physical question for the women
 

I keep reading about clits. I have been with a few women, and have never had a complaint about how I treat them (either emotionally or satisfaction-wise). But despite the fact that I'm frequently getting up close and personal with female genitalia (it's the only way to perform orally, you know), I have yet to actually SEE a clit. Is that just because the women I have been with have had small ones or hidden ones? It's not like the women don't come, they do. I just haven't actually seen a clit. Is this normal? Women, have you seen your own clits?

The clit (NSFW)

Yes, I've held a mirror up and seen my own clit. Usually it's hidden behind the clit hood, only coming out when a woman is aroused. If you haven't seen one yet, then you're probably not looking in the right place. Refer to the picture. Also, some women's clits are just small and hard to find.

The clit is the the little bulbous, fleshy bit beneath the hood of the vagina. Some more well-concealed than others. It doesn't need direct stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm and in fact is too sensitive on some women to be manipulated directly. You've probably seen one before and not realized what you were looking at. It's really not a conspicuous little nubbin, but an oh so perfect example of great things coming in deceptively small, unassuming packages. And uh, yes, I have seen my own.

well, I know where it's supposed to be. And I'm apparently hitting it because I do get results (so to speak) during oral sex. The folds and lips are all there, I just haven't seen the little button. I guess the women I have been with are just small or well-hidden.

Sage, the picture in that wikipedia entry looks to me like a pretty big clit. I have never seen anything like that.

HOLY SHIT THAT CLIT ON WIKIPEDIA IS HUGE

....The clit does get bigger when the woman is aroused..

Mmmmmm.....yes, engorged...it's starting to get hot in here. :)

How big is your monitor? That's not huge, it look kinda small to me:suave:

It's never a good thing when you're staring into the maw of a wild captivatus biscuitori, and all you can think is "can't someone hook her up with a fingernail nail and some hand soap?"

in my experience loquitur, its much more important that you be able find her by touch than by sight :)

Huh? :confused:

Well, her fingernails do look a little dirty.

Actually, I read the book "She comes First" by Ian Kerner. He says there are 18 parts of the clitoris. I just did a quick google search and found this:

Link: http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/sex...raltruthin.htm

So, really, what people call the "clitoris" is only the tip of the iceberg. Ian Kerner says the head pops out when aroused, but then retracts during orgasm. Also, it is sensitive until aroused, then can be rubbed hard, then is very sensitive after orgasm for a few minutes.

http://www.shecomesfirst.com/home.html

So, timing is very important. The giver has to be very aware of the state of arousal for best results. :p

yes, i think m^2 has it.

:lol:

precious

...you're absolutely right. I do love your piggy style.

yes, yes - building off of rmarhsall's point, i guess that's the important thing to remember loquitur. while you're sloshing around down there on your girlfriend, just remember that clit you're hunting for is actually only 1/18 of her highly sensitive midgetized penis. its some small cute and cuddly thing as we all like to believe, but is the more like a baby boa constrictor poking its head of of its mother's belly for its first scent of battle.

and the fact that you like mildly perverted sarcasm not only makes you a testament to your nation and your people, but indicates you'll probably continue to enjoy your experience at TFP ;)

anyone else find this midget penis reference funny? The Clit is a fun thing to play with if you know what you are doing.

One thing I can reccomend to not try is wacking it with a spatula. As funny or erotic as it might sound to you, the ladies... they get kinda miffed when the love button is smacked with the same thing you were cooking pancakes with not 10 mins earlier..:eek:

Assuming you know that from experience, I'm going to say you are a sad, sad man.

pigglet - I didn't really notice her fingernails, but I was mostly confused by the term "fingernail nail". I see what you mean now though.

Pigglet and Crack: See me after class.:lol:

Babe, there's only one practical use for a spatula in bed...Spankings! :suave:

fer sure...

LMAO!! What, no Aunt Jemeima treatment??

carno,

ahhh yes...the fingernail nail. have you even been so turned on that you were pretty sure your boner had a boner? well, it's something like that....

ok, maybe not. perhaps i meant a fingernail file, but in trying to keep my eye on something going on at work, i somehow had a nice little typo. bastard. with your keen eyes and your stealthy perception.

as to crack's spatula issues - i'd have to say in order to whack-a-clit with a spatula, you're getting beyond the exposure of the 1/18 rule. she's got to be displaying at least 1/9 or maybe 2/9 of a full clit to make that whack stick. unless you typically scramble very very little eggs - call them fish roe - and make itty bitty pancakes. i've heard about a trick with a spoon before, but a spatula? you need to stop hooking up with rupaul ;)

so, um, ng...what's this "after class" business about then, eh? i mean, i'm game...but crack is doing all the spatula work. and i'm going to have to ask him to not bring the ones with the little notches in them. ouch?

Heh... I just thought it was some tool that I was unfamiliar with..

Well, I guess I'm just going to have to look more closely. Could be a combination of fleshy lips and petite clit head for all I know. Still, as the old saying goes, "seek and ye shall find!!!"

Then again, when I'm busy eating I'm enjoying it way too much to some sort of biological scavenger hunt.

Wow.... dirty fingernails and someone find her some hedge clippers...

Yeah thats what one looks like though.

That's snacking tho...to get to the main meal, you gotta know where the meat is and how it works. You'll know when you get whiplash:lol:

Whiplash, nothing... an ex of mine would clamp her legs shut, inescapably trapping my head between her thighs, as she writhed violently with the orgasm. That's a ride- damn near broke my neck a few times, i'm sure of it.

If you do it with the right kind of spatula you can leave what will look like "charbroil" marks on the bottom.

lol, gives new meaning to the word s-s-s-s-sizzlin' :p

This is the kind of research I love to do. Don't be afraid of poking and prodding. Note carefully the "before" state. With more poking, rubbing and exploring, the subject changes. It enlarges, changes colour and becomes wet. Take note of all this. You'll be quizzed on it later. :lol:

well, i'm going to guess this thread is now dead. over / under?

dead? to quote Eric Stratton, it isn't over until <i>we</i> say it is.

(I hope I'm not dating myself by that <i>Animal House</i> reference!)

One word, buddy... "exploration". ;) Have fun!