soma

Just a general question, when a girl salivates during sex, does that mean she is having an orgasm?

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visotech

I've never equated the two...

soma

Another question, if a girl is wet, does that mean she had an orgasm?

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doncalypso

Not necessarily.... Wetness usually means arousal. But then again, a woman's body can sometimes show the physical signs of arousal even if she doesn't really want to have sex and isn't horny.

I don't think there is a one-size-fits-all telltale sign of a woman having an orgasm.

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savvypup

No, just very horny and aroused. I'm more wet before I cum.

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abaya

There is no "sure-fire" way of knowing if a girl had an orgasm. It differs from person to person. Does SHE know when she's had an orgasm? Sometimes women haven't played with themselves enough to understand how it all works. If this is the case, she may need some time to explore herself.

The only way I'd recommend to you (instead of trying to use physical signs like these) is to build a trusting, communicative relationship with your partner and talk about these issues. If she's not telling you when she has an orgasm, then there seems to be something missing here... but that's just my opinion.

That said, for me as an individual, I know when I've had an orgasm because of the contractions in my vagina and pelvic area. I do tend to get more wet, but usually I'm wet the whole time so that's not a good indicator. I also crunch up my legs and turn on to my side as the orgasm hits me, squeezing my thighs (usually onto my boyfriend's head). He has told me that sometimes the taste of my fluid changes just before I come, which is interesting (but not a constant). Go figure.

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Carno

Wow dude. You need to do some serious reading about women and sex.

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raeanna74

Arousal or Orgasm does not always result in wetness or salivating.

I personally have a chemistry that means I dry out down there and my mouth dries out cause I breath hard and fast through an open mouth often when I'm cumming. For me it's the opposite often.

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ratbastid

What is she, Pavlov's Dog?

What an imaginative and confusing sex life you must have.

Mantus

Lets hope it's not rabies

Halx

It's not an orgasm, it's the jingling of change in your pocket. I know you'd like to think you mean that much to Lassie, but I'm sorry to disappoint you.

Aaaand on a more serious note - no.

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savvypup

C'mon, this person's asking our advice. It's not a stupid question to them, so we shouldn't respond that way. Be helpful or don't say anything.

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ciao bella!

abaya

Yeah, TFP'ers don't usually respond this way... kind of weird.

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taboo

that's funny..

little_tippler

I think what Abaya said is true, there is no sure way of knowing, But usually the contractions are a good indicator, I believe the majority of women have them just after. Is it so important to know?

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Toaster126

Luckily for you, there is a lot of learning you can do about sex without needing a pretty lady in your bed. The internet has some good resources on sexuality that can help you learn about the sexual response cycle. I have also heard lots of people recommend this book called The Guide to Getting It On! (The Universe's Coolest and Most Informative Book About Sex), by Paul Joannides. While I have not read it, apparently it's pretty good for stuff like this. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/188...lance&n=283155

I'm sure a library would also have some books offered that were of a similar nature. I guess my point is that you have the tools available to you so you can educate yourself. Plus, it's fun to read about.

And as an aside, I'm shocked at some of the posts in this thread.

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poundpuppy34

muscel spasms sometimes...

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Mistress Kali

depends whether she's wearing a gag and you placed honey on her tongue....she's humiliated but she may not be orgasming....

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Charlatan

I know I always drool a bit when I have an orgasm...

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BigBen

This goes in the TFP vault as being the BEST FIRST POST EVER!

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