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Frenchie · 05-23-2004, 02:57 PM

Yea I have. I had a bunch of people over one night, and we were all chilling. And then about midnight my boyfriend at the time went to take his friend home (a girl-freshman... I was a soph he was a sen) So I knew that he had some feelings for this red head little slut. And she was nasty. I'm not trying to say that I'm gorgeous, but I look like a goddess to her. lol But he went to take her home and instead they went to the beach.. and he tried to make moves on her.. probably succeded, I really don't care anymore. It was well over two years ago. He came to me the next day and told me she tried to do stuff with him, and touched him and everything. So all 95lbs-5'1" of me was on the rampage to kill her. I didn't like the kid anyway.. but I just wanted to punch her in the face. And then I was about to break up with him a few weeks later. And talked to her and found out it was his wrong dooing...
That was my story:-P

Somenosuke · 05-23-2004, 03:59 PM

Yeah, I've been cheated on, before. He said he was going on a camping trip with 3 or 4 of his friends for a few days, but it turned out he went to stay at a girl's house instead. I've no idea what they did while he was there, and I didn't care. When he returned from his "trip" he informed me that he actually stayed with this girl, and that they were in love with each other, and that he and I were now over. I was pretty upset of course, and he made it worse by sending me e-mail about how wonderful life was with his new girlfriend.

C'est la vie. I definitely don't take kindly to being cheated on, and if an S.O. of mine feels he/she has to cross that line when he/she is with me, they can take a merry hike out the door. And never come back.

Donnaccia · 06-03-2004, 09:51 PM

Well yes I left the bastard he is now with the baby and stuck with the girl.. he misses me but oh well that is fucking lost isn't it? We were supposed to get married but things happened and his dick ruled his mind. So ta ta! Adois senor :-p

primal · 06-04-2004, 10:59 AM

Sorry wrong forum. I'm not a lady. Please delete

punkgrl1984 · 06-14-2004, 09:21 PM

yes and with my best friend it put a strain on both our relationships but in the end I dumped him and the friend and I still talk 5 years later

hunnychile · 06-17-2004, 05:50 PM

Yes, numerous times, in fact - I walked in on one serious lover of mine schutping a friend of mine while I was away for the evening on a girl's night out. I had returned to get some of my music. Bad move.

It was all for the best, I suppose.
And I grew up A Lot at that moment.

If my man cheated now...I would handle it in a totally different manner - I'm sure. There are times I wish I was as mean and wild as some of my past boyfriends. Just being truthful. The forbibben sometimes seems mandatory.

Alyssa · 06-28-2004, 11:13 PM

I wouldn't say I was cheated on...I was left for someone else though...hurts just the same.

amonkie · 06-29-2004, 09:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SixEdxMia
Cheating is unacceptable. Period. I can't keep someone that I don't trust.and If you have broken my heart..I sure as hell don't trust you.

Six, you said it!

I can usually forgive someone, after time, but the hardest part is trying to forget. If a heart gets broken, that's a pain that's damn hard to get rid of, in order to even THINK about forgetting how that pain was caused.

pinkie · 06-29-2004, 03:33 PM

Dump him.

No matter what the circumstances. If he did it once, he’ll more than likely do it again.

Unless you're married, and he has agreed to seek counseling for the sake of your marriage, dump him.

Then find someone who knows how to respect your boundaries, and has a concept of self-control.

Sugar&Spice · 06-30-2004, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by amonkie
I can usually forgive someone, after time, but the hardest part is trying to forget. If a heart gets broken, that's a pain that's damn hard to get rid of, in order to even THINK about forgetting how that pain was caused.

Thats where I am at right now. I'm trying to forget, but its so hard. Last night I couldn't sleep. I tossed and turned and just thought about them together. My heart is broken and I think it will take a lot of time to heal up.

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05-23-2004, 03:59 PM	#42 (permalink)
Somenosuke Insane Location: The 7th Level..	Yeah, I've been cheated on, before. He said he was going on a camping trip with 3 or 4 of his friends for a few days, but it turned out he went to stay at a girl's house instead. I've no idea what they did while he was there, and I didn't care. When he returned from his "trip" he informed me that he actually stayed with this girl, and that they were in love with each other, and that he and I were now over. I was pretty upset of course, and he made it worse by sending me e-mail about how wonderful life was with his new girlfriend. C'est la vie. I definitely don't take kindly to being cheated on, and if an S.O. of mine feels he/she has to cross that line when he/she is with me, they can take a merry hike out the door. And never come back. __________________ Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer.

06-04-2004, 10:59 AM	#44 (permalink)
primal Crazy Location: Oklahoma City	Sorry wrong forum. I'm not a lady. Please delete __________________ "Where the white women at?" -Sheriff Bart (Blazing Saddles) Last edited by primal; 06-04-2004 at 11:11 AM..

06-14-2004, 09:21 PM	#45 (permalink)
punkgrl1984 Tilted	yes and with my best friend it put a strain on both our relationships but in the end I dumped him and the friend and I still talk 5 years later __________________ [COLOR=Purple]life's what happens when you are busy making other plans -John Lennon[/COLOR]

06-17-2004, 05:50 PM	#46 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Yes, numerous times, in fact - I walked in on one serious lover of mine schutping a friend of mine while I was away for the evening on a girl's night out. I had returned to get some of my music. Bad move. It was all for the best, I suppose. And I grew up A Lot at that moment. If my man cheated now...I would handle it in a totally different manner - I'm sure. There are times I wish I was as mean and wild as some of my past boyfriends. Just being truthful. The forbibben sometimes seems mandatory. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB Last edited by hunnychile; 06-17-2004 at 05:54 PM..

05-23-2004, 02:57 PM	#41 (permalink)
Frenchie Crazy Location: Muncie, IN	Yea I have. I had a bunch of people over one night, and we were all chilling. And then about midnight my boyfriend at the time went to take his friend home (a girl-freshman... I was a soph he was a sen) So I knew that he had some feelings for this red head little slut. And she was nasty. I'm not trying to say that I'm gorgeous, but I look like a goddess to her. lol But he went to take her home and instead they went to the beach.. and he tried to make moves on her.. probably succeded, I really don't care anymore. It was well over two years ago. He came to me the next day and told me she tried to do stuff with him, and touched him and everything. So all 95lbs-5'1" of me was on the rampage to kill her. I didn't like the kid anyway.. but I just wanted to punch her in the face. And then I was about to break up with him a few weeks later. And talked to her and found out it was his wrong dooing... That was my story:-P

06-03-2004, 09:51 PM	#43 (permalink)
Donnaccia Upright	Well yes I left the bastard he is now with the baby and stuck with the girl.. he misses me but oh well that is fucking lost isn't it? We were supposed to get married but things happened and his dick ruled his mind. So ta ta! Adois senor :-p

06-28-2004, 11:13 PM	#47 (permalink)
Alyssa Tilted Location: Chico, Ca.	I wouldn't say I was cheated on...I was left for someone else though...hurts just the same.

06-29-2004, 03:33 PM	#49 (permalink)
pinkie Helplessly hoping Location: Above the stars	Dump him. No matter what the circumstances. If he did it once, he’ll more than likely do it again. Unless you're married, and he has agreed to seek counseling for the sake of your marriage, dump him. Then find someone who knows how to respect your boundaries, and has a concept of self-control.