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Nancy · 01-26-2004, 08:35 AM

I was just wondering if I was the only one who's tried this?

Sometimes during sex with my boyfriend I get this sudden pain in my abdomen and it's always on the right side of it. The only positions which has caused this pain so far is doggystyle or me on top riding him. It's as if his penis is hitting something which causes pain in my right ovary area...?

The pain always last trough-out the act and then stops as soon as we're done. Luckily it's not a severe pain but it's still REALLY annoying as you can imagine...

Any advice, tips or whatever??

gabshu · 01-26-2004, 09:48 AM

I also get pain sometimes, but not in my abdomen, it's more like the uterus. You should still talk to your gyno about it, because if it's so specific something might be up.

SiN · 01-26-2004, 09:59 AM

yep, always always discuss such things with doctor

(in general tho, what you both *might* be referring to is the penis hitting the cervix, which can be uncomfortable..)

metalmusicgip · 01-26-2004, 10:18 AM

i forgot i had a penis

Nancy · 01-26-2004, 12:13 PM

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Originally posted by gabshu
I also get pain sometimes, but not in my abdomen, it's more like the uterus. You should still talk to your gyno about it, because if it's so specific something might be up.

Hmmmm guess you're right. I'll make an appointment right away... thank you ladies!

diddagirl · 01-26-2004, 02:54 PM

Yeah, the penis hitting the cervix is quite painful, could be that.

absence_of_color · 01-26-2004, 06:19 PM

I kinda like a little pain during sex.
Wait

thats not what you were talking about.
Pleasure pain and penetration pain are different.
Id guess no more doggy or cowgirl until you and the doc figure it out.

minyn · 01-27-2004, 01:47 AM

ask your gyno..... my insides are a little twisted to certain angles are welcomed only.

Nancy · 01-27-2004, 03:24 AM

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Originally posted by minyn
ask your gyno..... my insides are a little twisted to certain angles are welcomed only.

hmm maybe it's the same with be because my back is a bit crooked? Anyways I'll ask my doc about it sometime this week

01-27-2004, 03:55 PM

You know what, I do to.
Either doggy style, or sitting on him, back toward him.
Sometimes even when i am sideway. I think it usually affects my right side as well. Just doesn't feel right and I don't know why.
It bugs the hell out of me, I guess I should go visit the good ol' obgyn.
It could be the cervix, it's lower than the abdomen- but once in a while, like just a couple weeks ago, it hurt so bad after we started with me backwards, that I cried and I couldn't go on. It almost felt like gas, but worse and sharper.

PorscheBunny · 01-29-2004, 03:08 AM

It could be the cervix or it could be tissue immediately adjacent to an ovary. Check with the Gyne because it could also be an early symptom of something much worse.

01-29-2004, 01:12 PM

made an appt. for next month! My mother is having problems with loose tissues and has to get them fixed again. I may be at risk of that too, so I decided to start going for my annual check-up.

sillygirl · 01-29-2004, 01:34 PM

Sometimes I've had really bad pain, and at times it's felt like I was being kicked in the stomach from the inside.... I should probably go get checked out, too, considering everything else that's going on.....

Jephree · 01-31-2004, 10:06 AM

i shouldn't even be in here (dude here),..

...and I've been warned, I will never do it again.

ally · 01-31-2004, 07:31 PM

same problem, it seems pretty popular....

biznatch · 01-31-2004, 07:52 PM

I know I shouldnt be posting here,
...and I will not make the same mistake again

01-31-2004, 09:03 PM

a- she needs to go to the dr. just like all of us here

b- you can open a thread in Sexuality if u r a guy.

