how do you like to be teased? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

dd3953 · 02-23-2010, 04:58 PM

I recently found out that I enjoy having my ear played with and/or rubbed. It is amazing. I didn't know that having my ear rubbed could make me so ... um, how to put it, juicy. (Yeah, everyone else I know knew about it already, but hey, just think back to the first time you found out and you'll know what I mean).

So, what I was wondering is what about you? How do you prefer your SO/partner/sex buddy/whatever else you wanna call them tease you. I'm not really talking about foreplay, per say, but I understand that teasing is part of it.

I hear about woman being teases all the time, but you rarely hear about men being teases and I am sure they are out there. This is posted here because I want to know about what woman like about being teased and how they like it more than what men have to say about how they tease their women - if that makes any sense. So, go ahead, and throw in your two cents.

Note: I've spent a few hours searching all the threads here, and I don't think I am duplicating any. If I am, let's merge them or something.

PonyPotato · 02-23-2010, 05:18 PM

My man is AWESOME in the teasing department.

My favorite? He runs his lips (and whiskers) across the back of my neck and kisses my shoulder or throat. It gives me shivers and has an insta-wet reaction. Ooooooh.

Otherwise, he's really good at touching me in a way to wake up my libido. Deep kisses at random times, waking me up by sucking on my nipples (my favorite way to wake up, by far), running his hands across my hips and down my legs, and randomly placing his hands FIRMLY on my hips and pulling me back so he can kiss my shoulders. Ahhh.

snowy · 02-23-2010, 07:07 PM

His beard on my neck--and he knows it. He catches me when he's giving me a hug goodbye or when I'm sitting at my computer. Mean man.

Starkizzer · 02-23-2010, 08:15 PM

Am I strange in that I don't like to be teased?

dd3953 · 02-24-2010, 12:46 PM

No, I don't think that makes you strange at all.

girldetective · 02-24-2010, 09:16 PM

Ive said it before and Ill say it again - a whisper does it.

Starkizzer · 02-24-2010, 11:02 PM

Ok I'll change my response. I do not like physical teasing, but I do on rare occasion appreciate verbal teases. As GD stated a whisper is good, especially "I love you" accompanied by a sweet hug from behind.

treenjk · 02-25-2010, 02:07 AM

tongue on me sides

neveragain · 02-25-2010, 06:53 AM

My man can make of melt with a look thats all it takes. He also has a beard that he likes to rub on my neck. Him nibbling on my ear lobes. Also he has the tendency to do these small things when at events or friends houses which makes the tease worse as we have to wait. But in the end he always makes up for all the teasing he has done

ZombieSquirrel · 02-25-2010, 07:38 PM

I like innocent flirting teasing. Verbal sparring with a sweet smile. That's what makes me happiest.

Then later...nipple play..mmmmm

Lady Bear Cub · 02-27-2010, 08:53 AM

Kissing my thighs, biting, hair pulling while making out and pretty much anything else.

purplelirpa · 03-01-2010, 12:18 PM

Teasing is my favorite part. I really like to prolong the anticipation. So a good ebb and flow between denial and pleasure really gets me going.

A few things that I enjoy, in the verbal department, being told how good the person is going to make me feel, in graphic detail, then being reminded about how much I really want it, but will have to wait.

Physically, I love being able to feel wet warmth of lips and tongue on sensitive areas like the back of my neck, earlobes, inside of hips, inner thighs, inside of my arms. That, combined with "almost" touching or grazing very sensitive areas like labia or nipples, and then going back and forth between "almost enough" and "not enough" is really very arousing.

I'm getting close to ovulation, so my imagination is definitely on overdrive right now!

Great question, OP.

raeanna74 · 03-02-2010, 10:52 AM

Oh dear, I can't pick one thing. All of the above and more. I'm very ticklish and sensitive so my honey can easily tease me in a hundred different ways. I think the most erotic would be the light brushing at the end of my spine and over my butt. It tickles so deliciously!

