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Just a quick question about foreplay. I need it!! I need it to make me want to have sex, or whatever. Now, 99% of the time I get foreplay, and lots of it, but sometimes he just wants to do it! And that's good, and I will, it' s just that I'm not turned yet.The idea of a "quickie" is a turn on, I just need to find a way to get my juices flowing. He does eat me first, though.:D
So does anyone else have to be warmed up first, or am I kind of cold?

Sometimes I need lots of it, and other times all it takes are a few dirty thoughts... :)

I'm pretty used to not getting much, but a good example of where foreplay has done amazing things for me is last night. Sir M. went down on me, and I just couldn't get enough of it. I was so close to orgasm and then I begged for sex. I was on the verge of orgasm for like 20 minutes straight, and it was amazing. Ahhhhh, the wonders of foreplay.

yeah i def need foreplay, unless im the one whos engaging. being someones blowup doll isnt really my idea of fun.

Foreplay is fun and necessary most of the time! Not only does it turn me on more; but it gets him hotter as well. However, quickies are also good. Use lube and have fun. Once you get into it, your juices will flow.

foreplay is definately a great thing, most of the time it doesn't take much, but there are some times where I need a lot!

Depends how horny i am to start with. If ive been gagging for it for a while i dont really need it lol :)

Well, sometimes you do just wanna go out at it. My hubby said, after reading this thread "Sometimes I'm so hot for you I just have to have you now" Now, how can I say no to that? Heh. :hmm:

Depends on who you are with. Towards the end of my marriage I really wasn't into sex w/ my husband. He was a 3-4 strokes and he's coming type of a guy.. .gee what fun is that?

I actually ended up drying up. It was strange. I would think I was wet, but it was quite dry. If he didn't go down on me first, which he was really good at that at least!, then we would need lube.

Then after I left, and I found I wanted to be with the guy I was with, hey... I was no longer dry.... wouldn't need foreplay, but hey, I would never turn it down!

Definetly need some foreplay, and something even that's not enough to get the juices flowing...

And the Lord did grin and on the eighth day he invented ASTROGLIDE!

I was the same way with my ex, we ended up like, only having sex 4-6 times a year, and only if I really asked for it. Unfortunately, he never liked going down on me, so we had to use lube. I thought something was wrong with me, medically, that I was so dry and tight.
Now, with meff, I stay as wet as the ocean, but lube is still f un, especially if it's flavored.:crazy:

My guy just fingers me a bit to get the juices flowing and plays with my breasts for a bit. I would love for him to eat me though..he doesnt really do it..says its gross and all. oh poo~ too bad I just love it when I do convince him..*melt*

what exactly is Meff, and where do you get it?

I like it.....But I really don't need it....I'm always turned on

Hehe Meff is Shyla Loral's husband. ;)

I'm used to not getting foreplay. I'm also on the pill and it keeps me pretty dry. I find even if I get really turned on by thinking about it and even looking at pics and playing by myself before I approach him that I dry up fast while we play. It's just the way things have worked post pregnancy and on the pill. I keep a bottle of astroglide near the bed 24/7 and grab that often.

I've found that foreplay is more necessary for Mr.S than it is for me. How strange is that! Since I only see him on the weekends right now, I'm all set for a sex marathon as soon as I see him. Doesn't really take much to get me excited. Most of the time, all we have to do is talk about it, and I'm ready to go.

Mr.S has been really tired lately, and not quite up to the sexual energy that I'm throwing at him all the time. So I'll play with him a lot to get him in the mood... and then I'll pounce.

I don't need foreplay really. I enjoy it, but it's not necessary for me. Mr.S likes it though. He enjoys going down on me (YES!!!!) and touching me and sucking my nipples and all that good stuff. And hey... if it makes him happy and it feels good for me, then I'll participate! :)

Dryness issue: hmmmm... only certain times of the month, and then we'll use ky.

Well it's a good thing that my hubby LOVES going down on me. I do usually need something to get me going. If he was to come in the room and say let's go do it, I would go but i couldn't walk into the room, strip and go at it, I would still need a min. of foreplay. Doesn't take a lot to get me going :) I usually stay up later than my hubby and so I have been known to watch a little porn which will get me wet in a min. and suprise him in bed:D

Totally depends on the mood and monthly cycle i find. But i do seem to have quite a wet one most of the time lol :)

I love to be hugged and petted and romanced.
But there are many many times when I love to wake him up and get in a quickie ten min before I have to be in class. It gives me someting to smile about for the rest of the day and I feel great.
I'm very lucky to have a bf who can not only get off, but also get me off VERY quickly!!

Same here, depends on the time of day, how tired I am, how honry, etc. I thikn foreplay is always nice tough.

i usually don't get tons of foreplay, because we live with parents so it's a take what you can get kinda thing. but lately especially he tends to like to go down on me first, which i love. i get more into it with forplay, but even with none i'm good to go after a minute or two of good sex.

what I like about bound sex.. lots of foreplay... I swear some guys idea of foreplay is "HEY! kiss kiss.... You Wet?"

mmm. foreplays is the best. i sometimes wish that when my relationships become sexually active, that sometimes we could just make out fr hours like we did before having sex, because ahh! that gets me so wet. ee! just thinking about it gets me all hot and bothered!

mmmm i love making out for hours. i think people neglect how wonderful making out can be when they just want to get to the 'good stuff' like sex. and bah for that.

i enjoy foreplay more than sex at this point ^.^

I am so tired of the way my husband makes love to me and we have been only married for two years. NO foreplay no tenderness afterwards, he is just like a jack rabbiton, on then off and then to sleep. I am ready for something new and it wont be long.

the only foreplay I ever get is when I decide to play with my clit during sex.

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After two years my husband has turned into a real jack rabit. He know only one position, with me on the bottom, and the whole act is over in less than 5 minutes. And to make matters worst he falls asleep imediately afterwards. The only foreplay I recieve is when I indulge in myself.

hmmm.... i learned something about this. my ex fiance would never have any foreplay and was quick about it. blah... luckily, i ended up calling it off and hooked up with my current boyfriend about a year later, we didn't even have sex for the first 2 month because he "wanted to know about how my body reacted to him first" (thinking, "ummm.... well, k.") but it ended up working sooooo well, he knows all my little spots i'm sensitive in and is REALLY into foreplay, god, i love it.

Dana, I'm sorry, you deserve so much m ore than that. have you talked to him about it? That can't be very satisfying for either of you.

i usually get turned on immediately by my SO, since i don't get to see him ever other week usually [the exception is right now-- i don't get to see him for 3.5 weeks!! =(]. all i really need is just a little touching and i'm wet. haaaahahahaha.

you should really give him a try again. you CAN teach old dogs new tricks...it might be difficult to approach him on the subject. when he tries to have sex with you next time, you should refuse on the basis of what you told all of us: 'hes a jackrabbit...on and off and then asleep.' unless there are some other relationship problems, sex should not be the reason you quit a marriage, which i gathered you might be doing with what you said in the end: 'I am ready for something new and it wont be long.'

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I tend to go in spells. Most of the time it depends on how long it has been since I had sex last and what kind of sex it was (quickie, marathon, rough....). Lately I've been good to go with only a little kiss and the twinkle in his eyes but I don't think it's going to be possible for a while. I'm definatly worn out for a few days...isn't that just a great feeling?!?

I find that more often than not I would prefer foreplay. Sometimes just a nibble on an ear or a lick across a nipple is all it takes to get me fired up, and other times some oral action is necessary.