02-13-2006, 12:20 PM | #41 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Austin, TX
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Heh, I got my wife a jeweled butt-plug for Valentines Day, and she got me a nice bong. I guess it's not flowers and chocolates, but both gifts were very thoughtful and perfect for each other. We couldn't wait 'till tomorrow though, so we exchanged gifts last night.
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02-13-2006, 03:36 PM | #42 (permalink) | |
Upright
Location: Peterborough, Ontario
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Soon as I read your post it made me think of that, just got if from my g/f this morning in the mail |
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02-13-2006, 04:26 PM | #43 (permalink) | |
Insane
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As long as its from the heart. Mind you my advice probably sucks... sent a valentine's card this year (just met the girl though she lives 2 doors down from me, pic, page 4 upper right image), used a Pushkin poem (thought it was vaguely reminiscent of our meeting).
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I like this time of year because you get to go and read up on poetry... something I never actually find time to do! |
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03-01-2006, 06:25 PM | #44 (permalink) |
Tilted
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Hello again, I thought I'd give anybody who was curiuos an update of how the weekend in question went down. Well to sum it up... it went fucking great.. I decieded on skipping the spa treatment after some scheduleing and budget issues and focused more on little touches that I knew she would appreciate. Such as I cooked her a few of her favorite snacks that she only mentioned to me once or twice a few months ago... and my ability to remember and then HAND make them scorded me big points. I did a few other subtle details that i've kept my eyes and ears open to during our conversations and they went over very well. The hot tub suite was amazing and she was overjoyed to see the room. The night went along very. One detail I never mentioned was that we had decieded to hold off on sex for at least quite awhile... maybe marriage which we have even talked about. But none the less... when we were together before we have come awefully close to sex.. but we held back. Well this weekend... we didn't hold back and it was amazing. We have since agreed that we will try to keep the no sex rule in place (as we don't want an accident at this point in our lives, and it'll make it that much better the day we might get married.) Anyway the night was a success and I would reccomend it to anybody looking for some fun. So I guess I have one more question.... what other things can we do to have sex... without actually having sex?? Thanks again everybody for their opinions and advice.
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03-01-2006, 09:49 PM | #45 (permalink) |
Psycho
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Congrats on a wonderful time.
My fiancée and I also agreed to wait until marriage, and after 7 years we've probably done everything except sex As for the "other things" you can't go wrong by starting with a massage. Of course you have to be naked for a proper massage, and things can easily heat up from there. After that there is mutual manual stimulation, oral, and a few others depending on what you both enjoy. But finding that out is part of the fun. |
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suggestions, surprise, vday |
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