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blindawg · 09-30-2003, 02:54 PM

Sitting my office the other day and we happened upon the subject of feeling uncomfortable discussing things (not that anything makes us uncomfortable, just about anything goes). We came around to the subject of a safety word.. The old stand by being

Camper

The guy I share an office with looks over at me ans goes. My safety word is: Get you dick out of my ass.. Anyway it was funny. Just curious if we can compile a list of peoples safety words..

FYI the safety word is the word you use if you're doing something new or dangerous or possibly uncomfortable for you partner. They would use that word to indicate that they want you to stop.

uncle phil · 09-30-2003, 04:29 PM

hey, guys, remember this..."SAFETIES!!!"

Midnight_Son · 09-30-2003, 05:07 PM

mines "ouch"

YzermanS19 · 09-30-2003, 05:10 PM

OKLAHOMA

cchris · 09-30-2003, 05:23 PM

Unlubricated

bundy · 09-30-2003, 08:04 PM

bladder

Giant Hamburger · 09-30-2003, 09:13 PM

"Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears;
I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him.
The evil that men do lives after them;
The good is oft interred with their bones;
So let it be with Caesar."

Four Fingers · 09-30-2003, 11:51 PM

whatever

suviko · 10-01-2003, 04:21 AM

"HOLD!" in bed kinda means "The show is cancelled, stop everything you are doing and apologize to be sure you didn't hurt me" but asking for "mercy" means "That was over the line, just keep going but don't do THAT again".

keef · 10-01-2003, 05:04 AM

my gf uses "buddy" alot; as in
theres a buddy in an unmarked car looking for someone to pull over.

GSRIDER · 10-01-2003, 05:58 AM

Armagedeon

any one any one

m0rpheus · 10-01-2003, 06:02 AM

how about "ow stop that now!"

queedo · 10-01-2003, 06:59 PM

ethnocentric

Macheath · 10-01-2003, 09:58 PM

Oh God.

MichaelFarker · 10-01-2003, 11:40 PM

I pretty much stick with saying what I mean when making love. A safety word might be a good idea though. I'll have to think about it.

Lebell · 10-02-2003, 01:00 AM

After some reading on D/S relationships and scenes, we've adopted what others have done:

Yellow = don't stop yet, but please back off of what you are doing
Red = STOP NOW.

Made sense, so long as you aren't one of those people that normally interpret 'Yellow' to mean 'Go like HELL!!!'.

Midlandmadman · 10-02-2003, 08:22 AM

I took mine from the great movie Half Baked "ABRA-CA-DABRA" !

09-30-2003, 02:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
blindawg Lord over all I survey Location: Northern Michigan	Safety Word Sitting my office the other day and we happened upon the subject of feeling uncomfortable discussing things (not that anything makes us uncomfortable, just about anything goes). We came around to the subject of a safety word.. The old stand by being Camper The guy I share an office with looks over at me ans goes. My safety word is: Get you dick out of my ass.. Anyway it was funny. Just curious if we can compile a list of peoples safety words.. FYI the safety word is the word you use if you're doing something new or dangerous or possibly uncomfortable for you partner. They would use that word to indicate that they want you to stop. __________________ ( • Y • ) I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it. ( • Y • ) - Jack Handey

09-30-2003, 04:29 PM	#2 (permalink)
uncle phil comfortably numb... Super Moderator Location: upstate	hey, guys, remember this..."SAFETIES!!!" __________________ "We were wrong, terribly wrong. (We) should not have tried to fight a guerrilla war with conventional military tactics against a foe willing to absorb enormous casualties...in a country lacking the fundamental political stability necessary to conduct effective military and pacification operations. It could not be done and it was not done." - Robert S. McNamara ----------------------------------------- "We will take our napalm and flame throwers out of the land that scarcely knows the use of matches... We will leave you your small joys and smaller troubles." - Eugene McCarthy in "Vietnam Message" ----------------------------------------- never wrestle with a pig. you both get dirty; the pig likes it.

09-30-2003, 05:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
Midnight_Son The Cover Doesn't Match The Book Location: in a van down by the river	mines "ouch" __________________ SWM, tattooed, seeks meaningful tits and beer. Enjoys biker mags, pornography, and Sunday morning walks to the liquor store. Winners of erotic hot dog eating contests given priority.

09-30-2003, 05:10 PM	#4 (permalink)
YzermanS19 not your typical god-fearing junkie Location: State of Confusion	OKLAHOMA __________________ the light that burns twice as bright burns half as long and you have burned so very, very brightly

09-30-2003, 05:23 PM	#5 (permalink)
cchris Junkie Location: Sydney	Unlubricated __________________ There's a fine line between participation and mockery

09-30-2003, 08:04 PM	#6 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	bladder __________________ Ohayo!!!

09-30-2003, 09:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
Giant Hamburger Gastrolithuanian Location: low-velocity Earth orbit	"Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears; I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him. The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interred with their bones; So let it be with Caesar."

09-30-2003, 11:51 PM	#8 (permalink)
Four Fingers Crazy	whatever __________________ "Always do right - this will gratify some and astonish the rest."

10-01-2003, 04:21 AM	#9 (permalink)
suviko Banned	"HOLD!" in bed kinda means "The show is cancelled, stop everything you are doing and apologize to be sure you didn't hurt me" but asking for "mercy" means "That was over the line, just keep going but don't do THAT again".

10-01-2003, 05:04 AM	#10 (permalink)
keef Tilted Location: south east US	my gf uses "buddy" alot; as in theres a buddy in an unmarked car looking for someone to pull over.

10-01-2003, 05:58 AM	#11 (permalink)
GSRIDER spurt king Location: Out of my mind	Armagedeon any one any one __________________ No signature at this time.

10-01-2003, 06:02 AM	#12 (permalink)
m0rpheus bad craziness Location: Guelph, Ontario	how about "ow stop that now!" __________________ "it never got weird enough for me." - Hunter S. Thompson

10-01-2003, 06:59 PM	#13 (permalink)
queedo Shodan	ethnocentric __________________ If you think you can or you can't, you are right!

10-01-2003, 09:58 PM	#14 (permalink)
Macheath Junkie Location: Sydney, Australia	Oh God.

10-01-2003, 11:40 PM	#15 (permalink)
MichaelFarker 2+2=5? Not again! Location: Dallas, Texas	I pretty much stick with saying what I mean when making love. A safety word might be a good idea though. I'll have to think about it.

10-02-2003, 01:00 AM	#16 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	After some reading on D/S relationships and scenes, we've adopted what others have done: Yellow = don't stop yet, but please back off of what you are doing Red = STOP NOW. Made sense, so long as you aren't one of those people that normally interpret 'Yellow' to mean 'Go like HELL!!!'. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!

10-02-2003, 08:22 AM	#17 (permalink)
Midlandmadman Redwing fan extraordinaire Location: Michigan	I took mine from the great movie Half Baked "ABRA-CA-DABRA" ! __________________ Its good to be back.