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lindalove · 08-04-2005, 04:16 PM

The craziest thing I've done to be with someone is be their bit on the side. I fell deeply in love with this guy, we dated each other for about half a year. He met someone else and left me, I carried on seeing him though despite him having a girlfriend. I just couldn't let him go so I accepted that I was the other girl. I carried on sleeping with the guy. I was ever so crazy.

It's what love did to me. I would never do it again though, I've learned my lesson.

noodle · 08-04-2005, 04:44 PM

Took him back.

ngdawg · 08-04-2005, 04:59 PM

Wait in the shadows

Sugar&Spice · 08-04-2005, 05:01 PM

I would have to say...not breaking up with him after he cheated on me. I loved him and thought we could work through it. But, what do I get for that? He broke up with me about a year after that...so about three weeks ago. I no longer believe in second chances for someone who cheats on me.

shesus · 08-04-2005, 06:45 PM

Broke off an engagement to be with my true love.

superredhead · 08-04-2005, 07:06 PM

broke off my relationship with my now ex fiance, moved out of my apartment i shared with him, turned my world upside down, took a risk and took a job offer, moved to san francisco and loved every moment i have spent with my love.

noodle · 08-05-2005, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by ngdawg

Wait in the shadows

Oh, crap. I did that too.

Sue · 08-05-2005, 05:20 AM

Moved from Florida to Massachusetts when I was 18 and gave my parents 2 day's notice.

I'm back in Florida now.

little_tippler · 08-05-2005, 09:13 AM

taking a guy back after being cheated on, spending 1 1/2 years in a long-distance relationship with a guy I only initially spent a week with, letting a guy "hit" me and basically letting him get away with it...eh take your pick.

Sugarmouse · 08-06-2005, 07:57 AM

took a guy vback who cheated on me...put up with emotional abuse...gave my first two boyfriends all the money i had...possbly cos i tort they would love me more....stupidest thing has to be expecting someone to chage

staying with someone who made me deeply unhappy...just cos i thought one day he might actually care.......

greeneyes · 08-06-2005, 11:02 AM

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years for a man I knew for all of two and a half weeks.

The ex and I lived together and everything... so it was a huge mess. All of that was this past May and now I'm getting married in September. There was a lot of heartache when it all went down, but it was totally worth it.

Well, I'm sure dirtyrascal doesn't think that, but he knows I meant him no intentional harm.

SiN · 08-06-2005, 11:59 AM

Craziest thing ... moving to Germany. wtf was i thinking?

.... er, and after reading the title a 2nd time ...

done.
thanks.
that is all.

raeanna74 · 08-06-2005, 02:57 PM

Snuck off campus to meet up with my now husband. Ended up doing this by walking through the woods to get to a road nearby. This was even crazier than it sounds. I was a senior at a strict Baptist college where if I had been caught I would have been kicked out and lost 3 1/2 years of credits. I would have been sent home and humilated.

Studied Satanism with my first boyfriend. That chapter is long closed.

StormBerlin · 08-06-2005, 04:00 PM

Putting up with the fact that he's half-assedly trying to work things out with his wife. Haven't learned my lesson yet, apparently....

Seeker · 08-07-2005, 04:56 AM

Loved and respected them more than I did myself...

Lesson learned

Demeter · 08-08-2005, 12:15 AM

I put him before me, let him make feel feel second class. Did it for over 10 years...

Grasshopper Green · 08-08-2005, 12:06 PM

Probably...gave up my virginity before I was really ready to. Not a good experience.

Sugarmouse · 08-08-2005, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Demeter

I put him before me, let him make feel feel second class. Did it for over 10 years...

it is mad! i coulnt stick with it for so long..but i let someone get me so low i felt ill..cos i loved him

lillala · 08-08-2005, 04:17 PM

I stayed in a 2 year relationship under the false pretenses that it would get better. It never did. But because of him I met my current boyfriend who is an amazing guy, so I guess you live and you learn.

Mugzy6 · 08-08-2005, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Medusa99

Probably...gave up my virginity before I was really ready to. Not a good experience.

I totally understand this. Had I known what I know now I would have waited till the boyfriend after him. He was just such a loser. Cheated on me and all that.

greeneyes · 08-09-2005, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by greeneyes

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years for a man I knew for all of two and a half weeks.

The ex and I lived together and everything... so it was a huge mess. All of that was this past May and now I'm getting married in September. There was a lot of heartache when it all went down, but it was totally worth it.

Well, I'm sure dirtyrascal doesn't think that, but he knows I meant him no intentional harm.

Dirtyrascal IMed me and ask that I post this for him:

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirtyrascal7

Hmm... well since you've mentioned me by "name", I feel compelled to respond.

I don't think it was a huge mess... our relationship was definitely ending, but things could've been a lot worse. The timing of all this was so fateful it's scary... if we'd have broken up before then, you never would've met him, but if we would've stayed together, we surely would've grown to hate each other. Luckily, it all ended before things regressed that far... and we were able to salvage a good frienship thanks to that fact.

Now, she is happier with him than she ever would have been with me, and I am happier being single and knowing I still have yet to meet my perfect someone. So what else can I say besides, yes... it was totally worth it.

chelsea_9 · 08-10-2005, 09:46 PM

held onto a crush for 3 years over a guy i had never even met.

it actually worked too...

he introdruced himself to me in the end.

