Lindy

I've gone out on a few dates with a Japanese man, a visiting professor at one of the local colleges. We had talked several times about sexual customs and pornography, and he wondered if I would like to watch some Japanese porn. OK, I'll try something new. It was a little boring to me (not understanding Japanese) and it seemed like the actresses always seemed to be in pain. I guess a lot of Japanese porn is about rape, or at least reluctant sex on the part of the female.
Then there was a scene that he called "paizuru" maybe wrong spelling, but it's what we would call titfucking, or a boob jack. Now, Japanese porn is mostly censored with an electronically created "mosaic" to not show actual penetration, just part of the culture, I guess, but I just broke up laughing at this scene of tit fucking with the mosaic. I mean, everybody knew what was going on, but you could see neither dick nor breasts, which I thought was just silly. What's the point of watching titfucking when you can't see the tits or the cock?
He ended up leaving in a huff because I couldn't keep from laughing. He left the DVD behind, and I watched part of it the next day with the same reaction. I guess in Japan it is OK to be casual about rape and molestation, but showing genitals is a big no-no. Any comments?
Lindy

xepherys

Yeah, I think it's strange, too... but cultures are different, I guess. :-)

Seaver

I think it's strange that he busted out with rape-porn on a date whom he's been with only a short while... and then seemed offended when you weren't turned on.

innovis

I believe its the law that genitals have to be censored, although the anus DOES NOT. WTF?

Anyways, the girls acting like they don't want it seems to go along with Japanese modesty. The sometimes, it seems like the women don't enjoy it, or that they are in pain, but I think perhaps its just a different learned behavior or culture, plus their voices in general are much higher pitched and young-girlish.

Willravel

What's wrong with a ninja schoolgirl being raped by a monster with tentacles?


Consider this: Up until maybe the last 50 years or so, the culture in Japan was that of the patriarchy to the extreeme. The idea of equality is new (not that it isn't to us, but for some reason it's developed a lot differently there), and thus they are trying to integrate new ideas of sexuality into a sexually repressed culture. What does this mean? Well, up until recently women didn't really have as much choice as a man when it came to sexuality. Also, sexuality was NEVER spoken of. Sexuality was awkward (at least in my mind), and was very, very private. So as things are becoming more liberal, different parts of sexuality are moving at different speeds. Moestation and rape? NP! Actually seeing genetalia? CRAZY!!

Vincentt

Those are just the noises that Japanese girls make.

And for the most part they are Maguro (the japanese word for Tuna. Basicly, Dead fuck.) Because Japanese guys would be turned off by a girl that is too 'into' sex.

So even the AV girls will lay back with hands beside the face and squeek.

It is also the reason they are into rorikon, (into younger girls), they want a girl who is inexperenced, because of self doubt of their own.

Of course there are lots of exceptions, and many girls are getting into a sort of sexual revolution here, but for the most part it is true.

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aphex140

mirrors my thoughts on chinese porn I havce seen all very much the grils is being subjigated (?) to it rather than being a willing participant

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Kesmai

so the japnese men like it a lil kinky lol?

eribrav

Wow what a bunch of freaks! I bet they would go through Congressional hearings, decry the downfall of civilization as we know it and have an insane bout of censorship if someone showed a naked tit on a popular TV program!


Oh wait you mean that happened here already??????

Vincentt

They can show naked tits on TV.

They used to have 'how-to' sessions for bondage on late night TV.

All the stuff about Japan being "sexually repressed culture" well... I don't really know about that.

And there is plenty of porn here with out the censor, like the other sex laws here, it can be ignored at will.

In fact, Tokyo has only recently been 'cleaned up'. There used to be lots of panty-less places, with mirrors on the floor. Places to buy Magic Mushrooms, tons of sex shops etc.

Before the bubble economy fell though, Tokyo was a crazy place. Buying school girls for a designer bag..

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Daniel_

Gotta love the culture that invented tentacle rape porn...

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naef014050

Seems to be pretty happy

snowy

For sure...

But I like schoolgirl sisters better.

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Awesome! I get to share the Wiki entry on Hentai

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Shadow_fire

hahah when I first read that like 8 months ago I couldn't stop laughing...then I saw the zoomed in picture and I was all like, laughter gives way to vomiting? Oh noes.

Sharon

Lindy, couple of questions for you...

I'm assuming you didn't end up sleeping with this professor in the end? (I would have been curious to find out what his behaviour was like towards you in bed)

And secondly... can I ask how old he was? I'm just wondering whether he was a younger professor or an older gentleman kind of figure.