former newt

if anyone read my post in tilted life, you'll know that my relationship was then on the brink of failure. well failure happened, and now i'm more than ready to move on.

i need sex. because that relationship was getting more and more difficult, we hadn't done anything for a long time. translated: i am pent up and need a release.

the med school i go to is like high school. everyone in the whole damn place finds out about anything you do. gossip whores, cocky guys, the works. this place is a huge drag because no one is mature enough to respect others' privacy. also, every single party i go to is basically a night of drinking with everyone in the anatomy lab...seems that once you go to grad school, you are in a zoo and can't meet anyone new. so i can't really just hookup with someone without everyone my ex knows finding out.

while i am ready to move on, i know she is hurting, and i care enough about her that i don't want her to have to hear that im looking to hook up with other girls. im only 20 so i can't really go to bars or anything...

ill own up to the fact that i have zero game. and i don't have the time to go hunting and honing my "game" to find hookups.

so what the fuck do i do now? im not looking for any commitments at all. im pretty sick of the commitment thing right now. all i want are hookups.

call me immature, but if you've put up with almost a year and a half of a girl who hates herself and regrets you for everything you have, of a girl who fights with you constantly, and withholds sex from you for 4 months, you'd be pretty goddamn desperate too.

Plan9

www.AdultFriendFinder.com (j/k)

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If there was an easy trick to pick up quality chicks that just want to have fun... I wouldn't be sitting on blueballs the size of Big Foot tires right now.

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uncle phil

get your career in order and then worry about the girls...trust me, they will come...

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pig

well, first of all newt: what happened? i mean, half of what we like here is the gossip...i mean...*discussion*. secondly...i don't know how you can get laid, other than going to another area and dropping the 'i'm a med student...gonna be loaded...lots of stress..." line. you can try online resources...it does work.

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bluestars87

I'd say try going to a club or something. You say you have no game, but you want sex? Hmmm...well women are people too. I'm no expert, but the best way to solve your problem seems like just acquiring a prostitute or something. Since you have no interest in trying to "pick up" girls and all you want is sex.

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Ustwo

On of my great regrets in life is that I was never able to use the following pickup line.

Her "So what do you do?"
Me "I'm a doctor."

Medschool is not a great place for picking people up, and as a philosophy I think people in medicine are happier when their spouse is NOT in the field.

If you just need sex and don't know anyone to hit on and don't want to hit on those who know, you will need to wait it out a bit.

Cheer up, all that pent up sexual energy can now go into being sure you memorize those anomalous foramen they love on the exams.

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Push-Pull

So the two most obvious choices....

1) Simply don't go hunting. Focus on your education and the future. This may involve you ahem, dealing with your more personal needs yourself. No biggie, every guy does it, and it's not the end of the world.

2) Figure out how to get game and find time to go hunting.

Otherwise, the only thing I can add is that sex is not the end-all-be-all. Heck, there are married guys here who are damn near serial-killer crazy from lack of contact. You'll survive, and in time, you'll find someone willing to experience the carnal delights you crave without you needing game.....

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Infinite_Loser

Okay... Pet peeve here. You don't need sex. You want sex. There's a difference.

That's all I've got to contribute to this thread.

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Ustwo

Well hypothetically speaking, a lack of sex will trigger a cortisol stress response which can weaken the immune system, while making you more aggressive and taking greater risks.

So I'll equate that with a need for ones own well being.

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Plan9

Now that explains why I feel the urge to kick people in the head four times a week and pay to do it at karate!

This is also why the army bans sex overseas. Yeah. And stuff. (j/k)

We are better than our urges to bury the bone.

Celibacy: It sucks but won't kill you.

There is more to life than sex. Just don't consult somebody who isn't getting it.

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james t kirk

I'd suggest a massage parlour or escort would do the trick.

Seriously.

No commitment, no complications, no hurting your recent ex, no gossip to feed the future MDs hanging out drinking in the lab during late nights (why am I surprised at reading this?)

In short, you can have a knock out woman take care of your sexual needs, you get the relief you are looking for and you will be able to think straight.

I don't know where you live, but Toronto has many a fine high quality, super clean, LEGAL massage parlours where you can find a Bay Watch quality woman who will get naked with you, give you a nice massage, then finish you off with the perverbial happy ending. You leave $150 lighter and with a bounce in your step. Of course, you'll probably want to move here after that.

U of T has a fine Med School by the way..

http://www.alluremassage.ca/

http://www.handsfromheaven.ca/

http://www.steelesroyalmassage.com/

http://www.utopiamassage.com/

To name but a few.

fish_oinc

go to craigslist.com look under services then erotic for your area.