The first time...
 

Do women bleed when you break their hymen? I'm curious, something I should know but don't.

Usually. Not always.

My first time was with someone who was a virgin, she bled. It was quite scary because I had kinda of kept oblivious to the finer details of the bleeding prior to having sex and she actually bled a fair amount. All in all after the bleeding what comes next is definately worth that moment of fear.

My girl was a horse rider and still is.. hehe.. So yeah no bleeding for her. But we were both still virgins. It was good, but bad.. but still good :)

My first time was with a virgin. There was a noise when her hymen broke (kinda like when you break the airtight seal on a jar). There was some blood on me afterwards. I didn't see how bad she bled, I was too shy back then to look "down there".

If you are super gentle and take your time going in (like twenty minutes), and use lube if necessary, then you shouldn't hurt her, and it shouldn't bleed. At least not as long as she can use a tampon.

You just have to take enough time to stretch her out, and to get her to relax. Oh, and communication is key, have her tell you how she is feeling.

I took the virginity of one of my girlfriends. She had tried to have sex with someone else previously, several times, but it always hurt so bad she made them stop before any penetration was achieved. I didn't give up, and I went so slow that it didn't hurt her at all.

Besides, if you don't hurt her, then you can have sex again right away. And again, etc.

I didn't.

Wait.....I am still a virgin;)

i didnt bleed when i had sex the first time either

Hymen can be broken previously. I broke an ex in accidentally with just the digits I am typing with. We were both in a lot of shock over it. I was pretty young and totally unprepared for a vision like that. She saved the situation by pretending it was no big deal.
"Oops" I said.

The first time I had sex,I didn't break her hymen,but I almost broke both her legs.Does that count?

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ludus: that's hilarious. =)
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i've been with 2 virgins and neither bled. i think its a common misconception that a virgin has her hymen intact.

Oops Indeed!