know. :p

And if we keep our eyes open, we won't have to look back and say "Come to think of it, there were early signs."

I have cut communication with her now, and I hope I will be strong enough not to send her letters or call her fo at least a month. Although I know that I am technically right I completely understand her reaction now, since I would have reacted similar myself. I hope however, that after a while she loses her anger and that we can talk properly so this relationship does not end the ugly way.

BTW before our seperation we had similar problems like hardknock. She accused me of not being sensitive enough concerning her emotions, but always told me like 10 months afterwards when I did something wrong (when I could't remember anymore and wasn't able to defend myself).
On the other hand it was always MY fault when we did not talk enough...

damn these women..

Rachel: It is so mature of you to finally take responsibility for your mistakes.

[Cut to livingroom/kitchen]

Ross: [From room] We were on a break!

Rol, speaking from a perspective of the benefit of a bit more experience and tons more introspection on affairs of the heart than you have had time to acquire, she was your first, she will always be your first, and with others to come, you'll have to show, (and more importantly feel....because they can tell...) at times, a little less concern, a little more indifference, even an infrequent, barely detectable meanness.
We have a tendency to be more attracted to what we cannot take for granted. It may seem like playing games, but it is the way of things. A little "keep'em guessing" is attractive, and a hint of "too needy", comes off as pathetic.

She showed you that, and it cetainly hasn't driven you away, even now. Learn from your experiences with her.

Have some more, as soon as you can, with other partners. You have much to look forward to, if you can let yourself get past this.