kittenpie

we met 10 years ago at a party and became fast friends. hanging out, buddy kind of thing.

five years ago i kissed him like i meant it. he kissed me back, and we've been involved sexually and emotionally since...while maintaining the friendship.

two years ago i realized he was my best friend. the best friend i've ever had. and, yeah, he feels the same way.

seven months ago i fell in love with him on the metro in paris. i thought i'd been in love before...lots of times. but not like this. it's blinding, consuming...i could drown in it. and i've never known such joy.

so be patient, people. be friends, be lovers. and if you're really, really lucky the true love willl come. i'm 43 and it's just happened to me.

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She had diamonds on the inside.

~Ben Harper

sky_driver

I chose my wife because she had the most perfect rear when I first saw her in jeans. She was visiting a mutual friend from out of town and we met and talked for hours and had some great conversation. After about 6 hours I saw a sparkle in her eye and immediatly knew it was a sign.

She had to go back home that night so we talked on the phone for at least 2-3 hours each day there after and she came back to visit me 2 weeks later, and then I went to visit her at her home. We did not even have sex until the 4th time we were together which was about 6 weeks after we first met.

By that time we knew we wanted to be together forever, and realized that we had gotten to know each other without having sex so early in our relationship to screw things up. We have now been married for 6 years and have 2 beautiful daughters.

And even now, she still has a perfect rear.

MXL

She picked me, I didn't have a choice. Seriously she found me roaming the halls in the dorm, and that was 17 years ago.

noi from Thaila

My type would be just no commitmentphobia.

Untitled

I met him when he was very very very very drunk, and acting like a tool. And for some reason that didnt scare me away. I ended up talking to him for hours the next night, completely enthralled with his sense of humour, his mannerisms, etc. I was infatuated from the start. After a few weeks of talking (long distance) we decided to give it a shot, and we're now a few weeks away from our one year anniversary

iub

She was the only one in the store that came with a self-inflater.

Redgirl

We were friends first and after I got to know him I fell for him. I was scared of him the first time I met him, but he's just a big teddy bear turns out. I was drawn to his sense of humor, he makes me laugh till my stomach hurts, and also to his mind. I've always been a sucker for the smart, nerdy guys.

I can almost pinpoint the exact moment I fell in love with him: I was being picked on by this guy in HS (who was one of primal's friends) and when he saw what he was doing to me he whacked him in the head and chased him off. I just stood there in open mouthed disbelief. Primal has been my knight in shining armor ever since.

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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

mrphil2

I met and married the "REBOUND" chick 3 months after my devestating break-up of 11 months

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SilverScooter

same here. except for the marrying part, but that's sure to come sometime in the future provided everything keeps getting better (like it has been for the past however long we've been dating).

we had gone through more things together when we were friends and really pulled each other through hard times. when we started dating, we were kicking ourselves because we'd waited so long.

in retrospect, it was the right choice and a perfect time. everything's been perfect with her and to expect any less would be almost impossible. i might be making myself a little complacent here, but i expect nothing but complete happiness when i see her.

thats my warm, squishy story, learn from it if you can. i'm extremely happy with the way things are working out and i want nothing more than for other people to feel how i feel...