how do you like to be teased?
 

I recently found out that I enjoy having my ear played with and/or rubbed. It is amazing. I didn't know that having my ear rubbed could make me so ... um, how to put it, juicy. (Yeah, everyone else I know knew about it already, but hey, just think back to the first time you found out and you'll know what I mean).

So, what I was wondering is what about you? How do you prefer your SO/partner/sex buddy/whatever else you wanna call them tease you. I'm not really talking about foreplay, per say, but I understand that teasing is part of it.

I hear about woman being teases all the time, but you rarely hear about men being teases and I am sure they are out there. This is posted here because I want to know about what woman like about being teased and how they like it more than what men have to say about how they tease their women - if that makes any sense. So, go ahead, and throw in your two cents.


Note: I've spent a few hours searching all the threads here, and I don't think I am duplicating any. If I am, let's merge them or something.

My man is AWESOME in the teasing department.

My favorite? He runs his lips (and whiskers) across the back of my neck and kisses my shoulder or throat. It gives me shivers and has an insta-wet reaction. Ooooooh.

Otherwise, he's really good at touching me in a way to wake up my libido. Deep kisses at random times, waking me up by sucking on my nipples (my favorite way to wake up, by far), running his hands across my hips and down my legs, and randomly placing his hands FIRMLY on my hips and pulling me back so he can kiss my shoulders. Ahhh.

His beard on my neck--and he knows it. He catches me when he's giving me a hug goodbye or when I'm sitting at my computer. Mean man.

Am I strange in that I don't like to be teased?

No, I don't think that makes you strange at all.

Ive said it before and Ill say it again - a whisper does it.

Ok I'll change my response. I do not like physical teasing, but I do on rare occasion appreciate verbal teases. As GD stated a whisper is good, especially "I love you" accompanied by a sweet hug from behind.

tongue on me sides

My man can make of melt with a look thats all it takes. He also has a beard that he likes to rub on my neck. Him nibbling on my ear lobes. Also he has the tendency to do these small things when at events or friends houses which makes the tease worse as we have to wait. But in the end he always makes up for all the teasing he has done :)

I like innocent flirting teasing. Verbal sparring with a sweet smile. That's what makes me happiest.

Then later...nipple play..mmmmm

Kissing my thighs, biting, hair pulling while making out and pretty much anything else.

Teasing is my favorite part. I really like to prolong the anticipation. So a good ebb and flow between denial and pleasure really gets me going.

A few things that I enjoy, in the verbal department, being told how good the person is going to make me feel, in graphic detail, then being reminded about how much I really want it, but will have to wait. :)

Physically, I love being able to feel wet warmth of lips and tongue on sensitive areas like the back of my neck, earlobes, inside of hips, inner thighs, inside of my arms. That, combined with "almost" touching or grazing very sensitive areas like labia or nipples, and then going back and forth between "almost enough" and "not enough" is really very arousing.

I'm getting close to ovulation, so my imagination is definitely on overdrive right now!

Great question, OP.

Oh dear, I can't pick one thing. All of the above and more. I'm very ticklish and sensitive so my honey can easily tease me in a hundred different ways. I think the most erotic would be the light brushing at the end of my spine and over my butt. It tickles so deliciously!

nipple play is the best tease. On a morning when he's got just enough scruff on his face and brushes his lips and rough chin over my nipples. Feeling his breath get deeper as he does it because he sees how out of control it starts to make me..... mmmmmmm yummy

I think I'm surprised by the number of woman who like scruff and stubble.

It's been so damn long since he and I have done anything sexually or flirthy, that I totally forget. isn't that just pathetically sad?

He knows I love foot rubs but never feels like giving them. And the kisses on the neck and beard along the nape, WOW. But I guess he's forgotten that, too.

^ Remind him?

Or hell, just pounce!

It has been so long since I've been teased. But, if memory serves, it ALWAYS begins with a heavy, weighted glance from across the room. :)

innuendo. conversations about music, art or history. A direct gaze. Intentional personal space invasion. Body parts beneath clothing. Hairy chests....even better
with a touch of grey.

Nothing has to be physically done to tease me.

Turning the tables has always worked well for me as a reminder.

"Do you know what I miss?"
"What do you miss?"
"I miss you doing *this*." *This* being whatever tease you miss--perform it on him, or describe it in great detail, along with a description of how it made you react.

Before you know it--he'll remember ;)