I need a toy....any suggestions?
 

Okay ladies....I need your help.

See, I like getting off a lot, to be quite blunt. Unfortunately my guy and I don't hook up as much as I would like so I am left looking at the options I suppose.

What are some of your favorite toys, dildos, whatever you have used? Do you have any advice on what a beginner should start off with? I like the idea of the "tongue" dildo - has anyone used one and are they good...bad...or what! lol

Help a girl out!

Angel to the rescue....heh heh

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It is difficult to truly suggest anything specific as we all have different preferences. However, the kits that have a main vibrating probe with various types of gel sleeves are great for variety and experimenting. Of course, that must include something that stimulates the clit as well and other arousing areas.

The other day I was looking at one of the tongue ones that also had suction abilities and I tinkered with the purchase, but the material it was made out of was hard and didn't seem as though it would give a "natural" feel so I opted out.

Might I suggest that you make a purchase for your guys pleasure as well. After all, he needs a little lovin' too! ;) Then when you are together you can have all kinds of fun.

If you have any specific questions or want more info, PM me. I'll be glad to assist in any way I can.
Ha ha! okay, there was no pun intended there!

The Hitachi Magic Wand is the only one I use...it is Wonderful!

small and simple is my advise. i have a small vibe i love to death. Don't do a lot of solo work, but every now and again we'll snag it for some added fun during sex. :)

I personally have a preference for toys that plug into the wall...ala the magic wand or another variety of "back" massager. battery-operated devices just tend to go through them too quickly, espec. if you're planning on using it a lot.

i'd say if you're going to use a toy for mostly solo work, look at the magic wand or the wahl's. if you're looking for a toy for both, look at the magic wand or a battery-operated vibe. a battery-operated vibe is better, imo, for use in loveplay, simply because the cord of a plug-in model gets in the way.

secondly, do you get off better from having your clit or your g-spot stimulated? If you like having your g-spot stimulated, I would recommend looking into a toy for that, typically a model with a curved tip.

I personally own not one, but two vibes. One is an old-school back massager from the 70s that is AMAZING. My other vibe is a handheld vibe designed for g-spot stimulation with an egg-shaped end. It's perfect for both g-spot stimulation and clit stimulation. I looooove it. At first I didn't like it much, but now...wow. :) Good luck on your search for toys. Let us know how it goes!

Before buying a toy, you should ask yourself a few questions to figure out exactly what you want:

• Penetration or Clitoral Stimulation?
• Electric or Battery Operated?
• Is quality your first concern?
• Do you need variable speed vibration?
• Is the noise level important?
• Want to be able to use anally?
• Are you looking for something waterproof?
• Want to be able to share with your partner?
• Or do you want it all?

One of the sites that I have found helps you find the right toy that fits your answers to the questions above is Toys in Babeland. Their prices are good and have a great reputation. They also seem to have great customer support.

Oh my god Jadzia......the choices!!!!!! Wow....I'm almost overwhelmed here! (I had never given a thought to the "noise" factor - sorry that made me giggle a little or the "waterproof" factor.....hmmmm) :P

I think, after all of your wonderful advice...thanks, by the way.....I will go shopping for a magic wand. I don't intend to use it all the time, but a girl's got needs and I would also love to be able to use it with my guy also!

I thought this little fella was cute.

http://www.weirdo.com/winniethepoohvibrator.htm

This cute vibe is another official Disney product imported from Japan! It's very rare and hard to find. It's about 5 inches long and has the Pooh Bear on it. The head of the vibrator is Pooh's favorite treat, Hunny! Don't get all sticky!

( sorry, I'm still having a really hard time attaching images!)

Adult Warehouse Adam and Eve


two of my personal favorites to go too

Thank you all for your advice!
And I think I like Suviko's soft-surfaced dildo thing.....that appeals to me more than a vibe.