BUMBUM!!
 

so after reading the other thread about ass licking.i've tried venturing down there on the dude,but could'nt bring myself to lick a bum hole.so i've just given it a rub over.Do guys like having a finger up their bum....in a sexual way that is?

Ehhh.....some do some don't. I've had it done to me...but didn't think it was all that great. I probably just need to relax more...and I don't think my lady was really into it so that made it not as enjoyable.

It really depends on the guy's mindset. A lot of people are conditioned into thinking it's gross, so they won't enjoy it no matter what.

I think it has to do with sexual maturity, if a guy is mature enough he will at the least give it a go...Do not try to rush it, its all about the mood. Just remember 2 things, if men think a woman can find pleasure in it, then why can't men do the same? Also its one of the biggest bundles of nerves around :)

My wifey has rubbed a little, but that's all she'll do. And I, of course, love it. I'm hoping for more, and have asked, but she won't.

All guys are different. Just don't "surprise" your man by invading without letting him know first.

Take a shower together first, get all nice and clean, that may help you out going down there. As for the finger, ask him, if you’re not comfortable with asking him, then you 2 may not be ready for it. Some guys do like a bit of a finger, some guys don’t, but just ask, at the very least, he'll say no but knows you want to experiment.

I would have sworn we had a 10 page thread on fingering guy's anuses already, but I can't find it.

Anyway, if you are going to "just give it a rub over", make sure your finger is lubricated somehow; I find wet friction to be far more pleasurable than dry friction.

Heh. Reminds me of a true story told to me by a medical resident, who stopped into a patient's room to see how things are. She happened to be eating lunch at the time. She said the lunch was okay, but she was having a hard time getting used to the taste of this Kentucky Jelly. He was confused, until she showed him the little single-use packet of KY they have in the hospital--roughly the size of a ketchup packet. Ah, he said. Kentucky Jelly.

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