Sex Resolutions
 

Life is all about discovery, so let's push ourselves to discover new forms of pleasure! Do you have a curiosity that you've been wanting to experience? Have you resisted temptation because of a simple matter of inconvenience? Are you shelled up and ready to explode?

Resolve here to GO FOR IT. Try something new. You don't have to do it today. You don't have to do it tomorrow. You just have to do it eventually! Post here to tell us what you are going to push yourself to explore.


For me, I'm going to try to get into the anal pleasure stuff. Since I posted that thread about anal play for men, I haven't revisited the idea in actuality, but I'm going to have a lot of quality time with my wife very soon where we can get inventive. I hope to explore more then.

Now.. it's your turn!

Well, I definitely would like to keep moving forward and exploring my sexually submissive side through s/m and bondage. But I've also had some curiosity recently about doing some light topping. Don't know how good I would be at it, though. But the weird thing about that is, I would chiefly be doing it because I know that my partner (who is usually topping me) would really enjoy it...so in a way it's still the submissive side of me wanting to please. I do find it titillating, though...when I daydream about it. :)

Three-ways seem especially appealing right now to me as well...MMF three-ways most especially. That's a more tricky scenario, though, bringing a third person in and all. But if that were to become a possibility I think I'd be very interested in trying it.

And I know this is probably pretty surprising, but I have never watched porn with my current SO, but I brought it up one night last week and we've both been grooving on that one ever since, lol. Next time I go down to his place I'm going to come armed with some dvds.

I don't know... My sex life has been pretty stale for the past year. Any sort of sexual contact at this point would be nice.

And now that I think about it... I really wanna get into fetish photography. No... I'm not gonna model.

I've been exploring dominance with my husband lately, with interesting results. I find it much easier to try new things when there is no pressure, and no funky black-leather outfits to wear (not that I dislike black leather, but I'm still getting used to the idea of domination in general... dressing like a traditional mistress is going to take some getting used to).

So I went with kitchen utensils this time, wearing nothing but an apron for myself, and the whole thing went pretty well. We enjoyed ourselves. It wasn't what most people would probably think of as 'domination' but it worked for us, and most of all I felt more comfortable doing it than I would have with leather props. I also have some carpentry tools that I've transformed into sex toys for domination (including a carpenter's belt), so I look forward to trying those out later.

All in all, this is the beginning of exploring a new arena for me, in something that (as MM said) turns my partner on and thus makes me happy to try it. I am resolved to continue exploring this domination stuff and seeing where it takes us.

Making out with a woman is always appealing to me, but the fantasy would be hard to turn into a reality at this point. It's not really a resolution since it's not something I can just run out and do, but it's something I would like to try someday, if the circumstances are right.

I cant wait to see what y'all come up with :) I cant really think of anything that I ever thought about doing, that I havent done...but then I've had a few more years to get it done than a lot of you lol

Dear Hal - When did you get married? Have I been in a coma for the last year or what?

My wife and I were just talking about this on messenger while she is away. We are going to work on a list and communicate the things we are interested in together.

Some of the things I'm thinkg of though we've done in the past and want to expand on, while others I think we may want to revisit now that we are older and more sexualy mature. And of course there are those "fantasies that should remain fantasies" that everyone seems to have.

But right now at the top of my list, is some erotic photography.

Ok, ok, time to fess up. I've been thinking about getting a Prince Albert. For whatever reason, it seems to appeal to me at some level. I've got a small tatoo on the back of my neck, but piercing is not something I've ever considered until recently. So, I've been checking out the stories, pictures, and generally just deciding if there are any risks that make it not worthwhile. So far, the worse I've found is some bleeding, having to maybe sit when taking a leak, and possibly some discomfort.

I just hope that the wife will understand if/when the time comes.

I was very interested in getting a vaginal piercing - I ended up with the hood and am glad I had a friend to push me that extra step of actually doing it - instead of sitting back and saying I was thinking about it and wanted it.

At this point, I would like to explore being with a woman. I have been interested in the idea of the situation for a few years but have never persued it. I enjoy being with men - and want to stick with men - but like the way my body feels and I appreciate a womans body, so I would like to give it a try. The other factor in that is that I would have to find the right woman. Someone who I wouldn't have to jump into things with since I am still a bit nervous.

And non-sexually I want to work on caring less about what other think of me. I take things personally too often and wear my feelings on my sleeve - gotta toughen up!! :)

Well, I have been waiting to get nipple piercings for a bit but I think I will finally go ahead and do that this summer. Push-Pull, I love how PA's look. My boyfriend would never go for it but you should definately give it a try. If you don't like it you can always take it out.