PorscheBunny · 02-01-2004, 12:12 AM

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Originally posted by biznatch
I know I shouldnt be posting here, but this is urgent and i need female advice
My gf and i had sex for the first time today, and she's rather tight and I'm rather thick
I had trouble going in at first so we went gently and all, and all was good until we changed to doggystyle and after a while she experienced a very sharp pain...
and lie two hours later she started bleeding...she said i probably hit the cervix..
well she is bleeding but she can't go to a doctor (yet) for reasons i cant talk of, but do any of you know anything about this...I'm worried as hell...please I need your help..
sorry again for posting here, thank u for answering as quick and as helpfully as possible

1. Read The Fucking Rules: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...&threadid=6859 . You're thick all right, in the skull.
2. If it's so urgent that you're willing to risk TFP banishment (and you are), you need to get her to a doctor. The emergency room is open 24/7. If she can't go to the doctor for reasons you can't talk of, that sounds like something illegal happened. Remember that what you post here can be used against you in court if subpoenaed.
3. We read Sexuality as well. You needed to either have posted there or PMed someone in this thread.
4. We all bleed the first time. The first time is almost always sore.
5. Doggy-style on the first time? You should be slapped for poor etiquette. Something a little more "basic" (man-over-woman or woman-over-man) is a better idea until you become more accustomed to each other.

SiN · 02-01-2004, 03:55 AM

rawrrr - go PorscheBunny go!

Symphony · 02-01-2004, 08:31 AM

I've experienced sharp pain during sex... only in certain positions or if he's really really slamming me and he's really really really excited!!! Usually we always fit great but there are times.... and man does that hurt... feels hot and sharp and aching, but with me I can tell it's has to do with the thrusting. It hurts as he's hitting it, we change positions or ease up and the pain goes away! No lingering pain, but then again I always stop him after the 2nd painful thrust. (It hurts enough to bring tears to my eyes too)
And biznatch... how old is this guy anyway! Bleeding female in pain = doctor!!!!

biznatch · 02-01-2004, 09:22 AM

ok, I can't post here..lol
...and i will recieve ANOTHER warning..not funny.

02-01-2004, 01:02 PM

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Originally posted by SiN

hehehehe, cute!

minyn · 02-03-2004, 08:13 AM

silly boys dont get the hint =P

New revelation - pain at first, perhaps, but guys should be able to attune themselves to finding whta you like and what HURTS. That is if you let it be noticable what you like and what you dont...

and talk to them, tell them what you like or show them, they get turned on from this!

01-26-2004, 08:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	Pain during sex I was just wondering if I was the only one who's tried this? Sometimes during sex with my boyfriend I get this sudden pain in my abdomen and it's always on the right side of it. The only positions which has caused this pain so far is doggystyle or me on top riding him. It's as if his penis is hitting something which causes pain in my right ovary area...? The pain always last trough-out the act and then stops as soon as we're done. Luckily it's not a severe pain but it's still REALLY annoying as you can imagine... Any advice, tips or whatever?? __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

01-26-2004, 09:48 AM	#2 (permalink)
gabshu Psycho Location: The capital of the free world??	I also get pain sometimes, but not in my abdomen, it's more like the uterus. You should still talk to your gyno about it, because if it's so specific something might be up. __________________ Go Kool Aid. OH YEAAHH http://www.retrocrush.com/archive2003/koolaid/

01-26-2004, 09:59 AM	#3 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	yep, always always discuss such things with doctor (in general tho, what you both might be referring to is the penis hitting the cervix, which can be uncomfortable..) __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

01-26-2004, 10:18 AM	#4 (permalink)
metalmusicgip Upright Location: Largo Florida	i forgot i had a penis Last edited by SiN; 01-26-2004 at 11:45 AM..

01-26-2004, 02:54 PM	#6 (permalink)
diddagirl Addict Location: Calgary, AB	Yeah, the penis hitting the cervix is quite painful, could be that. __________________ "Is it so small a thing to have enjoyed the sun, to have lived long in the spring, to have loved, to have thought, to have done." -Matthew Arnold

01-26-2004, 06:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
absence_of_color Insane Location: in a golden garden of grey	I kinda like a little pain during sex. Wait thats not what you were talking about. Pleasure pain and penetration pain are different. Id guess no more doggy or cowgirl until you and the doc figure it out. __________________ ...absent of everything.

