12-05-2006, 09:35 AM | #43 (permalink) | |
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12-05-2006, 04:43 PM | #44 (permalink) | |
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12-05-2006, 06:02 PM | #45 (permalink) |
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Though I would tend to agree with most people to just let it go, and forget about it, I, who has a younger sister, would most definitely not be able to just let something like that go.
Its true that if it was something that looks like she volunteered for, I would definitely ask "why she would go and do that??". But if was something that an ex boyfriend posted, I would confront her with it. (In case she doesnt know) then go find the fucker that did it. Its a tough call.... I think privately talking to your sister if you are 100% sure it was her, is a good idea, plus it will build more trust amongst you two. |
12-06-2006, 09:39 AM | #48 (permalink) |
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from an older brother who has two younger brothers, but no sisters, i don't think i would confront them with something like this, especially because you're the oldest. it's hard for the elder to know how they think of you -- there's probably some pretty heavy stuff involved -- so the anonymous thing let's you alert the person (for their benefit) while protecting how they think of you
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12-08-2006, 12:24 AM | #50 (permalink) |
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I am surprised that I haven't found my sister on the internet. But that's a whole other story. Obviously, the anonymous e-mail sounds like the safest idea. Although, if you think that your sister won't be permanently scarred(which she won't be), you could tell her about it. She could deny that it is her and still be notified and saved from the embarassment. Don't press her if she denies it. It really isn't any of your business and your only duty is to notify her. Just let her think you bought her denial.
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12-08-2006, 06:59 AM | #51 (permalink) |
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I found a picture of my good friends younger sister doing something like that she had the finishings on her chest. It looked like one of those "come on baby I wont show these to anyone" type pics. I went and told my friend that I found a pic of his sister doing some guy and he said "I would'nt be suprised" LMAO. Nothing ever became of it.
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12-09-2006, 08:25 PM | #52 (permalink) |
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It's out there for the world to see, and you found it albeit by accident, but since she may not be aware, does she not deserve the liberty of knowing she's on exhibition. If she's aware, and embarressed ......... at least she can make the decision to try and get it removed or add to the portfolio.
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12-09-2006, 09:06 PM | #53 (permalink) |
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younger sibling?
was she underage when the pic was shot? and so what if it was a pic of you fucking some hot chick you'd be bragging about it to all your friends. good for her! what is the site and how can i view her?is she hot?
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12-10-2006, 01:41 AM | #54 (permalink) |
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lmfao noheart!
it took a rookie to say it like it is!
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12-10-2006, 09:28 AM | #55 (permalink) |
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Haha, noheart, dlishguy speaks the truth. But, in the end, you're probably right.
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12-14-2006, 11:24 AM | #57 (permalink) |
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Just to clarify things... I am not judging her for giving a guy a blow job and letting him take a picture. She's an adult and I have done such things myself (of course, not with my sister). However, given the nature of the photo and knowing my sister, this is NOT the type of photo where she was being paid to engage in the sex act and be photographed or where she thought it would be posted for the public to see.
I am also not interested in kicking the ass of the guy who posted it. But it is wrong to post photos of old girlfriends w/o their permission - regardless of what copyright laws might say. To the extent some guy violated this trust, I do believe he should have to answer to my sister for it. Finally, while it is impossible to wipe the photo from every website and every hard drive to which it may have been downloaded, it would be good to limit the damage by having it at least taken down from sites where it is known to exist. At this point I plan on emailing the webmaster for site where I saw the photo so that it is removed. I might also send an anonymous email to my sister, so she is put on "notice" and can call the jerk who posted the photo. Thanks for everyone's input. P.S. noheart65 is a moron. Last edited by BCD; 12-14-2006 at 11:27 AM.. |
12-14-2006, 12:17 PM | #58 (permalink) | |
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12-19-2006, 05:06 PM | #61 (permalink) |
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BCD, I'm obviously late to the party and have only just read this thread nearing its resolution, but I'd just like to add three things, which are that:
(1) Like almost everyone here, I've done lots of things which - while I'm not ashamed of actually doing them - I wouldn't want anyone else to know that I'd done them. I guess it's in part because the people I'm close to (with the exception of the very closest) would probably be fairly certain I'd never do them. And unfortunately I have been stupid enough to let myself be photographed in the act(s), so at this point I can only hope they don't get published and seen. (2) As a girl, I like the anonymous email a lot... although it does mean I'd probably wander around for the next five years wondering who the hell sent me that email, it's significantly better than knowing that it was someone I cared about and who I wanted to hold me in high regard. And finally... (3) The "(of course, not with my sister)" thing made me literally wet myself with laughter. Well gee, thanks for making me have to change my panties. |
12-23-2006, 02:33 AM | #62 (permalink) |
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I would not hesitate to talk to my sister about sex pics of her on the web. I'd make sure she does not freak out and reassure her that our parents would never find out about them. Then I'd find the guy in the photos, first torture him and then smash his head repeatedly until he's in a coma.
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12-23-2006, 03:03 AM | #63 (permalink) |
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Lots of people do things that they feel are totally fine and are not ashamed of doing at all, on any level- so long as no one finds out about it.
I think most of us, in fact, likely have a few things (or at least one really good one) that we can recall doing in our lives that, while we don't personally disapprove of them, or feel they're a bad thing, or even regret doing, that's only because no one else knows you've done it. And as Sharon said, even the anonymous email will leave her panicking on just who it was that saw it, whether or not "they" appear to be just passing along a "heads up" so she knows they're out. So BCD, have you made a decision on what avenue to take? Did you do something already? What were the results? |
01-09-2007, 10:52 AM | #64 (permalink) |
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It all depends on your relationship with your sister... if I saw my sister... I'd tell her. Its no news to her I look at porn.. hell its no news to me that she looks at it. So for me I wouldn't have that awkward phase.. aside from viewing the actual picture of course. But yeah if there's going to be a real awkward pause and you think she'd be ashamed that you saw the picture.. anonymous email.
Though in all honesty I'd be upfront, just seems like the better thing to do.
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