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Tusko · 01-30-2011, 01:18 PM

and i'm not doing as well as i'd hope to be doing regarding a 4year breakup.

not really looking for advice, since the only real advice anyone can offer in this situation is "keep busy" and "in time you'll be fine"

just sayin
maybe it wouldn't be so bad if she hadn't gone right into living with someone in like 2 days

Plan9 · 01-30-2011, 01:29 PM

It's okay to vent. I gotcha, brother. Here, read some relationship shit. And forget about her and her sloppy rebound.

What's the five step meme? Say it with me: Cut all contact. Delete Facebook. Hit the gym. Drink heavily. Remain calm.

Craven Morehead · 01-30-2011, 01:52 PM

I think you're expecting too much from yourself. It was 4 years in the making, you've only removed yourself from it for a month. It takes time. Unfortunately. Hang in there, it gets better.

zenda · 01-31-2011, 06:11 AM

Hi Tusco

Yeah, it's early days, and all strength and best wishes to you

amonkie · 01-31-2011, 09:25 AM

someone once told me that a healthy recovery typically takes 1 month for every year you were together.

I have no idea whether this holds any truth.. but cut yourself some slack.

01-30-2011, 01:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tusko Psycho	it's been a little more than a month and i'm not doing as well as i'd hope to be doing regarding a 4year breakup. not really looking for advice, since the only real advice anyone can offer in this situation is "keep busy" and "in time you'll be fine" just sayin maybe it wouldn't be so bad if she hadn't gone right into living with someone in like 2 days

01-30-2011, 01:29 PM	#2 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	It's okay to vent. I gotcha, brother. Here, read some relationship shit. And forget about her and her sloppy rebound. What's the five step meme? Say it with me: Cut all contact. Delete Facebook. Hit the gym. Drink heavily. Remain calm. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake." Last edited by Plan9; 01-30-2011 at 01:32 PM..

01-31-2011, 06:11 AM	#4 (permalink)
zenda Crazy Location: London, England	Hi Tusco Yeah, it's early days, and all strength and best wishes to you __________________ ZENDA

01-31-2011, 09:25 AM	#5 (permalink)
amonkie Drifting Administrator Location: Windy City	someone once told me that a healthy recovery typically takes 1 month for every year you were together. I have no idea whether this holds any truth.. but cut yourself some slack. __________________ Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna

01-30-2011, 01:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
Craven Morehead Custom User Title	I think you're expecting too much from yourself. It was 4 years in the making, you've only removed yourself from it for a month. It takes time. Unfortunately. Hang in there, it gets better.