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crayzeeredhead · 07-17-2003, 09:04 AM

My guy friend and I have talked extensively about what guys initially look for when trying to hit on the opposite sex! For me Its all about confidence because even the ugliest guy can look sexy with a healthy dose of cockiness. Likewise a guy that is too cocky or self centered can look ugly or undesirable. He says for a guy First its looks then confidence for the same reasons! I am curious to know what is your opinion ......
What do you look for intially that is attractive about the opposite sex?
Is Society really superficial?
Don't go too in depth! Idon't mean for long term or short term relationships. I just mean in general.

NetterButter · 07-17-2003, 03:54 PM

Okay, walking down the street...the first thing that draws me to a guy is...dun dun dun...his nose! Why?! I have no idea but an ugly nose with bumps and stuff....its hard for me to look at.

But, in a scenario like school/work/ etc where I get a chance to meet and know people, definitely HUMOR. If you can make me laugh, I already have a crush on you (girl or guy).

anti fishstick · 07-17-2003, 06:00 PM

i have to like their smileeee

Minx · 07-18-2003, 07:14 AM

A great smile gets me everytime. Other than that - what attracts me is intelligence, quick wit, confidence, kindness and humor - nothing better than a guy who can make you laugh!

sexymama · 07-18-2003, 11:10 AM

First eye catcher, his smile and eye contact. After that he must be intelligent, confident, honest, humorous, and a good listener.

cheerios · 07-18-2003, 12:07 PM

height and build. wide shoulders will send me packing every time, as will someone who is TOO handsome. (I had trouble w/ the guys in HS from the swimteam) Positive traits for me are someone who looks... quiet. introverts attract me. Probably since I'm so much of one, myself.

Mel · 07-18-2003, 04:29 PM

In a social situation a guy who is shy and mysterious would have just attracted me to him, I would have wanted to get to know him better.

awanderingsoul · 07-19-2003, 04:51 AM

Great smile. I'm interested in guys if they have a comfortable, confident, but not cocky smile.

anti fishstick · 07-19-2003, 07:45 PM

i really fall for dimpled smiles.

Liliana · 07-19-2003, 11:39 PM

Definately smile and eyes. Smile shows that they are they are comfortable in showing somewhat some sort of emotion, And eyes are suppose to be 'a door way to the soul' or so is said. After that physically I look for butt- needs a good butt. And broad shoulders. I like them somewhat built but nothing too dramatic. Long hair definately is a turn on for me, that is if it's well kept and looks good on them. Mentally- I'm like some one smart, funny and easy to communicate with.

~Lili~

collide · 07-30-2003, 01:34 PM

Most attractions are initially physical attractions, and I think that's perfectly fine as long as he's also emotionally atttractive. What catches my eye is usually his sense of style. If he knows how to dress himself and style his hair, has good personal hygeine and all that, then I'm definitely going to be interested into learning more about him and his mind and personality.

punkgrl1984 · 07-30-2003, 09:12 PM

I am so attracted to intelligence it scares me sometimes. IF a guy can teach me something he has got my sttention. At first glance though I like a guy who carries himself well.

angela146 · 07-30-2003, 09:15 PM

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Originally posted by punkgrl1984
I am so attracted to intelligence it scares me sometimes. IF a guy can teach me something he has got my sttention. At first glance though I like a guy who carries himself well.

YESSSSSSS!!!! A soul sister!!!!

BlueBongo · 07-30-2003, 10:07 PM

The first thing I notice about any person is their eyes and also their smile. I've found via my ejumacation and personal experiences that you can really tell quite a bit about a person via their eyes.

But everyone notices somethin' different

07-17-2003, 09:04 AM	#1 (permalink)
crayzeeredhead Tilted Location: here& there but here today	Just curious? My guy friend and I have talked extensively about what guys initially look for when trying to hit on the opposite sex! For me Its all about confidence because even the ugliest guy can look sexy with a healthy dose of cockiness. Likewise a guy that is too cocky or self centered can look ugly or undesirable. He says for a guy First its looks then confidence for the same reasons! I am curious to know what is your opinion ...... What do you look for intially that is attractive about the opposite sex? Is Society really superficial? Don't go too in depth! Idon't mean for long term or short term relationships. I just mean in general.

07-17-2003, 03:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
NetterButter Crazy Location: in a hole, ventura county,cali	Okay, walking down the street...the first thing that draws me to a guy is...dun dun dun...his nose! Why?! I have no idea but an ugly nose with bumps and stuff....its hard for me to look at. But, in a scenario like school/work/ etc where I get a chance to meet and know people, definitely HUMOR. If you can make me laugh, I already have a crush on you (girl or guy). __________________ www.holeinthe.net

07-17-2003, 06:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	i have to like their smileeee __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

07-18-2003, 07:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	A great smile gets me everytime. Other than that - what attracts me is intelligence, quick wit, confidence, kindness and humor - nothing better than a guy who can make you laugh! __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

07-18-2003, 11:10 AM	#5 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	First eye catcher, his smile and eye contact. After that he must be intelligent, confident, honest, humorous, and a good listener. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

07-18-2003, 12:07 PM	#6 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	height and build. wide shoulders will send me packing every time, as will someone who is TOO handsome. (I had trouble w/ the guys in HS from the swimteam) Positive traits for me are someone who looks... quiet. introverts attract me. Probably since I'm so much of one, myself.

07-18-2003, 04:29 PM	#7 (permalink)
Mel Tilted Location: Auckland	In a social situation a guy who is shy and mysterious would have just attracted me to him, I would have wanted to get to know him better. __________________ And in my darkest moment, fetal and weeping. The moon tells me a secret. My confidant. As full and bright as I am, this light is not my own and A million light reflections pass over me It's source is bright and endless. She resuscitates the hopeless Without her we are lifeless satellites drifting

07-19-2003, 04:51 AM	#8 (permalink)
awanderingsoul Crazy	Great smile. I'm interested in guys if they have a comfortable, confident, but not cocky smile.

07-19-2003, 07:45 PM	#9 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	i really fall for dimpled smiles. __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

07-19-2003, 11:39 PM	#10 (permalink)
Liliana Upright Location: texas	Definately smile and eyes. Smile shows that they are they are comfortable in showing somewhat some sort of emotion, And eyes are suppose to be 'a door way to the soul' or so is said. After that physically I look for butt- needs a good butt. And broad shoulders. I like them somewhat built but nothing too dramatic. Long hair definately is a turn on for me, that is if it's well kept and looks good on them. Mentally- I'm like some one smart, funny and easy to communicate with. ~Lili~ __________________ Why is it that if someone tells you that there are 1 billion stars in the universe you will believe him, but if he tells you that a wall has wet paint you will have to touch it to be sure?

07-30-2003, 01:34 PM	#11 (permalink)
collide Turn off your TV. Location: ... .- -. ..-. .-. .- -. -.-. .. ... -.-. --- --..-- -.-. .-	Most attractions are initially physical attractions, and I think that's perfectly fine as long as he's also emotionally atttractive. What catches my eye is usually his sense of style. If he knows how to dress himself and style his hair, has good personal hygeine and all that, then I'm definitely going to be interested into learning more about him and his mind and personality. __________________ "inhuman fiery goat worship" is an anagram for "information superhighway" -kingvolc

07-30-2003, 09:12 PM	#12 (permalink)
punkgrl1984 Tilted	I am so attracted to intelligence it scares me sometimes. IF a guy can teach me something he has got my sttention. At first glance though I like a guy who carries himself well. __________________ [COLOR=Purple]life's what happens when you are busy making other plans -John Lennon[/COLOR]