And I thouhg men where bad
 

I told my girlfriend today that I'm not going to leave Roger for anything......let alone some gal who just wants get laid.....GIRL..You talk about upset...damn...she threw this big time sob story about how bad guys are and how much better life would be with her instead of him....AS IF....ICER is a one in a millon catch....leaving him for her is just plain stupid...But boy did she ever get upset...my last boyfriend didn't act this childish when I left him

So...I guess I'm in the market again...this blows...I tell all of these lovers...that it's just sex and friendship...nothing can really become of it other than reallly good friends....But they always take it to far.

And let me tell you...finding another gal isn't easy around here....I think I need to move up north where there is a bit more open understanding about sex.

Well...I just wanted to rant a little...thanks for listening

Good for you for sticking with what you want. Some people I guess just aren't able to handle things as maturly as others. Rant anytime you'd like, we're always here for you. :)

Tell me about it. Thats all I can say :lol:

Re: And I thouhg men where bad
 

Hopefully you mean further north than Oklahoma. Dallas is Rome to these Okie barbarians.

I can't do the "sex and friends" thing anymore. Back in the early 90s, I burned too many people (men and women) with my own immaturity, leading them to think that something more was happening and then walking away. I probably still feel guilty about doing that to people who don't ever rememeber my name anymore.

I want to make sure I'm clear on this: two lovers (at that time), she knew about him and he knew about her. Is this correct? A guy that knows you like girls too but isn't arm-twisting for a threesome? You'd better damn well hold on to that guy, there ain't many like him.

heh heh...yeah...a little bit farther then Okie.

yeesh...I hope I can do the sex friends things for a looonnnggg time...cause to me...it's not love...it's just sex....I have sex with them...I make love to my hubby

Well yeah...he knew how I was when I told him that I was not interested in dated guys...But after a few trys I got to know him...and I have to tell you....He is sssoooo very diff then any guy I know...sweet...kind....never yelled at me (And believe me...I deserved it more them once)..and he has never asked for a threesome with my gals...we have had them...but they where always mine or her ideas...that's why I'm not letting him go...but I don't mind sharing ;)