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LesterLu · 01-19-2005, 04:09 PM

No, I have never been to one at all, does that make me a prude?

Maleigh99 · 02-10-2005, 11:57 AM

I've been a couple of times with my husband. The first time we went with a friend and it was great. Lots of fun. My poor hubby though was a bit uncomfortable watching these naked women while his wife was there (very understandable). I had a good time and had no problem with him looking at other women. The second time wasn't as fun. Not sure if we'll do it again together. And I agree the women are quite nice to the ladies.

astrahl · 02-10-2005, 12:07 PM

Never been. I'd rather leave a great tip for a waitress putting herself through school working at a restaurant rather than support the women who participate at that kind of oogle-fest. Same reason I don't go to hooters.

ShaniFaye · 02-10-2005, 12:11 PM

many many many times......I used to like to "dress up" which mean a really MINI mini skirt and my corset with nothing under it. Problem was I would be sitting at the table and guys would come up and ask me for lap dances....now while SO has NO problem with that and thinks its super cool.....the club didnt like it and I'd get asked to leave.

I love watching women dance if they are good and look like they having a good time. Its always my job to go tip them

ironmaiden7o7 · 02-11-2005, 12:27 AM

I've never been to a strip joint, I don't find it appealing, it's like a meat-fest there! My boyfriend isn't really interested either. But I do know a few people that has gone with their mates and they claim that it was a wonderful experience. I think if you're into that stuff, then you don't really need any heads up prior to going, you just need to go and have a good time. I am sure the experience is different and extreme, it's just isn't for me. Have fun!

little_tippler · 02-11-2005, 04:21 AM

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Originally Posted by maleficent

.. the strippers themselves, were a bit on the skanky side (and this was a nicer gentlemen's club. I didn't quite get the attraction.

If you wanna go - -just go -- it's a few hours out of your life.. you will probably want to shower when you are done... but it's something that you can say you did...

yeah I think that's how I'd feel about it...I've never been but I just imagine it as a sweaty seedy place where the women are there for money and it just seems sad, even if some do enjoy it...not an urge I have personally.

raeanna74 · 02-11-2005, 06:10 AM

I'm slow getting to this thread - Oh well, here's my 2c.

Hubby and I went for our first time with another swinger couple that we know. The club wasn't the most upscale but wasn't too bad. One of hubby's co-workers happened to show up and we got a little nervous. This is cause we were in a nearby town and hubby and I have family in my town that would be VERY upset about us doing anything like that. Hubby's co-worker though was just in the middle of an unpleasant divorce and didn't want the news getting out that he'd gone either. He said to hubby - "we didn't see each other here, right?" So I guess he was more concerned that we were. So anyway - beyond getting 'caught' being naughty - which btw made it more fun in my opinion - my evaluation of the experience - FUN - Not so much that it was worth the tips and drinks. We're kindof cheapskates and all. Some of the girls got exceptionally friendly with our girlfriend and me. The guys in the place were quite interested in that. It was fun for me as well as hubby. The girls in this particular place ran the whole gamut. One was a little chubbier even. Some weren't so skanky. Still we showered when we got home. Some of the girls were obviously friendly only until we gave them a tip and then they were off to bait some more people. We actually got to talk to one girl. It kindof made us sad. She was a 19 yr old single Mom and had a hard time finding other work. She was lovely but it seemed like she was sad that she was working there. It was interesting.

Hubby and I would go again perhaps. We go to swinger parties where we can see and even touch other naked people. It seems so much more real than the strip clubs and we don't have to tip people so it's more about the friendship than any amount of money. To go to a strip club seems so minor to going to the swinger clubs. If we weren't swingers though - you can bet we'd go to more strip clubs. The voyeuristic experience is a lot of fun for both of us and you can guarantee that some action will be had soon as we get home.

qtpye4u84 · 02-11-2005, 07:28 PM

When I went the girls were all over me, they were also trying to get my boyfriend to buy me a lap dance. I knew one of the girl's because she went to high school with me I never really liked her(doubt she remembered me). She was slutty and dropped out of the 10th grade.
3 stripper girls told me to stand up so they could look at my body, they told me I should work there. I felt kinda naked.
It was funny when a stripper was trying to get my boyfriend to let her give me a free lap dance she was putting her boobs in my face then she fell down she tripped on the chair. I felt kinda bad .