08-04-2005, 04:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
lindalove Registered User	Craziest thing you have ever did for love? The craziest thing I've done to be with someone is be their bit on the side. I fell deeply in love with this guy, we dated each other for about half a year. He met someone else and left me, I carried on seeing him though despite him having a girlfriend. I just couldn't let him go so I accepted that I was the other girl. I carried on sleeping with the guy. I was ever so crazy. It's what love did to me. I would never do it again though, I've learned my lesson.

08-04-2005, 04:59 PM	#3 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	Wait in the shadows __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

08-04-2005, 05:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	I would have to say...not breaking up with him after he cheated on me. I loved him and thought we could work through it. But, what do I get for that? He broke up with me about a year after that...so about three weeks ago. I no longer believe in second chances for someone who cheats on me. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

08-04-2005, 06:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	Broke off an engagement to be with my true love. __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

08-04-2005, 07:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
superredhead Crazy Location: Around So Cal.	broke off my relationship with my now ex fiance, moved out of my apartment i shared with him, turned my world upside down, took a risk and took a job offer, moved to san francisco and loved every moment i have spent with my love. __________________ yawn

08-05-2005, 05:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
Sue Teufel Hunden's Freundin Location: Westminster, CO	Moved from Florida to Massachusetts when I was 18 and gave my parents 2 day's notice. I'm back in Florida now. __________________ Teg yw edrych tuag adref.

08-05-2005, 09:13 AM	#9 (permalink)
little_tippler Leaning against the -Sun- Super Moderator Location: on the other side	taking a guy back after being cheated on, spending 1 1/2 years in a long-distance relationship with a guy I only initially spent a week with, letting a guy "hit" me and basically letting him get away with it...eh take your pick. __________________ Whether we write or speak or do but look We are ever unapparent. What we are Cannot be transfused into word or book. Our soul from us is infinitely far. However much we give our thoughts the will To be our soul and gesture it abroad, Our hearts are incommunicable still. In what we show ourselves we are ignored. The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged By any skill of thought or trick of seeming. Unto our very selves we are abridged When we would utter to our thought our being. We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams, And each to each other dreams of others' dreams. Fernando Pessoa, 1918

08-06-2005, 07:57 AM	#10 (permalink)
Sugarmouse Insane Location: Preston lancs(i know i know)	took a guy vback who cheated on me...put up with emotional abuse...gave my first two boyfriends all the money i had...possbly cos i tort they would love me more....stupidest thing has to be expecting someone to chage staying with someone who made me deeply unhappy...just cos i thought one day he might actually care....... __________________ Sugarmouse=Festered

08-06-2005, 11:02 AM	#11 (permalink)
greeneyes Insane Location: Charlotte, NC	I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years for a man I knew for all of two and a half weeks. The ex and I lived together and everything... so it was a huge mess. All of that was this past May and now I'm getting married in September. There was a lot of heartache when it all went down, but it was totally worth it. Well, I'm sure dirtyrascal doesn't think that, but he knows I meant him no intentional harm. __________________ Put the blame on me So you don't feel a thing Go on and save yourself Take it out on me

08-06-2005, 11:59 AM	#12 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	Craziest thing ... moving to Germany. wtf was i thinking? .... er, and after reading the title a 2nd time ... *done. thanks. that is all. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach Last edited by SiN; 08-06-2005 at 12:03 PM..*

08-06-2005, 02:57 PM	#13 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Snuck off campus to meet up with my now husband. Ended up doing this by walking through the woods to get to a road nearby. This was even crazier than it sounds. I was a senior at a strict Baptist college where if I had been caught I would have been kicked out and lost 3 1/2 years of credits. I would have been sent home and humilated. Studied Satanism with my first boyfriend. That chapter is long closed. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

08-06-2005, 04:00 PM	#14 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	Putting up with the fact that he's half-assedly trying to work things out with his wife. Haven't learned my lesson yet, apparently.... __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

08-07-2005, 04:56 AM	#15 (permalink)
Seeker Getting Clearer Location: with spirit	Loved and respected them more than I did myself... Lesson learned __________________ *To those who wander but who are not lost...* ~ Knowledge is not something you acquire, it is something you open yourself to.

08-08-2005, 12:15 AM	#16 (permalink)
Demeter Psycho	I put him before me, let him make feel feel second class. Did it for over 10 years... __________________ I am not bound to please thee with my answers. William Shakespeare

08-08-2005, 12:06 PM	#17 (permalink)
Grasshopper Green ...is a comical chap Location: Where morons reign supreme	Probably...gave up my virginity before I was really ready to. Not a good experience. __________________ "They say that patriotism is the last refuge to which a scoundrel clings; steal a little and they throw you in jail, steal a lot and they make you king" Formerly Medusa

08-08-2005, 04:17 PM	#19 (permalink)
lillala Upright Location: Thousand Oaks, CA	I stayed in a 2 year relationship under the false pretenses that it would get better. It never did. But because of him I met my current boyfriend who is an amazing guy, so I guess you live and you learn.

08-10-2005, 09:46 PM	#22 (permalink)
chelsea_9 Crazy Location: somewhere i intend to leave	held onto a crush for 3 years over a guy i had never even met. it actually worked too... he introdruced himself to me in the end. __________________ all good dreamers pass this way some day hiding behind bottles in dark cafes