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pattycakes · 06-13-2005, 10:47 PM

bros before hos is an old school saying... lnot really but its a good saying that i have heard plenty of times before

Jesus Pimp · 06-13-2005, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

This is part of growing up.

You go from being a 'pack' of young males, to being 'mated'.

Ethology at its core.

And while some people take this to an extreem early on, aka 'whipped', always in the end your SO comes first, period. The few men I've known who try to continue as a young male after they get married soon find themselves not married.

Wow what kind of women did they marry? So you're saying that males as they get older are destined to become lonely? That's not how I want to live my life. Why would anyone want to live their lives like that?

Being whipped sounds like the movie Shawshank Redemption

Ishmal · 06-13-2005, 11:37 PM

definately Bros b4 Hoes...

mates are forever whereas chicks come and go...

(i'm only talking from my limited experiance as an 19 YO male)

Ishmal · 06-13-2005, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

some people take this to an extreem early on, aka 'whipped',

i have a mate who is whipped... he had bn with his GF only a few weeks when he started blowing us off and spending time with her and only her... now he's gone and gotten her pregnant, so hes gunna have even less time to spend with his bros...

we'll miss him.

KellyC · 06-19-2005, 10:44 AM

I made a decision (by myself ^^) to place my gf before my friends. My gf proves to be a better friend than my close friends are, and much more than that, too. I'm not going to vote, though, because I don't like the word choice. I have too much respect for my gf to associate her with anything remotely derogatory. Lighten up nothing.

Jesus Pimp · 06-19-2005, 04:06 PM

What if your gf dumps you? Who will you turn to since you decided to drop all your friends for her?

doodlebird · 06-19-2005, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by healer

So if your SO's birthday and game 7 of the NBA finals are on the same day, take your girl to the game and get her name on the big screen

dude, if you're taking your girl to the 7th game of the finals... uhh, can i be your girl??? (never mind the adam's apple and the stubble)

KellyC · 06-20-2005, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus Pimp

What if your gf dumps you? Who will you turn to since you decided to drop all your friends for her?

You shouldn't equate me placing my gf before my friends the same as me dropping them for her. Fact is I love my gf more than my friends so I prioritize her before them. Now, if one day my gf should dump me, I wouldn't know what to do. One thing for sure though, I wouldn't turn to my friends. I've never turned to them when I'm in trouble or have problems and I don't plan to in the future. It's kinda weird how things work with me...ehhh...

I noticed that you're also vietnamese so here's a phrase to think about (hope you can read Viet): tri ky de kiem, tinh lang kho tim.

Disk_Pusher · 06-20-2005, 10:31 AM

Because all my friends are males and I've always tended to have a very "male" attitude toward women, I vote bros before hos. However, I respect the desire for pussy, and so I understand when a bro cuts out to hang with his girl. In my mind, a little time spent on her equals huge rewards for him, and if he's happy, I'm happy. Just don't bail on our goddamn LAN parties.

Ustwo · 06-20-2005, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus Pimp

Wow what kind of women did they marry? So you're saying that males as they get older are destined to become lonely? That's not how I want to live my life. Why would anyone want to live their lives like that?

Being whipped sounds like the movie Shawshank Redemption

I don't think you get it.

Your wife comes first, period, but that does not mean you dont' have friends. My wife doesn't care if I go out etc, but if it comes between say something my wife really wants me to do and something my friends do, the wife wins.

Hell my wife is about as good as they come in this reguard, I married quite well.

The biggest issue here is that your wife should be your best friend. I feel sorry for those people who's wife isn't their best friend.

Ustwo · 06-20-2005, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Ishmal

definately Bros b4 Hoes...

mates are forever whereas chicks come and go...

(i'm only talking from my limited experiance as an 19 YO male)

My now oldest friend I met when I was 21, most others are far more recent. I couldn't even tell you the names of more than one or two highschool friends.

Trust me, most friends come and go, and unless your lives take you in the same directions, you will find you have less and less in common with them until they are strangers.

Jinn · 06-20-2005, 11:07 AM

I've always been "bros before hos" because I believe that friends last longer than girlfriends. Case in point: Oldest Friends - known for 12 years. Oldest Girlfriend - 4 months and 2 days. My friends will always be important to me, because of our history and the fact that I have fun with them. HOWEVER, what happens when your "ho" is your best "bro..?" I realize that they're gender specific words, but the question becomes moot when someone can be both.

