Fetish?
 

Hello, I'm new to the board. Everyone here seems to have experienced alot of different things, and are pretty open minded. I would never have the guts to talk face to face about this to anyone.

I've been seeing someone for almost a year, and we have become pretty comfortable with each other. A couple weeks ago he was in the bathroom shaving and I had to pee really bad, so being the un-modest person that I am and feeling pretty comfortable with him I went in and pee'd... no big deal, or so I thought. He got an erection, turned his back on me and he ejaculated. He left the room and we never spoke of it again. I have to admit that this really turned me on that he got so aroused. Do guys get that turned on by this? I'm not sure if I should bring it up, I don't want to embarrass him. But I can't stop thinking about this!!

Everyone here will tell you that the secret is communication.

Say to him "I saw you come when you saw me pee, and it got me hot, did you like it?"

Failing that, wait for him to be in the bath, and go in naked, squat over the edge and piss on him.... ;)

Yeah, the secret is communication. It's not wierd at all! Let him know how you felt about it- he's probably never met anyone else that would think it's hot, and so he's learned to hide his feelings. Just talk about it to him- say something like "Hey, last night I noticed how turned on you got when I was peeing, and I totally think it's hot too!" Say this in a totally comfortable moment between you two- like when you're naked after sex, or cuddling, or something. Be open and supportive, and don't be suprised if your sex life gets a LOT hotter (and messier) in the future!

Exactly.

I remember years ago working in a department store. Part of my work involved working in the basement building bikes (they come partly assembled in a box).

The location was right beside the female employee's washroom and I was working with this guy one time and he says, "shush, you can hear them peeing"

Sure enough, you could hear the sounds of females peeing, which is fairly loud for some reason.

Anyway, were both grinning like the 17 year olds we were and every time we would hear the doors close, we would hush and imagine that it was one of the cute part timers and not one of the 300 pounders.

Watersports is a very common fetish. Maybe you could bring up the topic under the guise of discussing fantasies. Did you find his behaviour erotic?

I will just add my voice to the growing chorus of "communication is the key".

Who knows what does will be opened...

Ah, yes. The Deer fetish. :D

Seriously though, given your enthusiasm to help get him off, I doubt he'll be embarassed. Just start off with how excited you were to see him so excited and go from there.

You could just wait until he's in the bathroom again, and walk in and repeat, except, if he gets hard and turns away, just grab him and have at it. Then talk about it later.

Any time you bring up the subject, it might be embarrassing at first, but talk as adults and be open and honest. You never know what he might be open for!