Lovin gf

My boy friend has a sort of kinky desire that I would love to satisfy for him. He wants me to give him an erection while he's asleep, then let him wake up and use it right away. The problem is, I have not been successful at this! I can do it when he's awake (very quickly), but the little things I try when he's sound asleep don't do anything. We're both in our 20s and otherwise normal and happy. Anyone have advice for me?

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spectre

Guys tend to get erections in their sleep. Just wait for him to have one, then wake him up.

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Lovin gf

Yeah, I know that would do it, I'd just like to be more proactive, I guess. Something about being something I did instead of an erotic dream or a full bladder.

The_Jazz

I'd say just keep trying different methods and find out what his subconcious thinks of each.

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ngdawg

Just start sucking him softly....he'll wake up on his own at some point, ready to go

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Lovin gf

Maybe I'm doing it wrong. If I suck him softly and gently, he doesn't get hard. Too hard and I wake him up.

tinydancer

maybe don't go straight to sucking... tease him as if he were awake... touch his balls, inner thighs.... work him up then try the soft sucking...

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Baraka_Guru

Try first thing in the morning... just before he would normally wake. Haven't you ever heard of "morning wood"?

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World's King

It's no more simple then sticking the thing in your mouth. Maybe start with some licking.


And if that doesn't work... Give me a call.

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Psycho Dad

My wife usually goes with a handjob. But I'd rather have the head. Try sucking mediumly.

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kramus

The morning wood mentioned in this thread is a byproduct of the dreaming state in sleep. If you want to insinuate yourself into his morning dream before he wakes, I know that head coupled with gentle sounds works for me. Moan, make wet sounds with your mouth, sigh, and even stroke yourself in order to enhance the whole experience. Patience and perseverence. Stroke his legs with your body and give his knee/shin/foot vaginal kisses. His sleeping mind will take in the multiple sensory load and probably give him an erotic dreamstate that he awakens from in the best way any man can - with his woman giving him a sweet suck. When you are aware he is awake climb aboard, stroke his face, chest and belly with your breasts, and continue to easily and gently fuck him until he either cums or he rolls you over and drives you into the mattress. And then he cums. The only way he would stop is if you put too much pressure on his bladder and he HAS to go pee. Otherwise, all is good

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Halx

Morning wood is caused by the bladder creating pressure against the prostate. It's not sexy, but use it to your advantage. If you want to be the sole cause of his erection, then I have some news for you: He's asleep.

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ASU2003

What would (probably) work on me would be just to lightly lick, kiss, or touch (with wet fingers or feather) the head of the penis, and the underside of the penis. In a minute or two it should get hard.

The next part would be different for me. I would want you to use it, but to not wake me up. I'm sure we would wake up eventually, but it would be fun if you were already riding it on top.

It sound like fun. Have a good time trying things out.

Plan9

Man, getting sucked off mediumly sounds like a great moderate experience!

Is that how the Amish have sex? Mediumly?

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Haha, that was pretty much my thought too!

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Lovin gf

Thanks for all your suggestions! Especially ASU2003 and kramus and tinydancer. Ill let you know how it goes! Keep sending ideas.

Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ASU2003

Tell us how it goes! Have fun!

Infinite_Loser

Am I the only one who was turned on by this post?

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Lovin gf

Update. Like some of you said, its a lot easier to arouse my bf to erection in the early am when he's already partly hard. Then, most anything will make him harder. Usually though, it wakes him up. I'm still trying different things when he's more deeply asleep, like tickling or pressing the muscle behind his scrotum while I suck him off. That has begun to work a little. Keep the ideas coming and I'll update you all soon!

BBtB

I wish I could find a girl who would go to this much trouble... well about anything for me really...

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ASU2003

I agree.

How can some people be so lucky?

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fr0z3nsky

you don't have to suck on his penis.....take his hand soft while hes asleep and caress your breasts/vagina/ legs/put his finger in your mouth......as long as it's sexy you shouldnt have a problem.....just remember to go slow not to wake him. =P

sounds like a really sexy fantasy....rawr

GK.12.3

LMFAO. Dude I hope I read that wrong...

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Merlocke

lucky bastard... so how's it going "mediumly"?

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