men's "lingerie" and other ways to surprise the gf...
 

Hi all,

In about a month I'm heading up to Vancouver to spend the summer with my girlfriend. We will have been dating a year and a half this June but she has been away since January. I've seen her twice since then but the last time was in early March. Things are rough at times but we are doing great overall. :)

Anyway, I want to surprise her somehow when I get up there, a bedroom surprise. I try to keep things fresh as is, but I want to do something completely new. I love when she wears something sexy for me, but I don't know what I can wear for her. She says she loves me in boxer briefs... is there such a thing as men's lingerie? I'm open to damn near anything.

Anyone have any ideas or experiences they want to share?

-Zach

Hey VirFighter! I can't think of anything really sexy that I like a guy to wear, or at least at the moment, but I love that fresh shaven face with the smell of cologne ... but not too much. And I also like it when a guy shaves down yonder. Could spend all night kneeling when it's neatly shaved. Hope this helps!

Already keep it clean and trimmed, but have never shaved it smooth, that's something to try :)

I always heard that a women loves a guy in grey boxer briefs for some reason.
I would suggest just getting a few good pairs of those. CK or something; I dont know what girls think of the hanes. :)

My experience seems to indicate that anything a man might do to be more sexy only makes him look more silly.

But maybe that's just my experience. :rolleyes:

paying attention is sexy... she likes you in boxer briefs - that's your answer... just make sure they fit... the plumber look isn't a good look...

the silk drawers and the goofy thongs are not sexy -

Sexy is comfortable...

This is my experience as well.

What I have found is that they appreciate it more when you dress up for them. I don't always where a suit but occasionally I have met my wife at the door dressed up in my best suit. She likes the look and appreciates the effort to look good for her.

In fact, the last time we went out on a date we both got dressed up to go dancing. Not only did she like the fact that I was looking good, she liked the fact that she was looking good too... aphrodisiac doesn't begin to describe the effect it has on her.

This reminds me of one of those 'MY EYE MY EYES, THE GOGGLES THEY DO NOTHING' moments I had.

We are on the island of St. Martin on the French side. We took a day trip to the very popular, clothing optional beach there (Orient Bay). Now my wife and I are not strangers to nude beaches and this one was very tame, a few topless women, a nudist resort at one end, but mostly like any other beach. Then I innocently looked up from my book I was reading and was scarred, perhaps for life.

It wasn't the typical greasy euro male in a speedo and gold jewlery, I had become numb to them already. No it was a couple where they both had on thongs, and I was looking at the wrong end. It didn't help that they were not very attractive and about age 60 as well, but reguardless of age and looks MEN SHOULD NEVER WEAR THONGS. There is nothing about a string up a mans ass that would be sexy, it just doesn't work, the shapes are wrong, its the same type of reason men don't look good in high heels and would look like a over stuffed sausage in an evening dress. Its just wrong.

Likewise the same goes for lingerie of any kind for a man. When women want to suprise their man, they can buy lingerie, when men want to surprise their women, they can buy them lingerie. This isn't one of those sexist things, its just practical.

Nothing says "sexy" like a pair of stained tighty whiteys, with the elastic stretched out of shape. :suave:


What? :confused:

that's hot!! and can the threads be really worn down too... that's uber hot... :icare:

I will never forget the Valentines Day when I got home after work and found the hub dressed up in his nice suit, waiting to take me out. These were the days when he worked in jeans and a t-shirt, and I rarely, if ever, saw him dressed up.
When I saw him, and knew that he had gotten home early to be completely ready for me (showed, shaved, dressed, etc.)...well, it made me feel like a million bucks.
Didn't hurt that he also had a Le Belle Dame Sans Merci print (by Waterhouse) framed as my V-day gift, waiting for me as well.

Thanks for the advice everyone, I'll look for some nicer boxer briefs for her. Any suggestions now on where to look (I've always been a hanes guy with a few gap pairs thrown in)?

I have to agree with the above posters, dressing nice for you date is very classy, especially if you can couple it with going some place special/unique/different. And frankly most male "lingere" I have felt fell more into the humorous category instead of sexy. How many women are really turned on by elephant underwear with a trunk where you can put your johnson??

As to where you can get some nice boxers, just about anywhere - target, jc penny's, basically any male clothing store.

Just go to some fancy clothing place like the bay or something. Okay that isnt fancy but I am sure they have "name brand" gitch.

And mal you are too damn funny for your own good.

Yeah I'm gonna sign in here for NO on the "sexy" lingerie.

This is more of a PSA than anything else, actually: A word about underwear--always always always make sure it's loose enough that it doesn't poke into your flesh around your waist and hips. This might mean buying a size larger than usual. Nothing makes a person look fatter than clothes that are too small.

So you see what I mean, here are links to examples.
This thong is too small:
http://www.cantweight.net/files/album09a/thong.jpg
This thong is JUGST RIGHT:
http://www.1059thex.com/template/images/thong.jpg

They are on women but the theme holds true for ALL clothing--if it makes you look like the Michelin Man with fat bulges everywhere, it's too small!

ahhh but too loose and they just have droopy drawers... especially true for men who are (and this is said with a great deal of affection and jealousy) buttless wonders...

there some obscenely high percentage of women that wear the wrong size bra and/or wrong style bra because they've never been properly fitted for one... I'd say that the same is true for men with their undies... Someone should write a helpful hints pamphlet to tell men what is the best underwear for their body type...

Indeed, women seem to be more idealogical, so when you get some nice boxers, only wear them for special occasions. Same with scents. Obviously this works for both sexes, but seems to be more important for women.

Said a million times on TFP, and ad infinitum elsewhere:

Women connect emotionally, men connect visually.

Men like looking at birds with their kit off. Women like reading romance novels.

Hence, instead of lingerie, connect to her using feelings and emotions. Write her a love note. Clean the Kitchen, buy her flowers.

And take care of yourself. Smell presentable. Shave. Put on nice fitting, CLEAN clothes. Go to the gym. Work out a bit (but don't obsess about it), stay in shape.

Look her in the eyes, and listen to her.

Dude, you do that shit, she won't notice if you are wearing a goddamned corset and heels.

Ben is on the money with that post...

www.manties.com <-- panties for men -- these might do the trick :thumbsup:

Ben - Completely agree, 100%, oh yeah.

Fox - EWWWW!

Vir - If they have Nordstrom or Macy's, those would also be good places to look.

Mal - Isn't it so hot when the boys have worn through the fabric of the briefs, and they play peek-a-boo?!?

Always full of great humor and advice, I love TFP!

damn you beat me to it :crazy: :thumbsup:

Mmmmmmm ......... a nicely dressed guy in a suit. Now that is sexy. Like you said Sultana, when that's not an everyday attire, it's a huge turnon!!