re-sensitize
 

do you think its possible to re-sensitize yourself to porn? Ive been looking at porn for like 10 years (currently in college) and now ,for example, when i look at the titty board.. i just don't get aroused. perhaps im desensitized or worse, i need harder stuff to get aroused. i guess im just worried this will extend do when im with a woman, the first time (and last) i was with a girl, and we were about to go at it .. i couldn't get it up :(

so .. do you think if i lay off the porn (and the hand) i can be more stimulated by porn as i once was? i want to achieve erection on command!

another thing that worries me is that the many yrs for which i have masturbated have conditioned me to become aroused only when i use my hand -- this is simialr to stories ive heard about men who watch much porn becoming impotent because they can only become aroused using their hands and getting off.


thoughts? similar realities/experiences?

You think you have it bad? I worked in the porn industry. Talk about desensitized.

The trick is not to lay off the porn, but to really discover what turns you on. Once in a blue moon there is a post on the Titty Board that just flips a switch and gets me going. I think to myself, "Holy shit, I haven't been aroused by still pictures since I was 16." If I go looking for material, I know exactly what I want to see. I know how I want the girl to look and what I want her to be doing. Same goes for the guy.

I wouldn't REALLY call it desensitizing, I'd call it refining.

isnt that problemmatic? i think because im not sexually experienced i shouldnt be so picky in what turns me on.. i should be just turned on by seeing a naked girl, so when thats a reality i can get moving

thanks for your insight

Porn and sex are WAY different. You cant have sexual tension with bits and bytes. You can't have that rush of adrenaline when she starts to take off her clothes in real living color when you stare at your screen. Porn is imagination material, but sex is the real thing.

If you can, make your own with your woman, to me that's the best kind. Because not only do you have hot pix/vids but a memory of a great time associated with it.