SwingGirl · 03-18-2010, 01:03 PM

nipple play is the best tease. On a morning when he's got just enough scruff on his face and brushes his lips and rough chin over my nipples. Feeling his breath get deeper as he does it because he sees how out of control it starts to make me..... mmmmmmm yummy

dd3953 · 03-21-2010, 06:31 AM

I think I'm surprised by the number of woman who like scruff and stubble.

hunnychile · 03-21-2010, 03:13 PM

It's been so damn long since he and I have done anything sexually or flirthy, that I totally forget. isn't that just pathetically sad?

He knows I love foot rubs but never feels like giving them. And the kisses on the neck and beard along the nape, WOW. But I guess he's forgotten that, too.

Starkizzer · 03-21-2010, 03:49 PM

^ Remind him?

Or hell, just pounce!

Taralynn · 04-11-2010, 02:30 PM

It has been so long since I've been teased. But, if memory serves, it ALWAYS begins with a heavy, weighted glance from across the room.

lunxpress · 04-13-2010, 08:05 AM

innuendo. conversations about music, art or history. A direct gaze. Intentional personal space invasion. Body parts beneath clothing. Hairy chests....even better
with a touch of grey.

Nothing has to be physically done to tease me.

snowy · 04-13-2010, 08:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hunnychile

It's been so damn long since he and I have done anything sexually or flirthy, that I totally forget. isn't that just pathetically sad?

He knows I love foot rubs but never feels like giving them. And the kisses on the neck and beard along the nape, WOW. But I guess he's forgotten that, too.

Turning the tables has always worked well for me as a reminder.

"Do you know what I miss?"
"What do you miss?"
"I miss you doing *this*." *This* being whatever tease you miss--perform it on him, or describe it in great detail, along with a description of how it made you react.

Before you know it--he'll remember

02-23-2010, 04:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
dd3953 Psycho: By Choice Location: dd.land	how do you like to be teased? I recently found out that I enjoy having my ear played with and/or rubbed. It is amazing. I didn't know that having my ear rubbed could make me so ... um, how to put it, juicy. (Yeah, everyone else I know knew about it already, but hey, just think back to the first time you found out and you'll know what I mean). So, what I was wondering is what about you? How do you prefer your SO/partner/sex buddy/whatever else you wanna call them tease you. I'm not really talking about foreplay, per say, but I understand that teasing is part of it. I hear about woman being teases all the time, but you rarely hear about men being teases and I am sure they are out there. This is posted here because I want to know about what woman like about being teased and how they like it more than what men have to say about how they tease their women - if that makes any sense. So, go ahead, and throw in your two cents. Note: I've spent a few hours searching all the threads here, and I don't think I am duplicating any. If I am, let's merge them or something. __________________ [Technically, I'm not possible, I'm made of exceptions. ]

02-23-2010, 05:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
PonyPotato Soaring Location: Ohio!	My man is AWESOME in the teasing department. My favorite? He runs his lips (and whiskers) across the back of my neck and kisses my shoulder or throat. It gives me shivers and has an insta-wet reaction. Ooooooh. Otherwise, he's really good at touching me in a way to wake up my libido. Deep kisses at random times, waking me up by sucking on my nipples (my favorite way to wake up, by far), running his hands across my hips and down my legs, and randomly placing his hands FIRMLY on my hips and pulling me back so he can kiss my shoulders. Ahhh. __________________ "Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark." — Henri-Frédéric Amiel

02-23-2010, 07:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	His beard on my neck--and he knows it. He catches me when he's giving me a hug goodbye or when I'm sitting at my computer. Mean man. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

02-23-2010, 08:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
Starkizzer Hi floor! Make me a samwich. Location: Ontario (in the stray cat complex)	Am I strange in that I don't like to be teased? __________________ Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey

02-24-2010, 12:46 PM	#5 (permalink)
dd3953 Psycho: By Choice Location: dd.land	No, I don't think that makes you strange at all. __________________ [Technically, I'm not possible, I'm made of exceptions. ]

