i love how all of this has gone! i don't consider myself fat, though i would like to loose a few pounds. i know my thighs touch...oh crap...nevermind..i just checked that and apparently they don't anymore. don't know when that one happened. all i know is that i've never heard a guy comment to me about my thighs or this "gap" thing in general. i always thought if a girl was gapped, she was a slut and was having too much sex. am i misinformed?

I think that's gape, not gap. And yes, a gaping coochie might indicate slutty behavior. But I don't think that has to do with the thigh gap the men are referring to.

Mine used to rub before I lost some weight and now I am starting to gain some so I need to get on it. It used to be really bad espically in the summer my thigh's would get all red and it hurt so bad. I would put baby powder on and it made it so much better.