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I made a decision (by myself ^^) to place my gf before my friends. My gf proves to be a better friend than my close friends are, and much more than that, too. I'm not going to vote, though, because I don't like the word choice.

I'm putting my ho before my bros because my ho is one of the bros. Circular logic.. world implodes.

As for the word choice -- lighten up.

Master_Shake · 06-20-2005, 01:45 PM

Ha, probably depends on whether you've just started a sexual relationship or are just ending one.

Marriage inevitably destroys everything anyway.

stevie667 · 06-20-2005, 02:54 PM

Go with the one your sleeping with. If your not sleeping with someone for whatever reason, then go with the ones you don't sleep with.

Bob Biter · 06-21-2005, 04:36 PM

"Bros before hos" already implies a greater value placed on friends than casual female acquaintances. Obviously, in my book, a good friend will always get priority over a girl I've just met. I've heard another version of this that girls use: "chicks before dicks", which is just as derogatory, but is used in the same context.

Also, I've been in situations where a guy that hooks up with a truly awesome (physically or otherwise) girl would get some slack from any "bro" he would be with. Similar to "bros before hos" is "take one for the team", where a guy would let himself be stuck in an unpleasant situation, so that his friend might get an advantage. This would entail some sort of recompense after.

View Poll Results: Bros before hos or hos before bros?
Bros	45	59.21%
Hos	13	17.11%
I give them both equal time.	18	23.68%
Voters: 76. You may not vote on this poll

06-13-2005, 11:37 PM	#43 (permalink)
Ishmal Wicked Clown Location: House Of Horrors	definately Bros b4 Hoes... mates are forever whereas chicks come and go... (i'm only talking from my limited experiance as an 19 YO male) __________________ "Despite the high cost of living, it remains popular."

06-19-2005, 10:44 AM	#45 (permalink)
KellyC Comment or else!! Location: Home sweet home	I made a decision (by myself ^^) to place my gf before my friends. My gf proves to be a better friend than my close friends are, and much more than that, too. I'm not going to vote, though, because I don't like the word choice. I have too much respect for my gf to associate her with anything remotely derogatory. Lighten up nothing. __________________ Him: Ok, I have to ask, what do you believe? Me: Shit happens.

06-19-2005, 04:06 PM	#46 (permalink)
Jesus Pimp The Original JizzSmacka	What if your gf dumps you? Who will you turn to since you decided to drop all your friends for her? __________________ Never date anyone who doesn't make your dick hard.

06-20-2005, 10:31 AM	#49 (permalink)
Disk_Pusher Tilted Location: Fresno, soon to be Sacramento!	Because all my friends are males and I've always tended to have a very "male" attitude toward women, I vote bros before hos. However, I respect the desire for pussy, and so I understand when a bro cuts out to hang with his girl. In my mind, a little time spent on her equals huge rewards for him, and if he's happy, I'm happy. Just don't bail on our goddamn LAN parties. __________________ Some people push the envelope - I push the disk!

06-20-2005, 01:45 PM	#53 (permalink)
Master_Shake Addict Location: Pennsylvania, USA	Ha, probably depends on whether you've just started a sexual relationship or are just ending one. Marriage inevitably destroys everything anyway. __________________ ------------- You know something, I don't think the sun even... exists... in this place. 'Cause I've been up for hours, and hours, and hours, and the night never ends here.

06-20-2005, 02:54 PM	#54 (permalink)
stevie667 Too Awesome for Aardvarks Location: Angloland	Go with the one your sleeping with. If your not sleeping with someone for whatever reason, then go with the ones you don't sleep with. __________________ Office hours have changed. Please call during office hours for more information.

06-21-2005, 04:36 PM	#55 (permalink)
Bob Biter Non-smokers die everyday Location: Montreal	"Bros before hos" already implies a greater value placed on friends than casual female acquaintances. Obviously, in my book, a good friend will always get priority over a girl I've just met. I've heard another version of this that girls use: "chicks before dicks", which is just as derogatory, but is used in the same context. Also, I've been in situations where a guy that hooks up with a truly awesome (physically or otherwise) girl would get some slack from any "bro" he would be with. Similar to "bros before hos" is "take one for the team", where a guy would let himself be stuck in an unpleasant situation, so that his friend might get an advantage. This would entail some sort of recompense after. __________________ A plan is just a list of things that don't happen.