02-24-2010, 09:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
girldetective sufferable	Ive said it before and Ill say it again - a whisper does it. __________________ As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons...be cheerful; strive for happiness - Desiderata

02-24-2010, 11:02 PM	#7 (permalink)
Starkizzer Hi floor! Make me a samwich. Location: Ontario (in the stray cat complex)	Ok I'll change my response. I do not like physical teasing, but I do on rare occasion appreciate verbal teases. As GD stated a whisper is good, especially "I love you" accompanied by a sweet hug from behind. __________________ Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey

02-25-2010, 02:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
treenjk Upright	tongue on me sides

02-25-2010, 06:53 AM	#9 (permalink)
neveragain Upright	My man can make of melt with a look thats all it takes. He also has a beard that he likes to rub on my neck. Him nibbling on my ear lobes. Also he has the tendency to do these small things when at events or friends houses which makes the tease worse as we have to wait. But in the end he always makes up for all the teasing he has done __________________ Believe in second chances, you never know what may come of them.

02-27-2010, 08:53 AM	#11 (permalink)
Lady Bear Cub Crazy Location: north carolina	Kissing my thighs, biting, hair pulling while making out and pretty much anything else. __________________ "I give myself very good advice, But I very seldom follow it, Will I ever learn to do the things I should?"

03-01-2010, 12:18 PM	#12 (permalink)
purplelirpa Crazy Location: Indiana	Teasing is my favorite part. I really like to prolong the anticipation. So a good ebb and flow between denial and pleasure really gets me going. A few things that I enjoy, in the verbal department, being told how good the person is going to make me feel, in graphic detail, then being reminded about how much I really want it, but will have to wait. Physically, I love being able to feel wet warmth of lips and tongue on sensitive areas like the back of my neck, earlobes, inside of hips, inner thighs, inside of my arms. That, combined with "almost" touching or grazing very sensitive areas like labia or nipples, and then going back and forth between "almost enough" and "not enough" is really very arousing. I'm getting close to ovulation, so my imagination is definitely on overdrive right now! Great question, OP.

03-02-2010, 10:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Oh dear, I can't pick one thing. All of the above and more. I'm very ticklish and sensitive so my honey can easily tease me in a hundred different ways. I think the most erotic would be the light brushing at the end of my spine and over my butt. It tickles so deliciously! __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

03-18-2010, 01:03 PM	#14 (permalink)
SwingGirl Upright Location: Washington DC	nipple play is the best tease. On a morning when he's got just enough scruff on his face and brushes his lips and rough chin over my nipples. Feeling his breath get deeper as he does it because he sees how out of control it starts to make me..... mmmmmmm yummy

03-21-2010, 06:31 AM	#15 (permalink)
dd3953 Psycho: By Choice Location: dd.land	I think I'm surprised by the number of woman who like scruff and stubble. __________________ [Technically, I'm not possible, I'm made of exceptions. ]

03-21-2010, 03:13 PM	#16 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	It's been so damn long since he and I have done anything sexually or flirthy, that I totally forget. isn't that just pathetically sad? He knows I love foot rubs but never feels like giving them. And the kisses on the neck and beard along the nape, WOW. But I guess he's forgotten that, too. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

03-21-2010, 03:49 PM	#17 (permalink)
Starkizzer Hi floor! Make me a samwich. Location: Ontario (in the stray cat complex)	^ Remind him? Or hell, just pounce! __________________ Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey

04-11-2010, 02:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
Taralynn Upright Location: The midwest	It has been so long since I've been teased. But, if memory serves, it ALWAYS begins with a heavy, weighted glance from across the room.

04-13-2010, 08:05 AM	#19 (permalink)
lunxpress Tilted Location: Here	innuendo. conversations about music, art or history. A direct gaze. Intentional personal space invasion. Body parts beneath clothing. Hairy chests....even better with a touch of grey. Nothing has to be physically done to tease me.