01-27-2004, 01:47 AM	#8 (permalink)
minyn young and in bloom Location: under the bodhi tree.... bling	ask your gyno..... my insides are a little twisted to certain angles are welcomed only. __________________ "Woke up this morning with a blue moon in my eye" ~A3 "woke up this morning" "Don't compromise yourself, you're all you've got." -Janis Joplin

01-27-2004, 03:55 PM	#10 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	You know what, I do to. Either doggy style, or sitting on him, back toward him. Sometimes even when i am sideway. I think it usually affects my right side as well. Just doesn't feel right and I don't know why. It bugs the hell out of me, I guess I should go visit the good ol' obgyn. It could be the cervix, it's lower than the abdomen- but once in a while, like just a couple weeks ago, it hurt so bad after we started with me backwards, that I cried and I couldn't go on. It almost felt like gas, but worse and sharper.

01-29-2004, 03:08 AM	#11 (permalink)
PorscheBunny Insane	It could be the cervix or it could be tissue immediately adjacent to an ovary. Check with the Gyne because it could also be an early symptom of something much worse. __________________ This post has been sanitized for your protection by the Ministry of Information of Oceania.

01-29-2004, 01:12 PM	#12 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	made an appt. for next month! My mother is having problems with loose tissues and has to get them fixed again. I may be at risk of that too, so I decided to start going for my annual check-up.

01-29-2004, 01:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	Sometimes I've had really bad pain, and at times it's felt like I was being kicked in the stomach from the inside.... I should probably go get checked out, too, considering everything else that's going on..... __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

01-31-2004, 10:06 AM	#14 (permalink)
Jephree AKA: Boner Stabone Location: The one and only, SoCaLi	i shouldn't even be in here (dude here),.. ...and I've been warned, I will never do it again. __________________ When's the next good swell in SoCal? Last edited by SiN; 01-31-2004 at 10:10 AM..

01-31-2004, 07:31 PM	#15 (permalink)
ally Insane Location: Boone,NC	same problem, it seems pretty popular....

01-31-2004, 07:52 PM	#16 (permalink)
biznatch Junkie Location: France	I know I shouldnt be posting here, ...and I will not make the same mistake again Last edited by SiN; 02-01-2004 at 03:56 AM..

01-31-2004, 09:03 PM	#17 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	a- she needs to go to the dr. just like all of us here b- you can open a thread in Sexuality if u r a guy.

02-01-2004, 03:55 AM	#19 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	rawrrr - go PorscheBunny go! __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

02-01-2004, 08:31 AM	#20 (permalink)
Symphony Upright Location: Madison, WI	I've experienced sharp pain during sex... only in certain positions or if he's really really slamming me and he's really really really excited!!! Usually we always fit great but there are times.... and man does that hurt... feels hot and sharp and aching, but with me I can tell it's has to do with the thrusting. It hurts as he's hitting it, we change positions or ease up and the pain goes away! No lingering pain, but then again I always stop him after the 2nd painful thrust. (It hurts enough to bring tears to my eyes too) And biznatch... how old is this guy anyway! Bleeding female in pain = doctor!!!! __________________ and yet...and yet

02-01-2004, 09:22 AM	#21 (permalink)
biznatch Junkie Location: France	ok, I can't post here..lol ...and i will recieve ANOTHER warning..not funny. __________________ Check it out: The Open Source/Freeware/Gratis Software Thread Last edited by SiN; 02-01-2004 at 09:30 AM..

02-03-2004, 08:13 AM	#23 (permalink)
minyn young and in bloom Location: under the bodhi tree.... bling	silly boys dont get the hint =P New revelation - pain at first, perhaps, but guys should be able to attune themselves to finding whta you like and what HURTS. That is if you let it be noticable what you like and what you dont... and talk to them, tell them what you like or show them, they get turned on from this! __________________ "Woke up this morning with a blue moon in my eye" ~A3 "woke up this morning" "Don't compromise yourself, you're all you've got." -Janis Joplin