02-10-2005, 12:11 PM	#44 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	many many many times......I used to like to "dress up" which mean a really MINI mini skirt and my corset with nothing under it. Problem was I would be sitting at the table and guys would come up and ask me for lap dances....now while SO has NO problem with that and thinks its super cool.....the club didnt like it and I'd get asked to leave. I love watching women dance if they are good and look like they having a good time. Its always my job to go tip them __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

02-11-2005, 06:10 AM	#47 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I'm slow getting to this thread - Oh well, here's my 2c. Hubby and I went for our first time with another swinger couple that we know. The club wasn't the most upscale but wasn't too bad. One of hubby's co-workers happened to show up and we got a little nervous. This is cause we were in a nearby town and hubby and I have family in my town that would be VERY upset about us doing anything like that. Hubby's co-worker though was just in the middle of an unpleasant divorce and didn't want the news getting out that he'd gone either. He said to hubby - "we didn't see each other here, right?" So I guess he was more concerned that we were. So anyway - beyond getting 'caught' being naughty - which btw made it more fun in my opinion - my evaluation of the experience - FUN - Not so much that it was worth the tips and drinks. We're kindof cheapskates and all. Some of the girls got exceptionally friendly with our girlfriend and me. The guys in the place were quite interested in that. It was fun for me as well as hubby. The girls in this particular place ran the whole gamut. One was a little chubbier even. Some weren't so skanky. Still we showered when we got home. Some of the girls were obviously friendly only until we gave them a tip and then they were off to bait some more people. We actually got to talk to one girl. It kindof made us sad. She was a 19 yr old single Mom and had a hard time finding other work. She was lovely but it seemed like she was sad that she was working there. It was interesting. Hubby and I would go again perhaps. We go to swinger parties where we can see and even touch other naked people. It seems so much more real than the strip clubs and we don't have to tip people so it's more about the friendship than any amount of money. To go to a strip club seems so minor to going to the swinger clubs. If we weren't swingers though - you can bet we'd go to more strip clubs. The voyeuristic experience is a lot of fun for both of us and you can guarantee that some action will be had soon as we get home. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

02-11-2005, 07:28 PM	#48 (permalink)
qtpye4u84 Flavor+noodles Location: oregon	When I went the girls were all over me, they were also trying to get my boyfriend to buy me a lap dance. I knew one of the girl's because she went to high school with me I never really liked her(doubt she remembered me). She was slutty and dropped out of the 10th grade. 3 stripper girls told me to stand up so they could look at my body, they told me I should work there. I felt kinda naked. It was funny when a stripper was trying to get my boyfriend to let her give me a free lap dance she was putting her boobs in my face then she fell down she tripped on the chair. I felt kinda bad . __________________ The QTpie

01-19-2005, 04:09 PM	#41 (permalink)
LesterLu Upright	No, I have never been to one at all, does that make me a prude?

02-10-2005, 11:57 AM	#42 (permalink)
Maleigh99 Upright Location: Texas	I've been a couple of times with my husband. The first time we went with a friend and it was great. Lots of fun. My poor hubby though was a bit uncomfortable watching these naked women while his wife was there (very understandable). I had a good time and had no problem with him looking at other women. The second time wasn't as fun. Not sure if we'll do it again together. And I agree the women are quite nice to the ladies.

02-10-2005, 12:07 PM	#43 (permalink)
astrahl Insane Location: You don't want to live here	Never been. I'd rather leave a great tip for a waitress putting herself through school working at a restaurant rather than support the women who participate at that kind of oogle-fest. Same reason I don't go to hooters.

02-11-2005, 12:27 AM	#45 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	I've never been to a strip joint, I don't find it appealing, it's like a meat-fest there! My boyfriend isn't really interested either. But I do know a few people that has gone with their mates and they claim that it was a wonderful experience. I think if you're into that stuff, then you don't really need any heads up prior to going, you just need to go and have a good time. I am sure the experience is different and extreme, it's just isn't for me. Have fun!