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VitaminH · 04-26-2005, 02:50 PM

First off, I apologize if this is a repeat, but I ran a search and didn't find anything directly pertaining to my situation, if I missed it, mods feel free to spank me and merge away.

About 6 months ago I decided it was time for a hairstyle change. I'd been doing the fairly short cut geled look since high school and I was tired of it. I let it grow long and was going for that sort of bed head, slightly messed up shaggy sort of look, if that makes any sense. Not sticking up, I let it lay on my head (this would be a lot easier if i had a digicam...) but didn't do much brushing or combing, often I towled it dry post shower, pushed it down to my head with the towel and it fell pretty much how i wanted it.

What I am looking for is a product that will more or less keep my hair in place without it clumping up much. Every person who has ever cut my hair has commented on how fine the hairs are. There's a lot of hair there, but the strands are VERY fine. I've found this leads to easy clumping whenever I put anything in my hair. I've tried gels, glues back when I had it short and those won't cut it. A pomade I tried just ended up forming booger like things in my hair when I tried to style (maybe I used it wrong?) and hair spray seems to make my hair feel and look oily. I was considering trying TIGI Bed Head since the name is what I am looking for, but I thought perhaps some of the more stylsih TFPers could offer some advice. I've been going with nothing in my hair this far, but I live in chicago and use public transportation which leads to me being in the wind a lot and by the time I get to work or school I've got hair going in every direction and it won't settle down all day. Today was horrible, one side was sticking almost straight out and I couldn't keep it down no matter how many trips to the bathroom to wet it I took.

I shampoo everyday, but don't condition. Should I condition?

Thanks!

chickentribs · 04-26-2005, 06:42 PM

Well, "stylish" may be a stretch - but what the hell, I'll give it a go! There are different densities of pomades, sounds like you should look for the soft stuff, almost like thick gravy in consistency. It's thick, but not solid so it won't clump. Try Garnier "Fructis Style" fiber gum. It sounds thick but it's not, but does a good job holding your hair. I find the more damp your hair is when you put it in the stiffer the hold. It is cheap and you should be able to get it at most chain stores that carry such stuff.

You should shampoo every other day or even every 3 days, unless you have worked out or work up a sweat at your job. 90% of guys don't need to use conditioner because our hair is simply not around long enough for any real damage to be done. Most shampoos are crap because of the perfumes and oils that are added to the glycerin. Suprisingly, the answer is to go really expensive, or really cheap! Suave shampoo is as pure as the high end stuff because they can't afford to add stuff to a $2 bottle of shampoo.

See, I knew dating that hairstylist last summer would eventually pay off!

TheJig · 04-27-2005, 10:23 AM

If you do use a pomade, or products like it (which I prefer) you should form a little ball in your hand with the product first. I usually go for pea-sized but it depends on how much hold you want. Then rub your hands together until the product is spread evenly over your palms and fingers. Then work it though your hair starting with your fingertips. If you do it this way it helps to keep the product from clumping in your hair, because you're applying it more evenly.

If that doesn't work, you could try using alot less. If your hair strands are thin it may not take much product to hold your hair where you want it.

Another thing you could try is applying the product when your hair is still a little bit wet. Hair products usually work differently depending on whether you apply them to wet or damp or dry hair. Try all three and see how they work.

Redlemon · 04-27-2005, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by VitaminH

What I am looking for is a product that will more or less keep my hair in place without it clumping up much. Every person who has ever cut my hair has commented on how fine the hairs are.

Have you been to a stylist that actually knows their product line? Explain to them the look you are trying to achieve, and ask them to show you how to apply the product that they recommend to you. Even if you usually get inexpensive cuts, it might be worth your while to have one haircut at a higher-end place.

Lead543 · 04-27-2005, 10:33 AM

TheJig is right, rub your hands together, this spreads the product out and makes it easier to apply. I have fine hair also and I found the Stiff #$%&% whatever it's spelt works best for smoothing and scruching...and messing up...and playing.

VitaminH · 04-27-2005, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Redlemon

Have you been to a stylist that actually knows their product line? Explain to them the look you are trying to achieve, and ask them to show you how to apply the product that they recommend to you. Even if you usually get inexpensive cuts, it might be worth your while to have one haircut at a higher-end place.

