06-14-2003, 12:49 AM | #1 (permalink) |
Condition: Stable and Improving
Location: Finger on the little red button.
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a little help needed
I've know these two for awhile now(they've been on and off for almost two years). The guy is one of my good friends(I like him a lot, but her more), the girl is one of my best friends. I get along with the girl extremely well, we have the same taste in everything, music, art, women, and drugs... (please don't judge me on that one). I called her tonight and he answered, I said come over, let's hang out. They both came over, she was wearing a skirt. I"m not an asshole, but I couldn't help looking at her legs the whole time. For some reason she knew I was looking and I got several glances past those locked knees. I was sitting with quite the hard on for almost an hour, afraid to get up.
She and I have talked about going on a binge for awhile now. To be totally honest I really want to go do it. We'll snort some drugs and fuck till I can't anymore. I know that this is exactly what she has in mind. Which makes it hard, because I'd really like to fuck the hell out of her, and I feel like she would love it. What would you guys do? I think I could have feelings for her beyond sex, but won't let myself explore it because I like this guy a lot, we're bros. Any help appreciated, actually, I know what I should do, please save me before my cock gets me in too deep. peace, Skettios
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06-14-2003, 06:27 AM | #3 (permalink) |
The GrandDaddy of them all!
Location: Austin, TX
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i say dont also.
dont go behind a friend, it's just not good. what if you were in his situation, you wouldnt want anyone goin after your gf
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06-14-2003, 06:42 AM | #4 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: Melbourne
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yeah id say back out of it too. i think your risking the relationship with not only your best mate but also with the girl.
u have to ask yourself whether a night of fucking is worth the risk of loosing one or most likely both of your good friends?
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06-14-2003, 07:22 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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Location: West Coast, USA
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Doesn't sound like you need much advice. I would talk to her about it and say that you know what you want and you know what's right, so you won't be doing anything with her until she's single.
Turn the tables. Your good friend fucks your girlfriend? And then tries to blame it on some nose candy? Lose 1 friend and 1 girlfriend. And don't even try to think about turning this into a threesome. That will just fuck things up worse because you'll get some and you'll have some way to believe that it was okay with him then so why not now... Do what's right. You don't have to regret it later. |
06-14-2003, 08:04 AM | #6 (permalink) |
COMPLETED and A TRAINER
Location: BEAN_TOWN
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Remember one important lesson, or ask yourself this..You may want to do her, but who really gets screwed in the end? You do and in the process lose two friends. Find someone else.
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06-14-2003, 02:51 PM | #9 (permalink) |
Eccentric insomniac
Location: North Carolina
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Go for it, it's probably going to either be you or someone else. As far as the friend thing goes, that's a decision you have to make for yourself. Otherwise, you are not responsible for the fidelity of others.
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06-14-2003, 03:51 PM | #10 (permalink) |
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No friendship is worth risking over a girl and allowing your hormones to take you over. As much as both you and the girl want to have a fuck fest with each other there is a big risk of losing both of them at the same time. If that's worth it to you then go for it, but if not then by all means don't do it.
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06-14-2003, 08:35 PM | #11 (permalink) |
Loser
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Well you could take the chance of banging her and potentially losing two friends or you can think of her when you're jerking off.Just image doing her all over the world in your imagination, and no one ever has to know about it and no one get's hurt.
But if you do bang her, knock your socks off,... |
06-16-2003, 05:17 AM | #12 (permalink) |
Bringer of good Moos...
Location: Midlands, UK
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You'll be using the drugs as an excuse for banging her, and you'll feel really guilty about it for a long time, especially when your mate finds out about it and tells you to FO or worse.
If she's that horny for you she obviously doesn't value her relationship with him too much, and it will probably end sometime soon. Then you have a chance of banging her (providing your mate doesn't mind), but while they're together - no way!
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06-16-2003, 07:36 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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I think everyone has pretty much answered it, but I would also not go on a drug binge (I am not judging you). Drug and Sex (unprotected) can mess up your life and I would hate to see or hear about a young person doing irreversable harm to themselves for the sake of fun. Lord knows I have done it and been lucky (drugs, drinking and driving...you name it).
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