Salem

I've been thinking a lot lately about who I am as a person and who I am as a woman, and it's got me thinking about the things I belive every woman should HAVE, and DO in their lives. So I thought it would be fun for us to compile a list. Feed off one another things we think are essential for women.

HAVE: An outfit that makes her feel sexy
HAVE: A lesbian experience
HAVE: Something that reminds them who they are and what they want from life. Whether it be a picture, a book, a movie, whatever. Keep it, and think about it frequently.

DO: Stand up for yourself, and what you belive in
DO: Grow your hair long and cut your hair short
DO: Learn to make decisions for YOU

Idyllic

HAVE: A perfect pair of jeans
HAVE: A cougar experience
HAVE: A degree, any degree, because the one thing nobody can take from you, once you have it, is your education.......

DO: Stand up for the feeble, after you've stood up for yourself first!
DO: Learn to cut somebodies hair, SO, BF, Kids, Dog... I would not recommend Cat.. unless you have a metal shark suit.
DO: Dance, when nobody is looking. Sing, when nobody is listening. Pray (to whoever), even when you think nobody hears.

I will be back with more, this is fun and inspirational.

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you can tell them all you want but it won't matter until they think it does

p.s. I contradict my contradictions, with or without intention, sometimes.

snowy

HAVE: That little black dress
HAVE: Inner strength
HAVE: A good time!

DO: Learn to take care of yourself
DO: Brush your teeth and floss--it can add a year to your life (no joke)
DO: WEAR SUNSCREEN!!!

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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Salem

I'm glad!! That's what I was going for

Idyllic

HAVE: At least one really sexy pair of Stilettos
HAVE: Self Confidence
HAVE: A great vibrator

DO: Use the great things above
DO: Watch the sunrise and the sunset in the same day
DO: Dance naked in a rain storm.......

__________________
you can tell them all you want but it won't matter until they think it does

p.s. I contradict my contradictions, with or without intention, sometimes.

lurkette

HAVE: a cordless drill and a good set of tools
HAVE: a financial safety net
HAVE: a best friend to confide in

DO: take at least one belly-dancing class
DO: take a trip by yourself at least once
DO: give yourself a gift/treat every day (Thanks, Agent Cooper!)

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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."

- Anatole France