I'm most definitely going to a full stylest for my next cut, and I was going to speak with them about what I wanted, but right now finals are looming and my hair looks decent enough where I'm not emberassed to leave the house so I haven't been fretting to much.

Thanks to everyone for your advice. I will try a softer pomade and apply as directed, hopefully I will get what I am looking for.

04-26-2005, 02:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
VitaminH An embarrassment to myself and those around me... Location: Pants	Hair style help First off, I apologize if this is a repeat, but I ran a search and didn't find anything directly pertaining to my situation, if I missed it, mods feel free to spank me and merge away. About 6 months ago I decided it was time for a hairstyle change. I'd been doing the fairly short cut geled look since high school and I was tired of it. I let it grow long and was going for that sort of bed head, slightly messed up shaggy sort of look, if that makes any sense. Not sticking up, I let it lay on my head (this would be a lot easier if i had a digicam...) but didn't do much brushing or combing, often I towled it dry post shower, pushed it down to my head with the towel and it fell pretty much how i wanted it. What I am looking for is a product that will more or less keep my hair in place without it clumping up much. Every person who has ever cut my hair has commented on how fine the hairs are. There's a lot of hair there, but the strands are VERY fine. I've found this leads to easy clumping whenever I put anything in my hair. I've tried gels, glues back when I had it short and those won't cut it. A pomade I tried just ended up forming booger like things in my hair when I tried to style (maybe I used it wrong?) and hair spray seems to make my hair feel and look oily. I was considering trying TIGI Bed Head since the name is what I am looking for, but I thought perhaps some of the more stylsih TFPers could offer some advice. I've been going with nothing in my hair this far, but I live in chicago and use public transportation which leads to me being in the wind a lot and by the time I get to work or school I've got hair going in every direction and it won't settle down all day. Today was horrible, one side was sticking almost straight out and I couldn't keep it down no matter how many trips to the bathroom to wet it I took. I shampoo everyday, but don't condition. Should I condition? Thanks! __________________ "Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever." - Napoleon Bonaparte

04-26-2005, 06:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
chickentribs Addict Location: Mansion by day/Secret Lair by night	Well, "stylish" may be a stretch - but what the hell, I'll give it a go! There are different densities of pomades, sounds like you should look for the soft stuff, almost like thick gravy in consistency. It's thick, but not solid so it won't clump. Try Garnier "Fructis Style" fiber gum. It sounds thick but it's not, but does a good job holding your hair. I find the more damp your hair is when you put it in the stiffer the hold. It is cheap and you should be able to get it at most chain stores that carry such stuff. You should shampoo every other day or even every 3 days, unless you have worked out or work up a sweat at your job. 90% of guys don't need to use conditioner because our hair is simply not around long enough for any real damage to be done. Most shampoos are crap because of the perfumes and oils that are added to the glycerin. Suprisingly, the answer is to go really expensive, or really cheap! Suave shampoo is as pure as the high end stuff because they can't afford to add stuff to a $2 bottle of shampoo. See, I knew dating that hairstylist last summer would eventually pay off! __________________ Oft expectation fails... and most oft there Where most it promises - Shakespeare, W.

04-27-2005, 10:23 AM	#3 (permalink)
TheJig Crazy Location: The Marmalade Forest	If you do use a pomade, or products like it (which I prefer) you should form a little ball in your hand with the product first. I usually go for pea-sized but it depends on how much hold you want. Then rub your hands together until the product is spread evenly over your palms and fingers. Then work it though your hair starting with your fingertips. If you do it this way it helps to keep the product from clumping in your hair, because you're applying it more evenly. If that doesn't work, you could try using alot less. If your hair strands are thin it may not take much product to hold your hair where you want it. Another thing you could try is applying the product when your hair is still a little bit wet. Hair products usually work differently depending on whether you apply them to wet or damp or dry hair. Try all three and see how they work. __________________ "Jenny, tell me, do you still walk, do you still get into sandwiches in a big way?" - Flight of the Conchords

04-27-2005, 10:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
Lead543 Registered User Location: Calgary	TheJig is right, rub your hands together, this spreads the product out and makes it easier to apply. I have fine hair also and I found the Stiff #$%&% whatever it's spelt works best for smoothing and scruching...and messing up...and playing.