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lindalove 08-04-2005 04:16 PM

Craziest thing you have ever did for love?
 
The craziest thing I've done to be with someone is be their bit on the side. I fell deeply in love with this guy, we dated each other for about half a year. He met someone else and left me, I carried on seeing him though despite him having a girlfriend. I just couldn't let him go so I accepted that I was the other girl. I carried on sleeping with the guy. I was ever so crazy.

It's what love did to me. I would never do it again though, I've learned my lesson.

noodle 08-04-2005 04:44 PM

Took him back.

ngdawg 08-04-2005 04:59 PM

Wait in the shadows

Sugar&Spice 08-04-2005 05:01 PM

I would have to say...not breaking up with him after he cheated on me. I loved him and thought we could work through it. But, what do I get for that? He broke up with me about a year after that...so about three weeks ago. I no longer believe in second chances for someone who cheats on me.

shesus 08-04-2005 06:45 PM

Broke off an engagement to be with my true love.

superredhead 08-04-2005 07:06 PM

broke off my relationship with my now ex fiance, moved out of my apartment i shared with him, turned my world upside down, took a risk and took a job offer, moved to san francisco and loved every moment i have spent with my love.

noodle 08-05-2005 03:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ngdawg
Wait in the shadows

Oh, crap. I did that too.

Sue 08-05-2005 05:20 AM

Moved from Florida to Massachusetts when I was 18 and gave my parents 2 day's notice.

I'm back in Florida now. ;)

little_tippler 08-05-2005 09:13 AM

taking a guy back after being cheated on, spending 1 1/2 years in a long-distance relationship with a guy I only initially spent a week with, letting a guy "hit" me and basically letting him get away with it...eh take your pick.

Sugarmouse 08-06-2005 07:57 AM

took a guy vback who cheated on me...put up with emotional abuse...gave my first two boyfriends all the money i had...possbly cos i tort they would love me more....stupidest thing has to be expecting someone to chage:(

staying with someone who made me deeply unhappy...just cos i thought one day he might actually care.......

greeneyes 08-06-2005 11:02 AM

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years for a man I knew for all of two and a half weeks.

The ex and I lived together and everything... so it was a huge mess. All of that was this past May and now I'm getting married in September. There was a lot of heartache when it all went down, but it was totally worth it.

Well, I'm sure dirtyrascal doesn't think that, but he knows I meant him no intentional harm.

SiN 08-06-2005 11:59 AM

Craziest thing ... moving to Germany. wtf was i thinking? :hmm:

:D

.... er, and after reading the title a 2nd time ...

done.
thanks.
that is all.

raeanna74 08-06-2005 02:57 PM

Snuck off campus to meet up with my now husband. Ended up doing this by walking through the woods to get to a road nearby. This was even crazier than it sounds. I was a senior at a strict Baptist college where if I had been caught I would have been kicked out and lost 3 1/2 years of credits. I would have been sent home and humilated.

Studied Satanism with my first boyfriend. That chapter is long closed.

StormBerlin 08-06-2005 04:00 PM

Putting up with the fact that he's half-assedly trying to work things out with his wife. Haven't learned my lesson yet, apparently....

Seeker 08-07-2005 04:56 AM

Loved and respected them more than I did myself...

Lesson learned ;)

Demeter 08-08-2005 12:15 AM

I put him before me, let him make feel feel second class. Did it for over 10 years...

Grasshopper Green 08-08-2005 12:06 PM

Probably...gave up my virginity before I was really ready to. Not a good experience.

Sugarmouse 08-08-2005 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Demeter
I put him before me, let him make feel feel second class. Did it for over 10 years...


it is mad! i coulnt stick with it for so long..but i let someone get me so low i felt ill..cos i loved him

lillala 08-08-2005 04:17 PM

I stayed in a 2 year relationship under the false pretenses that it would get better. It never did. But because of him I met my current boyfriend who is an amazing guy, so I guess you live and you learn.

Mugzy6 08-08-2005 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Medusa99
Probably...gave up my virginity before I was really ready to. Not a good experience.

I totally understand this. Had I known what I know now I would have waited till the boyfriend after him. He was just such a loser. Cheated on me and all that.

greeneyes 08-09-2005 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by greeneyes
I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years for a man I knew for all of two and a half weeks.

The ex and I lived together and everything... so it was a huge mess. All of that was this past May and now I'm getting married in September. There was a lot of heartache when it all went down, but it was totally worth it.

Well, I'm sure dirtyrascal doesn't think that, but he knows I meant him no intentional harm.

Dirtyrascal IMed me and ask that I post this for him:

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirtyrascal7
Hmm... well since you've mentioned me by "name", I feel compelled to respond. :p

I don't think it was a huge mess... our relationship was definitely ending, but things could've been a lot worse. The timing of all this was so fateful it's scary... if we'd have broken up before then, you never would've met him, but if we would've stayed together, we surely would've grown to hate each other. Luckily, it all ended before things regressed that far... and we were able to salvage a good frienship thanks to that fact.

Now, she is happier with him than she ever would have been with me, and I am happier being single and knowing I still have yet to meet my perfect someone. So what else can I say besides, yes... it was totally worth it.


chelsea_9 08-10-2005 09:46 PM

held onto a crush for 3 years over a guy i had never even met.

it actually worked too...

he introdruced himself to me in the end.


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