Dominance
 

My new girlfriend wants me to dominate the relationship, im not quite sure what she means... no sex invilved yet, she says she means it in everyday life... Im not quite sure what she wants from me. Any help apriciated. :)

Maybe she just wants you to be more assertive and outspoken. Take charge of the situation. Don't let people (or her) steamroll you, stand up for yourself. Have a "presence."

I don't know you in real life, but based on what little info you gave, that's the first thing to come to mind. She probably just wants you to be more assertive.

Good call, might try that.

Sounds to me like she wants to be a submissive.....if you're really interested in what she wants you need to sit her down and have her spell it out exactly. If she is truly wanting to be a "slave" then you both need to sit down and visit www.bondage.com and read the various articles they have on the lifestyle

Well, no sex involved yet so bondage and things are out at the moment, Dont think it will go as far as the whole chains and wips thing,she says she means it in our every-day life, but thanks for the info. ^_^

ummm.... a dominate relationship does not always involve sex....most "lifestylers" like Dave and I have a Dom/sub relationship with our "every day life".

Thats why I said talk to her and have her spell it out...... dominance is not always about sex people

Some people like to be told what to do or led around in life. Not everyone is a leader. Some like to be followers. Looks like you found one.

SM is more about dominance and control then sex. furthermore SM does not have to include bondage either. be assertive and tell her to explain what she means. she may just want you to control where and what you 2 do on dates.

My girl and I have a SM relationship. And it's not about sex at all. In fact the sex is more even.