Other than that, my boyfriend was quite the porn connoisseur before he met me and I always wanted to watch porn with him. We have conflicts at the moment because we both live in dorms with roommates but I will try to do that sooner than later. I need something to spice up the sex life and that oughta do it. :)

Last year was my year of exploration and trying new things. This year, I'm just going to enjoy sex. I found that trying too hard to be kinky can take pleasure away. Nothing is better than a wild romp (expected or unexpected) that leaves a trail of scattered clothes and a very satisfying finish.

So no new resolutions for me unless you count trying to get pregnant...but that's not sexy in my opinion. :lol:

Yeah, it's been a little while for me too, so I'd have to go with this answer as well. :)

If you blinked any time in early March (right, Hal?) you might have missed it. I blinked, but I opened my eyes pretty fast.

/nuptials

More threesomes. That's my resolution.

I just want to experience as much as I can. I just got out of a long term long distance relationship. The two of us were not exactly sexually compatible so I want to find out exactly what I want and who I want it with through lots of trial and error. I guess I want to figure out my fantasies.

I've been going through a bit of anal obsession the last few months. I, like Hal, am slowly exploring that part of my own body. I'm lucky to have an SO that wants to explore with me.

I also want to become more skilled at dominating my partner.

I would like to explore having sex if I find the right girl. But she must be hiding really well.

I guess I could try switching hands...

Well we are pretty adventurous as it is, but right now, since we are trying to have a child, that kinda limits the exploratory part, because we are having to concentrate on the pregnancy part....which leads to some new positions, but also the work involved....lol.

Ever since my girlfriend got on the Nuva Ring last January her libido has gone down terribly. She's gone off the Nuva Ring since August of '06 but her sex drive still hasn't returned, so I've made the resolution to abstain from masturbation and abstain from trying to initate sex until her sex drive comes back and she makes the first move.

So far it has been 35 days and 34 nights since I have last had sex... and it has been 63 days since I've last masturbated.

I resolve to make sex count every time. It's a special event, and an amazing activity and I should appreciate it more. Part of that i guess is witholding a bit, I've been ice cream every meal and I should make it dessert again

I've been with a non-experimental sort of partner for a lot of years (like 15), but recently I have a new partner. Wow, whole new world again, and I feel like quite the novice now, despite the amount of partners I've had in the past. So I'm starting to try to get into slightly new things, he wants to explore with me, but he slows down if I need him to. I just find I can be so different with this new partner, and so I'm into exploring, but also wondering where the boundaries are with that. I've gotten into the light domination stuff we have going on, spanking and so forth, but I've never really been into anal stuff, and he's suggested that. While he'd never do anything I'm uncomfortable with, I'm also thinking I might not dig it now because I haven't had the experience with the right person, I don't know. So I guess my resolution is to keep an open mind, and explore as much as I'm comfortable with!

I'd just like to have my hubby back sometime before Christmas. He is overseas with the military, gone for over a year now. (he did make it back on leave for Valentine's Day, though) What we do when he comes home, I'm not really picky.

OK, so in the spirit of keeping this thread alive, who's followed through on their resolutions? I did with mine, and you can read about it HERE.

More power to you!:thumbsup: The longest I ever been able to go without sex with my wife was 1 year, but I masterbated 2 to 3 times a week. Now my brother abstained from sex from his wife for 7 years before she divorced him. He claims he didn't masterbate in that time because it's a sin.

I am looking forward to resuming my sex life... this should occur in roughly 36 days, 5 hours and 34 minutes.

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Erotic message. I'd like to make an entirely sensual experience were no words need be spoken :suave:

I'll settle for actually having a sex life this year -your countdown is kinda coool though :)

How effective will a message be without words?!?

pretend it's like braille and just use your fingertips...

... I want to have a pre-mortem experience.

(ba-da-da-kksssh)

i'd like to be more assertive in the bedroom and learn how to initiate. i've also got cravings for girl...though i have never been with one...i love my boy more than anything and he's all for me searching for the right girl...i feel i need one.

I think he meant "massage". :D

Yyyeah. I'm gonna have to third that one. :expressionless:

Let's see here....
Foursome. check
Anal. check
Strange places. check
Bondage. check
On camera. check
Food involved. check


Oh shit......my life is over!:eek:

"on camera" --> did you show up on the internet somehow ahaha

You've never had a big guy named Guido come at you with a 2x4, have you? :eek:


Eh, sorry, back to the original topic.